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Noble ranks in Regency England (1811–1820) followed a strict, hereditary hierarchy headed by the monarch and Prince Regent, structured in descending order as Duke, Marquess, Earl, Viscount, and Baron. These peers held seats in the House of Lords. Below them, baronets and knights were considered landed gentry, not part of the peerage.
- Duke/Duchess: Highest rank, often royal or extremely wealthy with large estates.
- Marquess/Marchioness: Second in precedence.
- Earl/Countess: An ancient, esteemed title.
- Viscount/Viscountess: Often held by those with military or political service.
- Baron/Baroness: The lowest rank of the peerage.
- Courtesy Titles: Eldest sons of dukes, marquesses, and earls used their father’s lesser titles (e.g., a Duke’s son might be a Marquess) but were legally commoners until inheriting.
- Baronets & Knights: Addressed as “Sir” (hereditary for baronets, lifetime for knights), they were not peers but part of the gentry.
- Dukes: “Your Grace”.
- Other Peers: “My Lord” / “My Lady”.
- Baronets/Knights: “Sir [First Name]”.
- Duke / Duchess: The highest non-royal rank. Dukes were addressed as “Your Grace”. In the Regency era, this title was often held by members of the Royal Family (Royal Dukes) or those with immense land and political power.
- Marquess / Marchioness: Originally “Lords of the Marches” (border territories). They were addressed as “Lord/Lady [Title Name]”.
- Earl / Countess: A very ancient rank, traditionally rulers of counties. They are also addressed as “Lord/Lady [Title Name]”.
- Viscount / Viscountess: Ranked below an Earl and above a Baron. The title was often awarded for service to the Crown.
- Baron / Baroness: The most numerous and basic rank of the peerage. In conversation, they were always called “Lord/Lady [Title Name]”, never “Baron [Name]”.
- Baronet: A hereditary title that allowed the use of “Sir [First Name]” but did not make the holder a peer.
- Knight: A personal, non-hereditary title awarded for service. Like baronets, they were addressed as “Sir [First Name]”.
- Commoner Status: Legally, everyone except the peer and his wife was a “commoner,” including their children, until they inherited a title.
- Courtesy Titles: Eldest sons of Dukes, Marquesses, and Earls often used one of their father’s lesser titles as a “courtesy title” (e.g., the son of a Duke might be called “The Earl of X”) but remained commoners in the eyes of the law.
- Hierarchy of Age: If two peers held the same rank, the one whose title was older (more ancient) took precedence in social settings
A Regency History guide to dukes, marquesses and other titles
Peers (from left to right): duke, marquess, earl, viscount, baron from A book explaining the ranks and dignitaries of British Society by Lamb (1809)
The trouble with titles
Although Jane Austen rarely wrote about the aristocracy, many of today’s Georgian and Regency romances typically include a fair smattering of peers. In the same way, most Georgian biographies are about peers or their families or those who have at least some interaction with them. The trouble is, I have come to realise that titles are like apostrophes – a lot of people use them wrongly. Some people care as little about getting titles right as they do about apostrophes. I am not one of those people. (And I do care about apostrophes being used correctly too.)
I picked up most of the basic rules for using peers’ titles whilst researching for blog posts and books but having come across some titles recently that I thought were used wrongly, I decided to revisit the subject. This blog is the result of my research. I have limited the scope of this blog to how you would refer to a peer and the members of his family in narrative.
I have written a separate post about titles for married daughters of peers which you can read here.
There are five different ranks in the British peerage: dukes, marquesses, earls, viscounts and barons. Baronets are hereditary titles but are not members of the peerage.
Courtesy titles of eldest sons
Typically, a duke has various other titles besides his dukedom. His eldest son takes the rank of a marquess – the next grade down of the peerage – but his courtesy title will depend on the other titles that his father has at his disposal. He takes the highest of these as his courtesy title eg the heir to the Duke of Devonshire takes the title of the Marquess of Hartington whereas the heir to the Duke of Norfolk takes the title of the Earl of Surrey.
This designation does not make him a peer (so he cannot sit in the House of Lords) but in every other respect this title is treated in the same way as if he were a member of the peerage.
These rules also apply to the eldest sons of marquesses and earls but not to those of viscounts even if they have a barony as well. If a duke, marquess or earl does not have a subsidiary title, his eldest son uses the family name as his courtesy title.
Note that it is only direct heirs that are entitled to use a subsidiary title, so if the duke’s heir is, for example, a cousin, rather than a son or grandson, he will not have a courtesy title.
Dukes

A duke from A book explaining the ranks and dignitaries of British Society (1809)
A duke’s title always relates to a place and not his family name eg The Duke of Richmond rather than the Duke of Lennox.
Let us use the fictitious example of George Hampton, Duke of Wessex, to illustrate. The duke would be formally referred to as His Grace, the Most Noble Duke of Wessex.1
When a duke’s daughter marries, her title will depend on the status of her husband. I am writing a separate blog post on titles of married daughters of peers.
Marquesses

A marquess from A book explaining
the ranks and dignitaries of British Society (1809)
Either marquess or marquis can be used for this title. I am choosing to stick to the older, British designation of marquess.
These titles are usually taken from the name of a place and in most cases the preposition ‘of’ is used eg The Marquess of Lansdowne. There are a few exceptions eg The Marquess Conyngham (from a family name and without the ‘of’); The Marquess Douro (from a place name but still without the ‘of’).
Let us use the fictitious example of George Hampton, Marquess of Denmead, to illustrate. The marquess would be formally designated The Most Honourable The Marquess of Denmead but would normally be referred to as Lord Denmead.
Earls

An earl from A book explaining the ranks and dignitaries of British Society (1809)
The title of earl may be taken from a place name or a family name. If a place name is used, the preposition ‘of’ is usually used; if a family name, ‘of’ is not usually used.
Let us use the fictitious example of Robert Hampton, Earl Hampton, to illustrate. The earl would be formally designated The Right Honourable The Earl Hampton but would normally be referred to as Lord Hampton.
Viscounts

A viscount from A book explaining the ranks and dignitaries of British Society (1809)
The title of viscount may be taken from a place name or a family name. The preposition ‘of’ is only used between the style and the title in the names of some Scottish peers.
Let us use the fictitious example of Francis Hampton, Viscount Hampton, to illustrate. The viscount would be formally designated The Right Honourable The Viscount Hampton but would normally be referred to as Lord Hampton.
Barons

A baron from A book explaining
the ranks and dignitaries of British Society (1809)
The title of baron or baroness may be taken from a place name, a family name or something else.
Let us use the fictitious example of James Hampton, Baron Hampton, to illustrate. The baron would be formally designated The Right Honourable Lord Hampton but would normally be referred to as Lord Hampton.2
Baronesses and other peeresses in their own right
There are some peerages which descend in the female line. These are mostly baronies. The husband of a peeress in her own right takes no title from his wife but the children are treated in the same way as if their father possessed the title.
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often sent their mixed-race (“mulatto”) children to England to be educated and to remove them from colonial, race-based legal restrictions. This practice served to “whiten” them along class and cultural lines, validating and advancing these children by securing their place within British society.
- Motivation: Fathers aimed to protect their children from the stigma and restrictions of West Indian slave societies.
- Education and Lifestyle: These children were often sent to boarding schools and, in some cases, provided with inheritances, allowing them to live as elite, educated members of British society.
- Legal Status: Some fathers went to great lengths, even using special acts of Parliament, to ensure their children were treated as white subjects rather than enslaved people.
- Context: While many remained enslaved, a significant minority of, particularly Scottish, plantation owners took steps to provide for their “colonial families” by bringing them back to the metropole
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History
Early Life
Born Soma Anderson in Sierra Leone, she was betrothed at age three by her parents to Lord Herman Danbury, a man much older than her. She was taught to like all of his favorite things and perform all of his favorite songs on the piano. She married him at a considerably young age. Over the course of the union, she would bear him four children, although she would come to loathe and resent her husband.[2]
King George and Queen Charlotte’s Wedding
After an uncomfortable encounter with her husband, he told her he had a surprise for her, but didn’t tell her what it was. As soon as he fell asleep, she got up and took a bath. She complained to her maid, Coral, that she hadn’t gotten any warning that he would be coming to her. Coral said she didn’t get any warning because Coral hadn’t gotten any from the butler. She suspected the spontaneous coupling was tied in with the surprise, which was that they’d been invited to the royal wedding. She was surprised as their side never mixed with the other, but Coral said the Bassets had also received an invitation. Additionally, she would attend the queen as a part of her court.
They attended the wedding, where Princess Augusta informed them that they would be titled members of the ton, as they would be uniting society. When they entered the wedding, Lady Danbury got a glimpse of the future queen and understood, as she was brown like them.
At the reception following the ceremony, Lady Danbury introduced herself and said she’d be part of the queen’s court. She warned Queen Charlotte to be careful and promised to come if Queen Charlotte sent for her.[3]
Meeting Queen Charlotte
In the days following the wedding, Lady Danbury was subjected to additional attention from her husband as he became frustrated that the men of the ton were not including the newly-titled men in her outings and were not allowing them into White’s.
Lady Danbury was surprised to be summoned to meet with Queen Charlotte. She arrived to find that Queen Charlotte had requested her because Brimsley said she’d be the most discreet about meeting with the queen during her honeymoon, when she wasn’t meant to be receiving visitors. Lady Danbury asked if she could speak freely and Queen Charlotte dismissed her staff so they could. Queen Charlotte admitted that her wedding night had been a disaster and they hadn’t consummated the marriage. Lady Danbury said that meant they weren’t actually married and her position was in danger. Then she drew pictures to illustrate exactly what Queen Charlotte and King George needed to do. She also told the queen that she’d never found pleasure in it, though she supposed one could.
After this meeting, Lady Danbury met with Princess Augusta, who knew she’d had tea with the queen and wanted to know what they’d talked about. Lady Danbury used this as leverage to get Princess Augusta to agree to use her influence to get the other members of the ton to include the newly-titled men in societal events as well as money and an estate for her and her husband. In exchange, she could provide the information Princess Augusta wanted. Lady Danbury and Lord Danbury went to their new estate together and she let him believe that it was his father’s relationship with the former king that caused it.[4]
First Ball
Princess Augusta invited Lady Danbury to another tea. Before she went, Lord Danbury asked her to declare that she wanted to throw the first ball of the year and get Princess Augusta’s support. She promised to address it when he tried to get her to cancel the tea. At the tea, Lady Danbury lied and told her the king and queen were happy together and enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon. She also said she’d spoken to Queen Charlotte about an heir.
Privately, Lady Danbury told Queen Charlotte that she would get through her marriage by focusing on producing an heir.
At a later meeting, Lady Danbury told Princess Augusta that Queen Charlotte showed no signs of being with child. Princess Augusta asked her to keep an eye on that as a royal baby would seal the Great Experiment. Lady Danbury suggested that she could throw a ball, the first of the year, that would also help. Princess Augusta said that wouldn’t be accepted, but Lady Danbury used Princess Augusta’s reliance on her for information to get her support.
Instead of waiting for Princess Augusta’s approval, Lady Danbury decided to send out invitations to the ball, heading her off.
While listening to a young Mozart with Queen Charlotte and the other ladies-in-waiting, Vivian Ledger told Lady Danbury that she’d received the invitation but wouldn’t be able to come to the ball. Several other ladies agreed.
Desperate, Lady Danbury went to Queen Charlotte and told her she needed Queen Charlotte to encourage the other ladies-in-waiting to attend the ball. She also explained the racial tension in the ton and how her life would be different if she were not the queen. She encouraged the queen to think about her country and her people as she held their fates in her hands.
Lady Danbury prepared for the ball and was pleased when several families from the ton who had previously declared they weren’t coming showed up. Lord Ledger informed her that the king sent them a personal note and they decided they couldn’t miss an event the king was attending. Despite their presence, Lady Danbury was displeased that the two sides weren’t mixing. This was resolved when the king and queen arrived and started dancing together, followed by Lord Ledger asking Lady Danbury to dance.[5]
Lord Danbury’s Death and Mourning
That night, Lord and Lady Danbury were having sex when Lord Danbury suddenly collapsed and died. Lady Danbury went to Coral and subtly told her what had happened. Then Coral helped her put on a show for the other servants, pretending to be wracked with grief at his death.[5]
In the days following Lord Danbury’s death, Lady Danbury reflected on her marriage and how she’d been raised to be his wife after being betrothed to him at the age of three. She was taught to love all the things he loved, leaving her not knowing how she actually felt about things. She needed to learn how to exist in the world now that that was over.
After talking to some of the other newly-titled families, Lady Danbury worried that her son might not inherit his father’s title and estate, leaving their future uncertain. To help her figure out where she stood, she sent a letter to her husband’s solicitor and met with him, through which she learned that her husband had depleted much of their money funding their new lifestyle.
During her mourning period, she began taking walks around her property. On her first walk, she met Lord Ledger, whose property shared a boundary with hers. They began walking together daily, talking. She confided in him her troubles with the estate and her son’s title. She also said she had a birthday coming, but it would just be another day spent in mourning.
Wanting to establish some security for herself, Lady Danbury took her eldest son, Dominic, to meet Princess Augusta. Despite Lady Danbury’s efforts, Princess Augusta refused to acknowledge him as Lord Danbury.
When she returned home, she learned that Queen Charlotte was there. Queen Charlotte asked to stay with Lady Danbury, but Lady Danbury knew she had to go home because she was pregnant with the heir to the throne and it would be treasonous for Lady Danbury to hide her. She went to Queen Charlotte and said that if they wanted to be friends, they needed to start over. And if they wanted to live the lives they wished for, they needed to make the men think of them.
Soon after that, Lady Danbury went to leave, but found Lord Ledger at her door. He had a birthday hat he’d made for her because he didn’t want her birthday to pass without celebration. Then they finally gave into the pull and started kissing. They moved to a bedroom, where they had sex.[2]
Starting a New Life
As Lady Danbury prepared to go for another walk to meet Lord Ledger, she told Coral that he was kind and joyful and she felt joy when she was with him. When she met up with Lord Ledger, she was surprised to see he’d brought his daughter, Violet. They subtly said goodbye to each other and parted ways.
Lady Danbury then met with Princess Augusta, who tried to get information out of Lady Danbury and in exchange hinted that she could help solidify her son’s title.
When Lady Danbury told Coral about this, Coral suggested that Lady Danbury give Princess Augusta something small, though Lady Danbury said she couldn’t as she’d promised Queen Charlotte friendship. She also couldn’t trouble Queen Charlotte by asking her to intervene in the issue over her son’s title.
Lady Danbury met with Queen Charlotte, who was progressing in her pregnancy. She said the royal physician had told her it would be quick and painless to give birth, but wanted Lady Danbury’s experience. Lady Danbury said it was the worst pain imaginable, but then backpedaled and said it would only hurt a little and she’d barely remember it.
When Duke Adolphus arrived in London for business, he asked if he could call on Lady Danbury. She said she’d like that. She told Coral it solved her problem, because marrying him would solidify her future.
Queen Charlotte went into labor and Lady Danbury supported her while she gave birth.
After the birth, Lady Danbury continued to socialize with Duke Adolphus. She also met with Princess Augusta, who told her that after her husband died, she had to throw herself on the mercy of her late husband’s father, a cruel man who abused her and her son. But it allowed her to manage her own fate. She urged Lady Danbury not to lose control of her own fate.
At the conclusion of Adolphus’s business, he said he was going to return home. Lady Danbury said she’d see him on his next visit, but he actually wanted her to go with him as his wife. He believed they could be happy together. He told her to think about it and he’d wait for her answer.
Lady Danbury was invited to and attended a ball thrown by the king and queen to introduce the newborn prince. At the ball, Adolphus found her hiding away from the crowd and she asked him what their marriage would look like. He told her she’d have some duties and she’d have to learn the language. And she’d have to have some more children. Though he promised to raise the Danbury children as his own, he would also need an heir. They could even come back to England together every few years. Lady Danbury told him she couldn’t marry him because she couldn’t marry anyone. She’d grown up breathing someone else’s air and needed to learn who she was on her own. It might be a mistake, but it was hers to make.
As Lady Danbury went to leave the ball, Queen Charlotte stopped her and asked her about refusing Adolphus’s proposal. She said she was upset that Lady Danbury didn’t come to her with her concerns over her estate and title. Lady Danbury said she didn’t want to put her burdens on top of the queen’s, but the queen said they had one crown and the burdens were shared. She and the king ruled for the welfare of their subjects, new and old. She expects Lady Danbury to come to her directly with her concerns in the future and address her by her title, ensuring it was hers to keep.[6]
Taking Simon In
Lady Danbury was a dear friend of Simon Basset’s mother, Sarah. When Sarah became pregnant and prepared to give birth, Lady Danbury came to the estate to be at her side. However, Sarah’s husband, the duke, wouldn’t allow her into the room. When the duchess cried out, the duke ran into the room, leaving Lady Danbury on the other side. The duke was only interested in learning if he had a son and when it was confirmed that he did, he took the newborn Simon to present him to the crowd while Lady Danbury went to Sarah’s side. She soon after passed out from blood loss due to hemorrhage and died with Lady Danbury by her side.
Lady Danbury visited the estate a few years later and found young Simon practicing his schooling and not dead as she’d been led to believe he was. She was shocked to learn he didn’t have any manners despite having learned to read and write. He quickly demonstrated that he had a significant stutter. She decided to take him under her wing, saying she’d help him with his stammer and in exchange, he’d promise that when he stood in the light, he’d be worthy of the attention he commanded. When Simon was eleven, she presented him to his father, now extremely accomplished for his age. Despite this, his father still rejected him and called him his worst failure. Lady Danbury was quick to remind him that Simon would be the next duke, though the duke still sent them both away.[7]
Start of the 1813 Season
After the death of his father, Simon returned to London to put his father’s affairs in order. While he was there, Lady Danbury greeted him and encouraged him to join in the social events for the year, including a ball she was hosting. When she put pressure on him, he agreed to make a brief appearance at her ball. At the ball, Lady Danbury notices Daphne, who was struggling to find suitable matches due to her brother’s overbearing presence, something Lady Danbury sympathized with.
At a show, Lady Danbury invited Daphne and her mother to sit in her box. She and Lady Bridgerton gossiped about the king and Lady Whistledown. They also established that Daphne and Simon would make a good match together.[8]
Lady Danbury and Lady Bridgerton were delighted to observe Simon and Daphne’s courtship, unaware they were faking it. Lady Danbury told Simon directly that the two of them made a beautiful match.[7]
Lady Bridgerton later became concerned that Simon and Daphne hadn’t become engaged, though Lady Danbury wasn’t worried. However, she went to Simon and asked him if the time he’d been spending with Daphne was leading toward anything. With Prince Friedrich starting to show interest, Lady Danbury warned him to let her go if he didn’t plan to propose, so that she could be allowed to find a better match. Spurred by this conversation, Simon ended things with Daphne and told Lady Danbury he was leaving London. To that, she called him a fool.[9]
When Simon prepared to leave, Lady Danbury went to see him off, but still told him he was a fool for letting Daphne slip away. She reminded him of how far they’d come, how there used to be two societies, separated by color, until the King fell in love with one of them. She told him love conquers all, but Simon was unconvinced.[10]
When Simon and Daphne became engaged, Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton accompanied them out as they went to events. When the archbishop rejected their special license to marry quickly, Lady Danbury said it was the queen’s doing, as she was taking Daphne’s rejection of her nephew personally. The solution was to make a personal appeal to the queen without begging or insincerity. They just needed to tell her they were in love. She went with them when they appeared before the queen. After they spoke, the queen granted their special license. They married quickly, with Daphne’s family present on her side and Will, Alice, and Lady Danbury present for Simon.
Eloise accused Lady Danbury of being Lady Whistledown. She insisted that she was not, but wanted to know who it was when Eloise figured it out.[11]
When the news broke that Marina Thompson was pregnant and her engagement to Colin Bridgerton was called off, Daphne and Simon returned to London to support her family. Lady Danbury noticed the timing of their return, though Daphne claimed it was purely coincidence. Lady Danbury then invited Daphne to a party she was throwing for married ladies of the ton. Lady Danbury also became suspicious of Daphne and Simon after seeing Daphne and her mother arguing in the garden. Daphne ultimately decided to attend Lady Danbury’s party, where the ladies gambled, drank, and socialized.[12]
When Daphne found the letters Simon had written to his father, which his father left unopened and unanswered, she asked Lady Danbury if she knew about them. Lady Danbury confirmed that she did. The late duke demanded perfection from his son and when that didn’t happen, he abandoned his son. Lady Danbury took up the torch and encouraged Simon.
Lady Danbury then spoke to Simon and asked if his plans had changed. He said they hadn’t and she told him his pride would leave him with nothing. Soon after that, Daphne and Simon danced together, a waltz they’d agreed upon. As they danced, it began to rain. As they danced, they rekindled their romance. When another couple tried to join them to dance in the rain, Lady Danbury stopped them with her cane and sent everyone home.[13]
Hosting the Sharmas
Lady Danbury agreed to host Mary Sharma and her two daughters, Kate and Edwina, so they could search for a proper match for Edwina. Lady Danbury hosted the first ball of the season, which was their introduction to society. Lady Danbury was impressed with how well Edwina had been brought up, speaking multiple languages and playing instruments. She also knew how to dance.
At the ball, Lady Danbury introduced the Sharmas and pointed out suitors who might make good matches for Edwina and even for Kate, who was insistent that she was focused only on finding a match for Edwina. Lady Danbury noticed how strict Kate was concerning who Edwina could dance and socialize with. She also told Violet she was looking forward to showing the other mamas of the ton how it was done. She was shocked when Kate approached saying she, Edwina, and Mary were leaving early.
When Lady Danbury received a letter from Mary’s parents, the Sheffields, she confronted Kate over it. Kate admitted that they’d offered to pay Edwina’s dowry, but only if she married English nobility. She and Mary had always hidden from Edwina how much they struggled to make ends meet and she didn’t want to tell Edwina about the dowry, because she wanted Edwina to marry for love, not out of obligation. She asked Lady Danbury not to tell Edwina.
At the queen’s ball, Edwina was named the season’s diamond, which Kate credited to Lady Danbury.[14]
Royal Races and Soiree
Wanting to keep Edwina away from Anthony Bridgerton, Kate compiled a list of suitable matches, leaving Anthony off. Lady Danbury questioned her about it, but she said he was only looking to marry to fulfill his duty. Lady Danbury reminded her that most marriages in the ton were business arrangements and true love matches were rare.
Lady Danbury later attended the Royal Races with the Sharmas. She introduced them to Thomas Dorset, who claimed interest in Kate when told Edwina already had an escort. At the event, she talked to Violet about Edwina and Anthony’s budding relationship. Lady Danbury said she wanted to remain neutral about it until Edwina had made her choice, but said Kate might be an obstacle. However they both remind each other that last year they helped assist Daphne in finding her husband and succeeded.
At a visit with the queen, the queen told Edwina to let her know if anyone tried to mess with her or break them up. Lady Danbury realized she was trying to use Edwina to identify Lady Whistledown and asked if that was her reason for naming Edwina the season’s diamond.
Lady Danbury decided to throw a party so Edwina could get to know all of her suitors better. She suggested a poetry reading, but it led to all the men showing off their talents. After the last suitor had performed, Lady Danbury thanked them for coming. Anthony Bridgerton then came in and asked for his own shot, despite not having been invited to the party. He started to recite a poem he claimed to have written, but then admitted they weren’t his words, his brother gave him those words. He told Edwina he couldn’t promise love or passion, but he could promise duty and action.
During the party, Kate slipped away to her room. Lady Danbury found her there and suggested she return to the party. Kate said she was upset that Anthony was trying to manipulate her sister, so Lady Danbury suggested she focus on satisfying her own needs. Kate said she just wanted to get Edwina married, then she would leave and never return. She told Lady Danbury she’d become a governess and be content in her life alone, the way Lady Danbury was. Lady Danbury corrected that she was a widow who had lived a full life with her husband. She’d earned the right to do whatever she pleased, unlike Kate.[15]
Trip to Aubrey Hall
Lady Danbury went with the Sharmas when they were all invited to come to Aubrey Hall ahead of the other guests so the two families could get to know each other better. Lady Danbury said the early invitation was a good sign and by the time the other guests arrived, Edwina might have secured herself a proposal. Lady Danbury was excited to see Simon and Daphne’s son, Augie, when she arrived and held him.
Lady Danbury sat with Violet and Mary while the two sets of siblings played a vicious game of Pall-Mall. As they watched, she and Violet looked at Daphne and said they hoped that year’s matchmaking would be as fruitful as the one prior.
That evening, Lady Danbury eavesdropped at the door as Edwina and Kate talked about Anthony. Edwina said she was sure a proposal was coming. At the same time, Violet eavesdropped on Daphne and Anthony talking about Edwina.
The next day, Lady Danbury proposed a toast and left space for Anthony to propose, but he surprised them all by simply thanking them all for coming.[1]
As the visit to Aubrey Hall continued, Lady Danbury watched Kate and Anthony interact. One night, Lady Danbury went to Kate and asked if she’d told Edwina about the strings attached to her inheritance. Kate said there was no point, because she didn’t believe Anthony would propose after all. She worried she’d ruined it because they couldn’t get along, but Lady Danbury told her to be honest with herself about why she was getting in the way of what her family needed for survival and what Edwina wanted. She told Kate to be honest with Edwina about how she felt, however that was. The next day, as they prepared to leave, Anthony came out of the house and proposed to Edwina, who happily accepted.[16]
Shortly after the engagement, Lady Danbury told the Sharmas that Mary’s parents were in London and wanted to meet Edwina and Anthony. She proposed inviting them to the engagement dinner. When Mary claimed a headache, Lady Danbury stepped in to chaperone Edwina and Anthony’s promenade and roped Kate into going with her.
As they walked, Kate said she was upset that Lady Danbury had invited the Sheffields to dinner, as she wanted to save the reunion until after the wedding because she hadn’t told Edwina about the arrangement she’d made. Lady Danbury wondered if she secretly wanted the engagement called off. She told Kate what a scandal that would be, the kind that could ruin her family. It would be foolish to jeopardize the marriage. She asked if Kate was a fool and Kate said she wasn’t.
Later, when the Sheffields arrived for the dinner, Lady Danbury privately told Kate that a life of independence was more than a consolation prize for getting the man she wanted and some would even think it the better prize. Lady Danbury made introductions. The Sheffields were delighted to meet Edwina, but largely ignored Kate, even as dinner started. When they started to talk about Mary’s decision to reject their match for her and marry a commoner instead, Lady Danbury and Violet both unsuccessfully tried to change the subject. After they then revealed the deal Kate had made for Edwina’s dowry, Anthony finally spoke up and told them he wouldn’t stand for them insulting Kate and the other Sharmas. He ordered them to leave, then left himself after they were gone.[17]
Anthony and Edwina’s Wedding
On the day of Anthony and Edwina’s wedding, Lady Danbury and Violet greeted each other. They hadn’t seen each other since the dinner with the Sheffields. When Edwina abruptly left the wedding in the middle of the ceremony, Lady Danbury went to the queen and told her it wasn’t her fault the wedding was called off. The queen said Lady Whistledown would blame her anyway and her words carried a lot of weight. They discussed what they should do and the queen told Brimsley to take all the guests out to the garden and not let anyone leave.
She later talked to Violet and said that while the queen wanted her to fix things and for the first time in her life, she had no idea what to do. Violet asked if she thought Edwina would return to the altar and Lady Danbury said that only Edwina could answer that.
She and Violet talked to the queen, who was upset that the wedding wasn’t going forward.[18]
Harmony Ball
As they returned to public life after the wedding debacle, Lady Danbury reminded the Sharmas to say that it was a mutual agreement between Anthony and Edwina if people asked about it. She also said the ton has a short attention span and with any luck, within a week, they’d have moved on to something else. However, they quickly realized they were being shunned by the rest of the ton, and so were the Bridgertons. When they returned home, Lady Danbury said they needed to change the way the ton thought of them and quickly. She and Violet decided to throw a ball together, to prove they held no ill will toward each other. And in order to sell it, Kate and Anthony would need to stay far away from each other, so no one would see the obvious attraction between them.
At the art gallery, Lady Danbury and Violet spoke to other ladies, who were surprised to see them out and about. Violet told them about the ball and said she’d see if there was still room to invite them, as they were expecting a full house.
The night of the ball, they were shocked when no one else came. As they prepared to send everyone home, Anthony called the younger kids down to join them and started a lively dance. After the dance, Violet expressed her shock that the ton didn’t believe their story. Lady Danbury noticed the maids reading the latest Whistledown and suggested asking them. They learned that the latest issue had reported that Eloise was associating with political radicals.[19]
Kate’s Accident and Recovery
That night, Kate was thrown from her horse and hit her head. Anthony brought her back to Lady Danbury’s, where Lady Danbury, Mary, and Edwina watched anxiously as he put her in bed so the surgeon could examine her. Then they waited by her bedside as she slept.
Lady Danbury met with the queen, who asked why the wedding was really called off, if it was because of Eloise. Lady Danbury said they were busy tending to Kate and didn’t know. They then talked about who else in the ton might marry that year, but realized they didn’t know of anyone.
Finally, Kate woke up and Lady Danbury had someone send for a doctor. While they waited, Kate relayed what she remembered of the accident and asked if Anthony had been to visit her. Lady Danbury said he’d rescued her in the park and brought her home, but hadn’t visited since.
Despite the scandal surrounding the family, Lady Danbury and the Sharmas went to the Featherington ball, meant to be Kate’s last event before returning to India alone as Lady Danbury had offered to host Mary and Edwina for another season. However, at the ball, Anthony proposed to Kate and she accepted.
Six months later, Lady Danbury joined the Bridgertons, including the now-married Kate and Anthony, at Aubrey Hall for their Pall Mall game.[20]
Princess Royal’s Death
When the princess royal died in childbirth, Lady Danbury received the news.[3] With the pressure on to produce an heir, Queen Charlotte called Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton to her to ask them for advice. Lady Danbury had none as her children had all moved continents away from her. She also viewed marriage as a duty, not a pleasure.[4]
Lady Danbury went to the church, where she found Violet lighting a candle for Edmund on his birthday. Violet shared how hard the day was for her and Lady Danbury declared her fortunate, confusing Violet. At a later meeting, Lady Danbury shared how her marriage had been filled with hatred and scorn, which is why she felt Violet was fortunate to have a marriage that was full of love and passion.[5]
Advising Violet
Violet confided in Lady Danbury when she realized she was feeling sexual desire for the first time since her husband’s death. Lady Danbury shared that she never felt sexual desire at all until after her husband had died and told Violet it was okay to want that kind of affection and to pursue it.[2]
While preparing for a walk, Violet and Lady Danbury discussed Violet’s plans to start anew. Lady Danbury said she was happy for her. When Lady Danbury stepped out for a minute, Violet noticed a birthday hat on the mantle like her father had made for her. On their walk, a now-suspicious Violet questioned Lady Danbury about her garden blooming after her husband’s death. Lady Danbury said she had loved and been loved, but that was all she could say as she was discreet. When Violet probed, Lady Danbury asked if she’d ever told Violet about the queen’s brother. Violet was surprised, which Lady Danbury attributed to her discretion.
Lady Danbury went to Violet’s to have tea and saw that Violet had several birthday hats spread throughout the room. Violet told Lady Danbury she was going to pack them away again. She and Lady Danbury shared meaningful eye contact and Lady Danbury said she should keep the hats out because they were lovely and cheerful.[6]
1815 Social Season
Shortly after the 1815 debuts, Lady Danbury attended a social event, where everyone questioned the queen’s absence. Lady Danbury said she thought the queen was a bit reticent after her instincts failed her the previous season.
Lady Danbury then threw the first ball of the season, The Four Seasons Ball. At the ball, she talked to the queen about the season’s debutantes, none of whom had impressed the queen. The queen said that people expected a diamond every season, but diamonds were rare, so they shouldn’t. Lady Danbury reminded her that she’d actually only named one diamond and that Lady Whistledown had actually named the first one.[21]
Desperate mamas began sending the queen gifts in the hopes of her naming their daughters the diamond. The queen quickly grew tired of it and told Lady Danbury that she wouldn’t name a diamond because it would give Lady Whistledown too much satisfaction. Instead, she would call it something else, but was still looking for someone worthy.
Lady Danbury went to the Bridgerton house, where she shared this news with Violet and Francesca and also said that there were several suitors with an interest in music who might make good matches for Francesca.
At the ball, Lady Danbury noticed Violet watching Francesca talk with one such suitor and suggested that Violet let Francesca stay in her natural sphere. When the conversation ended, Lady Danbury summoned Francesca to her and walked away with her.
When the queen decided she was done for the evening and wanted to leave, Lady Danbury got her to stay a bit longer under the guise of seeing a painting. Instead, she led the queen to where Francesca was privately playing pianoforte. Lady Danbury was pleased when the queen applauded the performance and declared Francesca sparkling.
That evening, a footman brought Lady Danbury a letter. She read it and told him to have Mrs. Walsh prepare for a visitor.[22]
Lady Danbury met with the queen to go over the possible suitors for Francesca. When the queen noticed Lady Danbury’s lack of enthusiasm, Lady Danbury admitted she was distracted by an unwanted visitor. The queen offered to have them banished, but Lady Danbury said it wasn’t worth her time and they went back to Francesca’s suitors.
At a party, Lady Danbury talked to Francesca and Violet about all the suitors who had come calling. Lady Danbury said it was as she suspected, as the lower-ranking lords could come first and then the higher-ranking ones would come once they were done. And when the queen thought she was ready, she would introduce Francesca to the highest-ranking of them all. Despite this, Violet reminded Francesca she didn’t have to marry whoever the queen picked.
Later, Benedict approached Lady Danbury and she knew he was doing so to avoid Lady and Dolores Stowell. She said he could express his gratitude to her by taking her for a turn about the room, which he did.
At the hot air balloon debut, the queen introduced Francesca to Lord Samadani, whom she brought from Vienna just to meet her. Violet and Lady Danbury watched them and enjoyed the first sparks of attraction.
At the Innovations Ball, Lady Danbury noticed Violet talking to her newly-arrived brother, Marcus Anderson and introduced them.[23] While they ate together, Lady Danbury asked Marcus why he was there. He said he was there to meet ladies.
At an event, Lady Danbury told the queen that her sparkler was shining brightly. The queen was pleased about that and her recent agreement with Lady Whistledown. Lady Danbury then talked to Alice, who was there alone because Will was at his club. Lady Danbury told her that the queen wouldn’t look kindly on Will working at the club and impressed upon Alice the need to show Will that his new life was worth the sacrifice.
Lady Danbury decided to leave early and Marcus asked her where she was going. She told him she’d done what she needed to do for the night, so she was leaving. He’d heard that she molded society to her will and asked her to help him find a lady. She asked him to leave her out of his raking about town, but he said he was pure of heart.[24]
When Marcus learned that Colin and Penelope Featherington were engaged, he asked his sister if it was her doing. She said it wasn’t, but she was pleased by it.
Lady Danbury then went to see the queen, who was pleased that Lady Whistledown hadn’t antagonized her while reporting on Francesca choosing John Stirling over Lord Samadani. She believed it showed a weakness and that made it the perfect time to unmask her. To that end, she offered a monetary reward to anyone who helped.
Lady Danbury attended Colin and Penelope’s betrothal party, where she and Violet watched the couple from above and commented how one would be foolish to question the match.
After Francesca introduced John to her brother and he failed to find the words to tell a story, Violet questioned the match. Lady Danbury commented that they were very similar, but Violet thought that might hold Francesca back.
Later in the evening, Anthony and Kate told Lady Danbury and Violet that they were expecting, to their delight. However, when they went to tell the rest of the party, they were surprised when Cressida Cowper stood up and declared herself Lady Whistledown and then Penelope collapsed.[25]
Lady Danbury was pleased when Alice and Will told her they were planning to sell the club. She encouraged them to draw some positive attention to themselves by throwing a ball. They reluctantly agreed.
Noticing that Marcus and Violet had caught each other’s eyes, Lady Danbury started to introduce her brother to other widows, hoping to keep him away from Violet. She finally confronted him about it when he tried to follow Violet as she left the Mondrich party. He asked what he’d done to draw such hatred from her and believed it was due to their childhood, in which their father favored him for being the first son, despite Lady Danbury being the firstborn. Lady Danbury said she didn’t care about that, but did care about Marcus ruining her chance at happiness by foiling her plan to run away the night before her wedding. She knew it was him as she heard their father thanking him. She told him he could have any lady he wanted except her friend.[26]
Lady Danbury was pleased when the real Lady Whistledown published an issue discrediting Cressida’s claim to the name. She talked to Violet, who was also relieved as Cressida’s version of the column had heavily disparaged the Bridgerton family. Violet asked Lady Danbury if she could arrange an audience with the queen so Violet could talk to her about Francesca and John. Lady Danbury advised against it, as the queen was already upset about Lady Whistledown. But she said she could try if Violet wanted. Violet said she didn’t have to do that and told Lady Danbury she enjoyed their friendship and not just for what Lady Danbury could do for her. Lady Danbury said that meant a lot to her.
Lady Danbury went home to find Marcus waiting for her. He apologized for sabotaging her escape and said he was only ten years old and didn’t understand what she was running away from. All he knew was that the world was dangerous for young girls and he wanted her to stay longer so he could prove himself to her. He wished he’d stood up to their father for both of them, as he had hurt both of them. She admitted she’d been hard on Marcus because she was finally happy and she worried he’d take that away. He said he wished to be part of her joy and they left to attend Colin and Penelope’s wedding together.
After the wedding, they went to the wedding breakfast, where the queen interrupted. She dismissed everyone except the Bridgertons. Lady Danbury stayed and heard the queen declare that she knew Lady Whistledown was among them and demand that she reveal herself. The queen backed off when Anthony promised he would not have let something like that continue in his house.[27]
Lady Danbury played chess with the queen, who knew she was distracted. The queen asked if Lady Danbury knew who Lady Whistledown was and if that’s why she was defending the Bridgertons, to keep the secret. Lady Danbury said she only meant to suggest that perhaps, Lady Whistledown wasn’t trying to beat the queen at her own game, but instead just trying to stay in the game herself.
Lady Danbury then met with Violet and they talked about Violet seeing Marcus. Lady Danbury said that they didn’t need her approval and she only needed to know that Violet was a good friend. They quietly established that Violet knew that Lady Danbury had had an affair with Violet’s father, but Violet insisted that Lady Danbury was a good friend and her father was a good man and that was all she needed to know. They also agreed they wouldn’t let Marcus come between them.
Lady Danbury attended John and Francesca’s wedding and then the Dankworth-Finch Ball. At the ball, the queen came at Penelope’s request and allowed Penelope to address the crowd and reveal herself as Lady Whistledown. After she explained why she’d done it, the queen said it appeared she’d been humbled and influenced the crowd to agree. Then the queen left. Lady Danbury came to Penelope and admitted that she suspected Penelope was Lady Whistledown, as she knew the Bridgertons well enough to know it wasn’t any of them. She said she looked forward to Penelope’s next issue.[28]
1816 Social Season
As the 1816 social season started, Lady Danbury went to the palace, where she talked to the queen about Violet’s ball, the first of the season, taking up the mantle from Lady Danbury. She asked if the queen was going, but the queen was disinterested in dressing as anyone but herself. When the queen became impatient that Penelope hadn’t arrived, Lady Danbury reminded her she’d only just sent for her.
At the ball, Lady Danbury talked to Violet and discovered that she and Marcus were dressed in the same costume, Zeus.
Later in the evening, Lady Danbury talked to the queen and said that she was fine with Violet taking up her torch because she wanted to step back from society and travel for a while, going to the ancestral home she hadn’t visited since she was four. The queen thought about it and told her no.[29]
Personality
The legendary, acerbic, lioness of a dowager who runs this town. Unconcerned with the rules of polite society, Lady Danbury is a straight shooter – both formidable and a little scary. And while her judgments may be sharp, they’re always accurate. She is a friend of Simon’s late mother, having shown the now Duke a rare kindness when he was a child.
Relationships
Romantic
She was married to Lord Herman Danbury until his death.
She had a brief fling with Lord Ledger.
She was courted by Duke Adolphus before rejecting his proposal and declaring she would never marry again.[6]
Familial
Her father-in-law was a king.[4]
Friendships
Sarah Basset
Lady Danbury was a close friend of Simon’s mother, the Duchess of Hastings. She was at her side when Sarah gave birth to the long-coveted male heir, and saw her die shortly after. Years later, Lady Danbury took Sarah’s son under her wing and helped him grow with the love and affection he lacked from his father.
Violet Bridgerton
When Violet’s daughter, Daphne, was losing her social capital, Lady Danbury proposed the idea to set up Daphne with Simon. They were quite pleased when their plan seemed to have worked, and chatted gleefully about the future in store for Daphne as the new Duchess of Hastings.
Their goals for the following season meshed again when Violet’s eldest son, Anthony, started courting Edwina Sharma, whom Lady Danbury was sponsoring. When Violet learned about the conditions of Edwina’s dowry, she was at first hurt that Lady Danbury had not told her, but they made up after the failed wedding.
Mary Sharma
Lady Danbury sponsored Mary’s daughters for the 1814 social season. Many of the ton were still scandalized by Lady Mary’s presence, after her decision years before to marry a working-class man and single father, rather than the noble gentleman her parents had chosen for her. Lady Danbury was not one of those people. She nudged the queen to select Edwina as the season’s diamond, and advised the older Kate on what she wanted with her life.
Notes and Trivia
- Lady Danbury has royal blood of the Kpa-Mende Bo Tribe in Sierra Leone.[2]
- There are several portraits of Lady Danbury in her home, painted in the style of the period. The artist who did the portraits also stood in for Lady Whistledown during shots that show her handwriting as calligraphy.[30]
- Golda Rosheuvel, who portrays Queen Charlotte, originally auditioned for the part of Lady Danbury.[31]
- Adjoa Andoh, who portrays Lady Danbury, requested that her character wear a hat. Men in the Regency period often had a cane and a hat. Adjoa wanted her character to embody some of the masculine within her feminine, to reflect the position of wealth and power that she had within a society that didn’t allow women a huge amount of freedom.[32]
- Adjoa thinks getting Lady Danbury a love interest would be a good idea.[33]
- In the books, Lady Danbury often uses her cane to poke people and swing around to make a point. Adjoa thinks that if Lady Danbury were to use her cane more often in the show, she would injure someone.[33]
- In the series it has never been made clear what Lady Danbury’s rank is, but in the books she is a countess.
Gallery
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Memorable Quotes
- Lady Danbury: When I was a girl, some centuries ago, I was afraid of my own reflection. I entered a room and attempted to dissolve into the shadows. But there is only so long for one in a position such as ours can hide. I knew that I would have to step into the light someday and I could not very well be frightened. So, instead, I made myself frightening. I sharpened my wit, my wardrobe, and my eye, and I became the most terrifying creature in any room I entered.[7]
- Simon: Neither, it appears, has your ability to somehow hear of every piece of gossip that transpires in this town.
- Lady Danbury: When will you accept it? I know all.[13]
- Lady Danbury: Oh, I do relish a challenge.[14]
- Queen Charlotte: Why do I sense my strings being pulled, Lady Danbury?
- Lady Danbury: You said you wanted to shake up the season. Now is your chance.[14]
- Lady Danbury: Some advice, Miss Sharma? When one is frustrated, it is often much wiser to focus upon satisfying one’s own needs. Attempting to influence others as to the correct course of action, well, it is often a trying and irritating endeavor that only brings out the worst in us before we discover it has been fruitless all along.[15]
- Kate: I watch you. I see you. You are more than content.
- Lady Danbury: Because I have lived a life. I am a widow. I have loved. I have lost. I have earned the right to do whatever I please, whenever I please, and however I please to do it.[15]
- Simon: I must ask you to accept my regrets.
- Lady Danbury: Your regrets…are denied.[8]
- Lady Danbury: I know all that goes on in my home.[14]
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Appearances
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- A Bee in Your Bonnet, 2×03
- Gardens in Bloom, 1×05 (QC)
- Queen to Be, 1×01 (QC)
- Honeymoon Bliss, 1×02 (QC)
- Even Days, 1×03 (QC)
- Crown Jewels, 1×06 (QC)
- Shock and Delight, 1×02
- Diamond of the First Water, 1×01
- Art of the Swoon, 1×03
- An Affair of Honor, 1×04
- The Duke and I, 1×05
- Oceans Apart, 1×07
- After the Rain, 1×08
- Capital R Rake, 2×01
- Off to the Races, 2×02
- Victory, 2×04
- An Unthinkable Fate, 2×05
- The Choice, 2×06
- Harmony, 2×07
- The Viscount Who Loved Me, 2×08
- Out of the Shadows, 3×01
- How Bright the Moon, 3×02
- Forces of Nature, 3×03
- Old Friends, 3×04
- Tick Tock, 3×05
- Romancing Mister Bridgerton, 3×06
- Joining of Hands, 3×07
- Into the Light, 3×08
- The Waltz, 4×01
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- The Burden of the Patriarch: After Edmund’s death, Anthony was thrust into the role of Viscount at just 18. Violet, paralyzed by grief, was unable to support him. This created a dynamic where she later criticized his leadership as a way to “shake him up” to become the man Edmund was.
- The Ghost of Edmund: Violet constantly used her late husband as a benchmark. When Anthony behaved coldly or prioritised duty over love, she viewed it as a betrayal of the Bridgerton values.
- Fear for His Happiness: Violet’s biggest fear was that Anthony would live a loveless life. Her harshness was often a misguided attempt to push him toward the “love match” she believed everyone deserved.
- The “Seismic” Apology: In the season finale, Violet offers a profound apology to Anthony. She admits she failed him when he was a teenager and acknowledges the unfair burden he carried while she was grieving.
- Different Needs: While Violet is more “gentle” with children like Daphne or Francesca, she is “stern” with Anthony because he challenges her and has the heaviest responsibilities.
- Fighting for His Heart: She was the only one who eventually saw through his “mask” and convinced him that “true love is worth it,” even if it brings the pain of loss.
Bridgerton, Lady Violet’s reaction to Anthony’s relationship with Siena Rosso is often viewed as a significant point of emotional disconnect between mother and son. While Violet advocates for “love matches” for her daughters, her approach to Anthony’s affair is notably harsher.
- Contradictory Standards: Fans often point out that while Violet encourages Daphne to follow her heart, she actively shames Anthony for his connection to Siena. She views Siena as a distraction from his “duty” rather than a legitimate romantic prospect.
- The “Man of the House” Pressure: Violet repeatedly compares Anthony to his late father, Edmund, telling him that his father would have already “settled” family matters. This pressure forces Anthony to prioritize his station over his feelings, leading him to abruptly end things with Siena multiple times.
- Class Prejudice: Because Siena is an opera singer—a profession often equated with sex work in the Regency era—Violet dismisses the relationship as mere lust. She likely believed Anthony was “escaping reality” rather than finding true love.
- Trauma & Withdrawal: Violet’s dismissive attitude toward his heartbreak, combined with the trauma of Edmund’s death, leads Anthony to conclude at the end of Season 1 that love is a “difficulty” to be removed from all future relations.
- Strained Relationship: Some viewers argue that Violet’s tactics border on emotional manipulation, as she projects her grief and expectations onto Anthony, causing him to shut her out for years.
- Role-Driven Distance: Violet’s approach to her children is individual, and with Anthony, she adopts a more serious, demanding tone in her role as mother-and-son manager.
- Shared Loss: The emotional peak between them arises when they finally discuss their shared grief over Edmund, allowing them to connect over their mutual trauma.
- Guidance over Affection: Violet frequently advises Anthony to prioritize the family, often confronting him about his actions in his father’s office—a space that represents his heavy responsibilities.
- Hidden Emotion: Their scenes, particularly in Season 2, show intense, though often subdued, emotional undertones rather than overt affection.
- The Specific Moment: After Edmund’s death, Violet is hysterical and, in her immediate need for support, tells a stunned, traumatized young Anthony that he must take over and look after the family, disregarding his need to process the loss of his father.
- Long-Term Impact: This moment directly causes Anthony to believe he must never show vulnerability, leading to his rigid, protective, and emotionally distant behavior in season 1.
- The Aftermath: It takes until the end of season 2 for this wound to heal, as Violet finally realizes how much her son suffered in silence because she relied on him too heavily during her own grief.
Bridgerton, Lady Violet’s “wounding” of Anthony is largely unintentional and rooted in her own deep-seated grief and high expectations for her eldest son.
- Emotional Abandonment (Post-Edmund’s Death): Following his father’s sudden death from a bee sting, Anthony was thrust into the role of Viscount at just 18. Violet, consumed by paralyzing grief and possible postpartum depression, was emotionally absent, leaving Anthony to navigate the family’s trauma and legal responsibilities alone. This forced him to stifle his own feelings to “be the man” his father was.
- The “Duty” Comparisons: Violet frequently wounded Anthony by comparing him to his late father, Edmund. She often suggested that Edmund would have handled situations with more grace or decisiveness, which Anthony interpreted as a sign that he was a failure or a “waste of space” in her eyes.
- Sharp Critiques in Season 1: In the first season, Violet was particularly harsh regarding Anthony’s lack of focus on finding a wife for Daphne, telling him he was failing his duty. These “digs” were meant to motivate him but instead deepened his resentment.
- The Season 2 Escalation: During Anthony’s bungled courtship of Edwina Sharma, Violet’s attempts to push him toward a “love match” (ironically what she had with Edmund) actually triggered his trauma. He viewed her intense love for Edmund as a weakness that destroyed her when he died, leading him to resolutely reject love to avoid the same fate.
Birth and Childhood
As Simon was born, his father waited outside, only concerned with whether or not he would have an heir. When his mother cried out, his father ran inside the room, where Simon was then born. After learning it was a son, he took Simon out to show him off while Sarah died of a hemorrhage.
When Simon was four and still not speaking clearly due to a stutter, the Duke ordered Simon out of his sight, saying Simon was dead to him. Simon continued to be schooled by nursemaids, though his father refused to see him. When he was six, Lady Danbury came to visit and was surprised to find him alive, as his father had told her Simon was dead. When she learned of his stutter, she took him as a ward, promising to help him overcome his stutter on the condition that when he stepped into the light, he would be worthy of the attention he commanded. By age 11, Simon was speaking well and came to visit his father to show him. He had also written his father letters, which had gone unacknowledged. The duke re-iterated Simon’s uselessness and sent him away again.
Years later, Simon came to his father’s bedside when he learned his father was dying. The duke was glad to see him coming to claim his title, though Simon simply told him he would never marry or sire an heir. He pledged that the line would die with him.[2]
1813 Social Season
Right at the start of the 1813 social season, Simon returned to London to settle the affairs of his recently deceased father. Upon his return, Lady Danbury invited him to a ball she was throwing, though he had no interest in socializing. At the ball, he ran into Daphne Bridgerton, who didn’t realize who he was until her brother, Anthony, introduced them, as he knew Simon from their time together at Oxford.
Simon made it clear to Anthony that he had no interest in finding a wife or ever marrying. He intended for his title to die with him. Despite this, Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton arranged a match between Daphne and Simon, believing it would be a good pairing. As part of this arrangement, Simon dined with the Bridgertons. He was surprised at the family dining together, even the children, and amused by the conversations that passed across the table. He and Daphne talked at the table and agreed they were not right for each other.
At a subsequent event, Daphne was avoiding Nigel Berbrooke, a man her brother wanted her to marry but in whom she had no interest. Nigel followed her outside and cornered her in the garden. She punched him to get him off just as Simon arrived in the garden. When Daphne realized she was alone in the garden with two men, she realized she might have to marry Nigel to avoid a scandal. Instead Simon proposed that they pretend to be growing closer, as it would get the mamas off his back and raise her social capital, make her more desirable to suitors. She agreed and they returned to the event together.[3]
Simon and Daphne negotiated carefully how often they should be seen together and how many dances they should share together. As predicted, Daphne’s increased social capital that came with courting a duke brought in many other potential suitors. Despite this, Anthony continued to insist that Daphne should marry Nigel Berbrooke, not believing Simon a serious suitor.
While sparring with Will Mondrich, a boxer and friend of Simon’s, Simon was interrupted by Anthony, who sparred with Simon instead, trying to get him to back off Daphne so she would marry Nigel. Simon said Nigel was hardly a saint, though Anthony believed he was better than Simon.
At the next event, Simon and Daphne continued with their arrangement, much to Anthony’s annoyance. Simon and Anthony argued over Daphne until they were interrupted by Nigel, who restated his interest in Daphne. However, Simon then revealed to Anthony what had happened with Nigel in the garden and Anthony ordered Nigel never to speak to Daphne again. Nigel then confronted Simon outside and they got into a physical fight after Nigel taunted Simon about his father. Nigel then went to get a marriage license, reminding Daphne that he could ruin her reputation by telling everyone about them being in the garden alone together. Daphne then resigned herself to that outcome, until she and her mother learned that he had an illegitimate child he refused to provide for and used that information to get him to flee London. With him gone, Daphne and Simon continued their arrangement.[2]
Simon and Daphne’s arrangement continued. She said she needed it to continue until she found a husband and he agreed. At a ball, Daphne told Simon she wasn’t impressed by the suitors there. Just then, Prince Friedrich of Prussia arrived and engaged with Cressida Cowper until the queen brought him over to introduce him to Daphne.
Simon and Daphne went to see the artwork he had donated that previously belonged to his father. While looking at the painting which was said to be his mother’s favorite, he and Daphne had a charged moment. When a noise from outside broke the spell, they quickly pulled apart from each other. Simon then decided not to attend the opera and instead went home for the night.
While walking with Daphne, Simon told stories of his time at school with Anthony. During this walk, Daphne also talked to Simon about the expectations of the marital bed. He said it was a natural extension of when you touch yourself. When she was confused, he clarified that she could touch herself between her legs and carry on until the feeling grew and she reached a release.
Soon afterward, Lady Danbury chastised Simon, saying if he was spending this much time with Daphne, he either needed to propose or get out of the way so she would not miss out on another promising match, such as a prince. The next day, Simon and Daphne met outside a tea shop and he abruptly ended their arrangement, confusing Daphne. He then gave orders to expedite his departure from the city. When he told Lady Danbury of his early departure, she called him a fool.[4]
Simon went to Will to tell him he was leaving England early. Will begged him to stay for an upcoming fight, where he wasn’t favored to win and wanted Simon’s support. Simon agreed to stay. At the fight, he noticed Daphne sitting with the prince. Instead of watching the fight, he spent much of the match watching Daphne instead. They ended up watching each other while cheering for opposite sides.
After the match, Anthony went to Simon and said he misjudged Simon. He realized that Simon’s intentions with Daphne were always honorable and now Daphne has a prince in line.
Lady Danbury came to see Simon off, but was upset with him for letting Daphne go. She wanted him to go for love, but he wasn’t convinced it was a good idea.
Simon then went to Daphne to say goodbye to her. She told him she was going to marry the prince and be happy, but he knew she was putting on a front. They went to go back inside the ball, but they ended up kissing. They continued until Anthony spotted them and knocked Simon to the ground. He ordered Simon to marry Daphne immediately, but Simon insisted that he could not. Anthony then challenged him to a duel at dawn. This upset Daphne, who didn’t like that Simon would rather die in a duel than marry her.
Simon went to Will’s to get a drink. He explained to Will about the duel, which he said an apology wouldn’t get him out of. The two of them went out at dawn for the duel. They meet with Anthony and Benedict. Simon tried to apologize to Anthony but Anthony refused to accept the apology and found it meaningless. They did their paces and faced each other. Simon aimed at the sky while Anthony fired at Simon. Just as he fired, Daphne rode in between them. They feared for a moment that she’d been hit, but she was unharmed. She had come to tell Simon that he had to marry her or she’d be ruined as Cressida Cowper had seen them in the garden alone together. Simon repeated that he couldn’t marry her and privately told her that he couldn’t give her children. He said she must allow her brother to finish the duel. Daphne then surprised him by saying she’d marry him anyway.[5]
Following this engagement, Simon spent the night drinking before meeting Daphne, her mother, and Lady Danbury in the morning for a walk. On the walk, people noticed that the couple didn’t seem as happy as the purported to be, though Lady Bridgerton chalked it up to nerves.
Simon then met with Anthony to get the special license to marry immediately. Anthony brought up Daphne’s dowry, but Simon immediately refused it, saying he wouldn’t be paid to marry Daphne and found the whole concept insulting. He said the money could be placed in trust for Daphne to spend as she saw fit as her well-being was now his responsibility and he took it very seriously. The archbishop then arrived and told them they hadn’t been granted the special license. When they told Lady Danbury and Lady Bridgerton about this, Lady Danbury said they simply needed to appeal directly to the queen, who was hurt over Daphne choosing Simon over Prince Friedrich. They just needed to convince her they were in love and they said they could do that.
That night, Simon went to Will’s house and got drunk. He felt guilty that his impulsive actions forced Daphne to have to fight for a marriage she didn’t really want. When he woke the next morning, he invited Will and Alice to his wedding.
When they went before the queen, Daphne started off lying about how it was love at first sight for them, but then Simon interrupted and confessed to the whole ruse, but surprised Daphne when he confessed that love had come to them slowly, after they first developed a friendship. This speech swayed the queen and the two of them were quickly married. After a reception, the newly married couple got in their carriage to leave. Simon told Daphne that as the trip back to his estate was too long for one night, they would spend the night at an inn. He’d reserved them separate rooms, unsure if she’d want to stay with him. However, later in the evening, Simon went to Daphne’s room and they had sex.[6]
After their night at the inn, Daphne and Simon continued their trip to their new home. When they arrived, the housekeeper, Mrs. Colson, had a tour planned, but Simon said he had his own plans and whisked Daphne off to their bedroom. Daphne eventually pulled herself away to tend to her new duties as the duchess. While she went to tend to that, Simon also got to work. At the end of the day, they came together again for dinner. Simon was shocked at how formal the setup was, so Daphne moved closer to him so they could have a conversation as they ate. Their dinner was quickly interrupted when they started kissing and ended up going outside to have sex. Their passion continued over several days.
Simon and Daphne went to a fair. They met with several villagers and sampled their wares. When they learned that a farmer’s rent had been tripled, threatening his livelihood, Daphne asked Simon if there was anything they could do about it. Simon then got to work on the books. He told Daphne that everything had been mismanaged in his absence, which made more work for him. He set up an office in the east wing so he could work there. One night, Daphne came to Simon, who was working late. They ended up having sex in his office and he used a cloth after pulling out, rousing her suspicion. The next time they had sex, Daphne positioned herself on top of him and refused to move, forcing him to ejaculate inside of her for the first time. This led to a fight, as Daphne was angry that Simon had lied to her and Simon was angry that she had taken advantage of him. This led to them sleeping in separate bedrooms for the first time in their marriage.[7]
Things remained tense between Simon and Daphne, with each of them doing things intentionally to irritate the other. They communicated through their servants. When Daphne received news that her family was involved in a scandal, she immediately prepared to return to London to be with them. Simon insisted on joining her, saying it would be weird if he didn’t.
When they arrived back in London, Daphne immediately went to see her family while Simon went to spar with Will. Will quickly realized he was working out his anger and asked him what was wrong, though Simon denied anything.
As part of the plan to improve her family’s appearance, Daphne secured them an invitation to the queen’s luncheon. Simon attended with them and told those who asked that they were making an effort to conceive an heir. When they were alone again, Daphne noted how easily he’d lied about that.
Simon went to the club, where he and Anthony shared a drink. Anthony then asked Simon what he’d done, as he’d noticed the change in Daphne and knew she wasn’t capable of messing up so seriously herself. The argument escalated to a physical fight, leading to Simon and Anthony being pulled off one another.
When Simon turned in for the night, Daphne came to his room to tend to his wounds. She sat in his lap and start kissing him, asking if a child would really be such a horrible thing. He told her his father cared more about continuing the line than he cared about Simon or his mother. Daphne said continuing to stand by the promise he made to his father meant he hated his father more than he loved Daphne.
Simon and Daphne attended a concert together, but parted ways as soon as they arrived until the show started. As they watched, Daphne had a sudden realization and left her seat. While she was determining that her courses had started, Simon cried in his seat.[8]
Daphne and Simon posed for their portrait, painted by Henry Granville. As they posed, Simon assured Daphne that as soon as the portrait was completed, he’d be leaving London. Daphne asked him to delay his departure to the end of the season and asked him to attend a final ball with her. He agreed. They had a moment of connection during this conversation, where Henry said they were the picture of devotion.
Simon ran into Daphne one evening and she asked him what his father did to make him make such a pledge, something that denied him happiness. He simply told her he was doing it for her own good and she’d be better off without him.
Simon then attended Will’s fight and was upset when Will decided to throw the fight in order to secure his family’s financial future through gambling. He was upset that Will didn’t come to him when he needed more money, but Will wanted to take care of his own family.
Next Daphne invited Simon to a family gathering to welcome Francesca home. At the meeting, Simon easily charmed the youngest Bridgertons.
As they prepared to start the ball, Simon and Daphne negotiated their final dance together. During the night, they mostly stayed apart and did their own thing. Finally, they met for their dance. However, shortly after it began, it started to rain. Simon tried to pull Daphne to shelter, but she insisted on continuing to dance in the rain. After their guests all sought cover, Simon and Daphne started talking and Daphne explained that she understood why he made that vow to his father, but she still wanted him to choose to be happy.
Simon later said he didn’t know how to be the man Daphne needed him to be, but he wanted to be happy and didn’t want to be alone. They decided to work through it together. They started kissing and had sex. When the moment came, he did not withdraw.
Simon and Daphne told her family that they had decided to stay in London for a while longer.
Some time later, Daphne gave birth to a son. Simon said that whatever they named him, it needed to start with an A, to maintain the family tradition.[9]
Personality
Having newly returned to London, the Duke of Hastings finds himself the primary topic of conversation amongst marriage-minded misses and ambitious mamas alike. Yet, for reasons of his own, our devastating Duke has zero interest in his title, society, or taking a wife.
He is reserved and keeps his emotions close to his chest, is morally upstanding and values honour. He is kind and humorous, willing to poke fun with Daphne when at balls.
Relationships
Romantic
Daphne Basset
Simon came to London and attended his godmother’s opening season ball, where he literally bumped into Daphne Bridgerton, his friend Anthony’s younger sister, who had just debuted on the marriage market, and the Queen’s newest diamond. They faked a courtship in order for Daphne to attract suitors after Anthony scared all her suitors away, which resulted in Lady Whistledown writing scandalous gossip about her, and also so that Simon would seem unavailable to the other debutantes hoping to become his Duchess. However, they eventually fell in love for real. They have one child together, Augie.
Familial
Simon’s mother, Sarah Basset, died in childbirth, and his father died shortly before the start of the 1813 social season. Simon had a strained relationship with his father. Throughout Simon’s childhood, his father lived almost exclusively in London and rarely returned to Hastings House, leaving only the staff to care for Simon. His father only cared about having a son, so he could carry on the family line. He called Simon his biggest mistake because he had a stutter. On his father’s deathbed, Simon vowed to never have children so the Hastings line would die with him.[7]
Simon’s primary mother figure is Lady Danbury, a close friend of his deceased mother.
Friendships
Anthony Bridgerton
Simon has been friends with Anthony Bridgerton since their time at Oxford together. Things were tense between them for a while because Anthony was against Simon courting Daphne and found them alone together. After Daphne told Anthony and Simon that Cressida had also spotted them alone together in the garden, she said she would have to marry Simon to avoid a scandal. They did so and Anthony and Simon repaired their friendship.
Will Mondrich
He spars with Will Mondrich, and also gets along well with Will’s wife, Alice Mondrich. Will and Alice also attend his and Daphne’s wedding.
Rivals
Nigel Berbrooke
Nigel Berbrooke was the only one showing interest in Daphne after Anthony scared away all her suitors. He eventually got Anthony to agree to promise him Daphne’s hand in marriage, and tried to corner her in the garden to convince her to accept him, when Simon, who was nearby, witnessed her punch him out cold. It was after that that he offered Daphne a way out of marrying Nigel — he would pretend to court her in order to attract better suitors to her.[3] Nigel was upset when Simon’s scheme worked and he suddenly found himself competing with a crowd of new gentlemen for Daphne’s hand. He was even more upset as well as angered when Simon revealed to Anthony what Nigel had attempted in the gardens with Daphne, which resulted in the viscount calling off the arranged marriage and forbidding Nigel to speak to Daphne again.
Nigel caught up with Simon and tried to convince him to revoke what he said, stating that he was already a duke with money, title, and standing, and that Nigel needed Daphne, the season’s diamond, to get some respect. When Simon refused, Nigel accused him of already being with Daphne, insulting her. Simon warned him to cease, but Nigel continued, going on to insult Simon’s late mother, which finally caused Simon to snap and punch Nigel in the face.
Despite Nigel’s later attempt to blackmail Daphne into marrying him, Violet Bridgerton and her staff undermined his plans by getting the secret of his illegitimate son from his mother’s maid and then spreading it around the ton, forcing him to flee, and Daphne eventually ended up marrying Simon[2].
Prince Friedrich of Prussia
In the middle of Simon’s ruse with Daphne, Queen Charlotte introduced her to her nephew, Prince Friedrich, hoping to match the two of them. Simon saw clearly that the Prince was interested in Daphne, and came to believe that he was the perfect husband for her. Lady Danbury told him that if he wasn’t serious about Daphne, he needed to break it off before she lost her chance with the Prince, and so Simon ended his ruse with her, pretending to no longer care, even though he was jealous after Daphne welcomed Friedrich’s attentions as a suitor.[4]
Despite his reservations, Simon approached Daphne when Prince Friedrich started to show signs that he would propose to her. Simon asked her if she truly believed that the prince was the best man for her, which upset Daphne for questioning her choices. She stormed through the garden, and he followed her, ending in them sharing a moment of passion in the darkness, when they were caught by Anthony, who commanded Simon to marry Daphne to restore her honor. Despite Simon refusing, he and Daphne ultimately agreed to be married,[5] and she broke it off with Prince Friedrich, who returned to Prussia shortly afterwards.[6]
Professional
Career
Notes and Trivia
- Actor Regé-Jean Page drew inspiration from classic Romantic poet Lord Byron to craft the character.
- In the book The Duke and I, on which the first season is based, Daphne and Simon’s firstborn is a girl named Amelia, not a boy. In fact, the couple would not have their first son until their fourth child, named David.
- According to Simon, Anthony once let a farm animal into Simon’s dormitory as a prank, and Simon had to help get it back out.[4]
- According to Lady Danbury, Simon is quite fond of gooseberry pie, a dish that the Bridgerton cook is renowned for.[3]
- The diamond- and emerald-encrusted enamel brooch that Simon wears on his lapel belonged to his late mother Sarah.[10]
- Luke Newton, who portrays Colin Bridgerton, and Jonathan Bailey, who portrays Anthony, both originally auditioned for the role of Simon.[11][12] Tom Payne from Prodigal Son also auditioned for the role, but was told he was not tall enough.[13]
Daphne Basset
Childhood and Father’s Death
When Daphne was a child, her father died. When her grief-stricken mother went into labor, she tried to comfort her sister, Eloise, by singing to her to drown out their mother’s screams.
1813 Social Season
At the start of the 1813 social season, Daphne made her debut in front of the queen. Queen Charlotte looked at her and declared her flawless, instantly making her the most promising young lady in the circuit. This was also supported by Lady Whistledown’s Society Papers, a leaflet being written by an anonymous society lady and distributed throughout town, which declared her the season’s Incomparable.
Daphne attended social events, meeting potential suitors. She quickly grew frustrated at her brother, Anthony, for dismissing all of her options. After escaping a conversation with Nigel Berbrooke, she ran into Simon Basset, who believed she was faking when she said she didn’t know who he was. Then her brother appeared and recognized Simon as an old schoolmate, now the Duke of Hastings. Anthony introduced them, but soon afterward took Daphne home for the night, insisting that she leave the suitors wanting more.
The next day, Daphne and her family awaited callers. Some came, but cowered under Anthony’s stare. This was not helped by Lady Whistledown declaring that Marina Thompson, not Daphne, was the season’s Incomparable. Daphne wanted to attend future social events without Anthony, but her mother said he’d already set their calendar through June, so Daphne confronted Anthony about him ruining her prospects.
She attended another event, where she and her mother were invited to sit with Lady Danbury during a performance. Her mother and Lady Danbury used the opportunity to set up a match between Daphne and Simon, leading to Simon coming to the Bridgerton house to dine.
While her mother liked the match, Anthony refused to support it, claiming that Simon had no intention of marrying anyone. Instead, he insisted that Daphne marry Nigel. Daphne fled the conversation and went to a secluded place to get some air. Nigel followed her and proposed marriage to her. She refused him, but he tried to force himself on her, prompting her to punch him and knock him out.
Simon arrived just at that moment. Nigel woke up and asked Daphne to marry her, which Simon called the least romantic proposal. Out in the garden, Simon instead proposed that, as a solution to both their problems, they pretend to be courting each other. It would make her look more desirable to other suitors while also allowing him to settle his father’s affairs without the mothers of the town harassing him to meet their daughters. Simon and Daphne then re-entered the event together, drawing lots of attention.[2]
With Daphne seemingly courting a duke, her social capital raised and she suddenly had many potential suitors vying for her attention. She and Simon continued to meet up often, making plans for future appearances together to keep up the illusion of their relationship. This influx of new suitors angered Anthony, who insisted on Daphne marrying Nigel, saying Simon would never marry her. Despite Daphne’s insistence that she didn’t want to marry Nigel, Anthony continued to push her toward him until he learned what Nigel had done in the garden with Daphne. He quickly forbade Nigel ever to speak to Daphne again.
Despite this, Nigel acquired a wedding license for the two of them and presented it to Daphne, making it clear he’d start a scandal for them if she refused him. Backed into a corner, Daphne accepted her fate. After hearing the queen say her butler was a huge gossip, Violet had an idea. She invited Nigel’s mother to tea with her and Daphne. While they socialized, Daphne’s maid learned from Nigel’s maid that he had an illegitimate child he refused to support. Daphne and Violet then spread this gossip until Lady Whistledown picked it up, at which point everyone in town knew and believed it. Nigel was forced to flee London, ridding Daphne of the problem. She and Simon then continued their arrangement.[3]
Simon and Daphne’s arrangement worked as intended, drawing in a slew of new potential suitors. They continued their arrangement, with Daphne saying it would need to continue until she found a suitable husband. She still considered all her options, telling her family she didn’t want to narrow herself to Simon prematurely, as he had not proposed. She was not impressed by most of the attention she drew, but then Prince Friedrich arrived and she drew his attention. He pursued her, but she was reluctant to let him court her due to her relationship with Simon, especially after they had a moment together while looking at artwork.
They continued their ruse until Simon ended things, feeling like he was holding Daphne back from a great match, particularly a prince. After taking a night to grieve, Daphne picked herself up and went to the next event, where she immediately drew eyes. She granted her first dance to Prince Friedrich.[4]
Now on the prince’s radar, Daphne and her mother were invited to the palace to meet with him and the queen. At the meeting, the prince gave Daphne a necklace. As he put it on her, she imagined he was Simon. Daphne then went home and fielded questions from Hyacinth, who was excited at the prospect of being the sister of a princess.
Daphne went with Anthony to a fight. After they arrived, he left her more or less on her own so she could sit with the prince and talk to him. As the fight began, Daphne ended up watching Simon instead of the fight and they watched each other as they cheered for opposing sides.
Back at home, Daphne talked about how the fight went and pretended she didn’t notice if Simon was there as she was focused on the prince. Anthony then came in and said the prince had asked for his permission to propose to Daphne and Anthony hadn’t objected. Sensing Daphne’s hesitance, Violet came to Daphne and asked if she liked the necklace the prince gave her. When Daphne admitted that she wouldn’t say she liked it, Violet said wearing it would tell people that she was taken, specifically Simon, and she might not want to limit her options. When pressed, Daphne admitted that she and Simon had concocted a scheme to make it seem like they were courting to attract better matches for Daphne. And it had worked, because she had a prince interested in her. Violet still believed that what Daphne and Simon had was love, which is what she wanted for Daphne.
At the next ball, Cressida Cowper, who had been making progress with Prince Friedrich before Daphne changed her mind, confronted Daphne, upset because Daphne had many options and had taken the one Cressida wanted. Daphne merely told her that the prince had made his choice. Daphne went to dance with the prince. While they were dancing, Daphne became overwhelmed and went outside for air. She pulled off the necklace as soon as she was outside. Simon then approached her. He told her he was preparing to leave England. She told him she was going to marry the prince and became upset when Simon asked her if she’d be happy doing that. She tried to leave, but he followed her into the garden and kissed her. Daphne then kissed Simon and Anthony found them still locked in a kiss, knocked Simon to the ground and insisted that he marry Daphne. Simon said he couldn’t, leading Anthony to challenge him to a duel to protect the family’s honor. Daphne was upset at the prospect of a dangerous duel and hurt that it appeared Simon would rather die than marry her. Anthony pretended Daphne had a headache and took her home early.
While speaking to Colin about the duel after Anthony and Benedict had left for it, Daphne realized that Cressida had seen her and Simon in the garden, meaning she had to marry Simon or be ruined. She and Colin quickly rode to the location of the duel. Daphne rode between the two men just as Anthony fired at Simon. She explained the situation to the two men, but Simon remained insistent that he couldn’t marry her. When pressed, he admitted it was because he couldn’t give her children and knew that she wanted them. He said she needed to allow her brother to finish the duel. Daphne said there was no need for that as she and the Duke were engaged.[5]
After this engagement, Daphne ran home and made it appear as though she’d been in her bed all night. When her maid came in to wake her, she asked if her mother was awake and went to see her. She told her mother she was engaged and her mother assumed it was Prince Friedrich. Daphne then corrected that it was Simon. She also said they were seeking a special license to marry immediately. Lady Bridgerton assumed it was because they were so consumed with passion they couldn’t wait and Daphne went along with that explanation. Her mother was thrilled that her daughter would not only be gaining a title but marrying for love.
Prince Friedrich came to see Daphne and she apologized to him, saying she and Simon just couldn’t help from falling in love.
Daphne and Simon then went for a walk with her mother and Lady Danbury. They met up with others, who seemed to notice the couple wasn’t as happy as they purported to be. Daphne then went to see Genevieve to get a wedding dress which would be beautiful. Lady Bridgerton also said Daphne would need new nightdresses, which Daphne didn’t understand, Genevieve explained it was for the honeymoon. Cressida came into the modiste and quietly confronted Daphne about what she had seen, though Daphne denied everything. She then told Cressida firmly that she will be a duchess in a number days while Cressida is still going to be unmarried and without a title so Cressida could either be a friend or an enemy to a duchess.
Daphne was shocked to learn their special license had been denied, though Lady Danbury knew immediately that the queen was behind it and said Simon and Daphne need only appeal to her directly, being honest without begging. Daphne and Simon appeared before the queen. Daphne started off saying that they simply loved each other, but Simon interrupted, saying they had an initial attraction, but then they found friendship while fooling everyone. And then the feelings grew from there. He then asked the queen not to make them wait. The queen then asked Daphne if she wanted to marry Simon.
The family gathered for Daphne and Simon’s wedding, with her mother and siblings on her side and Lady Danbury, Will, and Alice on his. They were quickly married. At the reception, Anthony told Daphne about Simon refusing her dowry and said the money would be put in trust for her to use, perhaps for their children. The mention of children brought Daphne to the brink of tears and she left the room. Her mother found her in her bedroom and began to tell her about the expectations of her wedding night, specifically an act that leads to children, while refusing to speak in specifics about what that entails. Daphne wondered if that act would still happen if someone couldn’t have children.
Daphne and Simon then climbed into their carriage. Simon said his estate was too far, so they’d be staying at an inn for the night especially since the roads there are unsafe after dusk. He reserved them separate rooms, but he came to her room later in the evening and an intense discussion revealed both loved each other but believed their love to be unrequited. At their declaration they begin to kiss passionately and make love.[6]
After their night at the inn, Daphne and Simon continued their journey and arrived at their new home. Simon surprised Daphne by sharing his intention for them to share a room, where he immediately took her. Daphne finally pulled herself out of their bed to attend to her duties as the new duchesss. Mrs. Colson gave her a tour and she talked about the rooms she wanted to redecorate to her tastes.
That evening, they dined together. Simon was surprised by how formal the dinner setup was and was told that’s how the previous duke liked it. Daphne simply moved her plate to sit closer to Simon so they could talk. He encouraged Daphne to redecorate however she wanted and advised her that she need not be so formal in their home. They started kissing at the table and eventually left the table and had sex outside. They continued to have a passionate relationship.
Daphne and Simon attended a fair. Daphne was tasked with choosing the best of a group of pigs. When she learned that the one she chose would be slaughtered, she declared it a tie. She and Simon then wandered the fair, sampling people’s wares. A farmer approached them and said it was hard to make ends meet with the rent being tripled and Daphne assured him they’d find a solution.
Daphne and Rose worked together to put together gift baskets to hand out to the residents while Simon looked over everything that had been mismanaged in his absence. Once the baskets were put together, she tried to distribute them, but the villagers rejected them. When Daphne came upon a villager she’d met the day before, she asked about it and Joanna told her that traditionally, the owner of the pig chosen at the fair got the pork contract for the year from the estate. She didn’t choose a pig, which meant no one got the contract and the associated income. Daphne then went to make amends with Mrs. Colson, whom she felt hated her, and welcomed her guidance for how to proceed as duchess.
After an encounter with Simon in his new office, Daphne went to Rose and asked how a woman gets pregnant. When she learned, she realized why Simon had been pulling out and finishing outside her body. Hurt at his deception, Daphne positioned herself on top of Simon, leading to him ejaculating inside of her for the first time. They argued over his apparent deception in telling her “I can never give you children,” implying that he was physically incapable of having children rather than that he had chosen to not have children, as well as Simon’s feelings of being trapped by Daphne into possibly having a child. Daphne felt similarly trapped by his deception into a life without children with a husband who misled her about whether he was capable of fathering children. They ended up sleeping in separate beds.[7]
Daphne and Simon’s relationship remained tense, with them communicating through servants or not at all. Daphne asked to have her things moved out of their shared bedroom, which Simon objected to, saying he wanted her there because she was his wife and he wanted to be kept apprised of her efforts to have a child. When the next issue of Lady Whistledown’s paper came out, Daphne told Rose they had to pack immediately and return to London as her brother was involved in a scandal, and Simon insisted on going with her, saying “separate bedrooms may be tolerated, separate households will not be suffered. I shall not let you out if my sight until we know whether you are with child.”
When she returned home, Daphne immediately spoke to her mother about the need to improve the family’s public image and made plans to attend the queen’s luncheon with her family, which would show they still held favor with the duke and duchess. Daphne then went to Colin and told him he was lucky to learn about the deception before they were married instead of after. When he asked to speak to Marina, Daphne said she might be able to arrange a chaperoned visit.
Late that night, Daphne was unable to sleep and seeing Simon returning to the house she questioned where he’d been. He refused to say, making her wonder whether he was with other women. She took this to mean there was nothing left of their marriage. They ended up kissing frantically and then he went down on her in the staircase. She asked him to come to the bedroom and finish what he’d started, but he refused. He told her if she was pregnant, he would stay and support the child, but if she wasn’t, they would remain married in name only, while living separate lives.
Daphne chaperoned a visit between Marina and Colin, where they made peace with what had happened between them. From there, she went to the queen’s luncheon with Simon. While they were there, they dutifully played the happily married couple. Seeing the ease with which Simon lied about their efforts to have a child unsettled Daphne. At the luncheon, Daphne also spoke to Lady Danbury, who noted that Daphne’s plan worked and their return meant people weren’t talking about Colin and Marina anymore. She then invited Daphne to a party she was throwing for the married ladies of the ton.
The now disgraced Featheringtons enter the luncheon and are promptly asked to leave. Cressida snidely says “that ought to teach them,” leading Daphne to pointedly respond “teach them what? Judging not, lest we too be judged?” before walking away as Simon looks on with admiration.
Daphne walks to a quiet spot in the garden and stops in front of a statue of Athena, the goddess of war, wisdom and practical reason. She’s followed by her mother, who appeals to Daphne to tell her what’s troubling her. Daphne is critical of her mother’s refusal to tell her any of the specifics she needed to prepare her for married life, telling her “you sent me into the world no better than a fool.” Lady Danbury walks in on the discussion and Lady Bridgerton attempts to cover the dispute as Daphne walks away, claiming the duchess is overcome by the heat. Lady Danbury gives her a dubious look.
Daphne then went to the Featherington estate to speak to Marina privately. Marina told Daphne about George and how she loved him. Daphne offered to contact the general and see if she could find out where George was and bring him back to take responsibility. Marina was dubious, but Daphne said she was capable of more than people thought. She checked with Rose to see if the general’s wife would be at Lady Danbury’s party as she prepared to go. Rose said it was highly likely, so Daphne said she’d attend the party.
At the party, Daphne met several ladies, the general’s wife, Kitty, among them. They drank and gambled over card games. Daphne asked Kitty about her husband, but she admitted he was rarely home, which she liked. She did say she could tell where Daphne to write where she might get a response.
Daphne came home to find Simon with a cut over his eye from a fight with Anthony. As she began tending to his wound, the two move closer and kiss as Daphne sits in his lap. She asks, “Why won’t you unfold yourself to me?” adding that a child would be a blessing, but he pushes her away. He told her his father cared more about carrying on the title than he ever cared about Simon. On his father’s deathbed, he vowed that the family line would die with him. Daphne was angered by this, as he’d made a vow to her as well. She then told him her courses were due in a few days and then they would know if they’d be miserable together or happy apart.
Daphne wrote and sent the letter to the general. When she told Marina about it, Marina asked if she’d signed Simon’s name as well, knowing it would be taken more seriously if she had. Marina didn’t believe the general would write back, but Daphne wasn’t sure he wouldn’t.
Daphne and Simon went to a concert together, but parted ways after their arrival. When the concert started, they sat together and Simon surprised Daphne by holding her hand. Daphne then realized something and got up in shock. She left the room, where she pulled her dress up and wiped herself, coming back with blood. She started crying and continued to wipe herself. Her mother found her and held her while she cried. In his opera box, Simon hears his wife weeping at the loss of her chance to have children and he looks quietly miserable.[8]
Daphne and Simon posed for a portrait together. Henry Granville noticed the tension between them. They quietly talked about Simon’s departure from London. Henry then stopped painting and adjusted their pose. When they made eye contact, Henry told them they were the picture of devotion.
Daphne then told her mother that she and Simon were going their separate ways. Her mother pleaded with her to consider forgiveness, but she said Simon was choosing a grudge over happiness. While they were talking, they were approached by Lady Featherington, who expressed her daughters’ sadness at not being invited to the ball. Lady Bridgerton suggested she tell her daughters why that was, but Daphne said maybe they could make more room. Daphne then overheard Lady Featherington learning that a Mr. Crane was at her house. Believing it was George there for Marina, she accompanied Lady Featherington back home.
Daphne arrived to learn that it was not George, but his brother, Philip, bringing news that George had died on the battlefield. Marina confided in Daphne that Philip had found a half-written letter in George’s things promising that he loved her and they’d get married and raise their child together. Because of Daphne’s inquiries, they’d been able to find Marina and deliver the news to her.
While Daphne was busy preparing for the ball, she spoke to Simon and asked him what his father did to make him vow never to produce an heir. He just told her he was doing it for Daphne’s own good. Curious, Daphne searched the house until she found the letters Simon had sent his father, left unopened. She opened them all and read them. She then asked Lady Danbury about them and learned that Simon had difficulty speaking as a child and his father rejected him as he wasn’t perfect.
The next morning, Simon was surprised to find Daphne in the dining room having breakfast. She told him she’d be going to her family’s home to welcome Francesca back. She asked him to join her and he agreed. They had a happy visit with her mother and her siblings.
Simon and Daphne looked at their newly-finished portrait and agreed it was an excellent likeness. Daphne noted how good Simon was with her young siblings, but he simply said that children loving him didn’t mean he wanted his own. As guests started arriving, Daphne told Simon they had one last dance.
As the ball got underway, Daphne spoke to Eloise, saying she looked beautiful, but acknowledging Eloise’s discomfort and giving her permission to spend the rest of the evening in the library. Eloise in turn thanked Daphne for being perfect so she didn’t have to be.
After a conversation with her mother about the grief she felt after the death of Daphne’s father, Daphne found Simon for their last dance together. As they danced, it began to rain heavily, but Daphne refused to be escorted to shelter. Seeing their interaction, Lady Danbury told the guests that the party was over and it was time to go home. Simon apologized to Daphne because the rain had ruined their party, but she told him that just because something isn’t perfect doesn’t mean it’s not worthy of love and she hated that his father taught him otherwise. She told him she couldn’t stop pretending she didn’t love him. He could choose to love her back as much as she loved him.
Simon later went to Daphne and told her he didn’t want to be alone, but didn’t know how to be the man she needed him to be. Daphne assured him that he did know and they’d get through it together. They started kissing and then undressing. They proceeded to have sex and when the moment came, he didn’t withdraw.
A few months later, Daphne labored and gave birth to a son. After holding him, Daphne handed him to Simon. When Daphne asked about a name, he said he supposed it should start with an A, as they had a family tradition to carry on.[9]
1814 Social Season
Daphne accompanied her family for Eloise’s debut. Eloise was extremely nervous on the way to the palace, but Daphne tried to calm her down and give her advice for when she approached the Queen. When Eloise’s entrance was interrupted by news of Lady Whistledown’s return, sending the guests into chaos, Daphne simply joked that she would not miss the drama of the social season now that she is wed. She wished Anthony good luck in finding a bride among the debutantes before returning home to her husband and child.[10]
Daphne returned to her family’s country estate for their country party, bringing baby Augie with her. Daphne became excited upon hearing that Anthony had invited a potential bride and her family to their party, hoping it meant he was smitten with her. She greeted Lady Danbury and the Sharmas when they arrived at the estate. She saw Anthony speaking to Kate Sharma and mistook her for Edwina Sharma, the girl he was courting. She was corrected and introduced to Edwina. Later, Daphne spoke to Kate and Edwina about the game they were to play and how her brothers and sisters competed in it every year. During the game, Daphne watched Anthony and Kate leave to retrieve their balls from a nearby bog. Daphne went on to win the game.
After the game, Daphne talked to Anthony about his relationship with Edwina. He said it was going well and Daphne said if he truly believed Edwina was right for him, she was happy for him. At dinner, Daphne noticed that Anthony kept looking at Kate, despite Edwina sitting right next to him.[11]
Hearts and Flowers Ball
Daphne helped her mother prepare for the family’s annual Hearts and Flowers Ball. When Daphne suggested a change to the flowers, Violet was impressed and said she’d taught Daphne well. As they greeted their guests, Daphne commented that she hadn’t really gotten to know Edwina and didn’t think Anthony had either. Wanting to get to know Edwina better, Daphne played cards with her, Mary, and Lady Danbury. They talked and Edwina said she thought she knew what she wanted in a match and Anthony matched that. Daphne commented that Edwina didn’t seem to know Anthony at all. When Edwina mentioned that Kate had gone hunting with Anthony to get to know him better, that got Daphne thinking.
Daphne later told her mother that Edwina was certainly a diamond, but she pictured Anthony being with someone more like himself. She felt that Anthony was a Bridgerton and part of all of them would always require a challenge, a statement Violet agreed with. Daphne then went to Anthony and asked if they really knew each other well enough to get married and wondered if he couldn’t find someone he had more in common with. He told her not to concern herself with it.
After watching Anthony get emotional while dancing with Kate and then catching the two of them alone in a room together, Daphne pointed out the similarity between that and when he caught her with Simon. Anthony said it wasn’t what she thought and he was planning to propose to Edwina and nothing happened with Kate, despite Daphne knowing he held affection for her. He denied it, but she said it was obvious there was something between them.
Before the Sharmas could leave, Anthony retrieved the ring and proposed to Edwina, who happily accepted. As this unfolded, Daphne and Violet shared a knowing look.[12]
Anthony and Edwina’s Wedding
Daphne came back to town for Edwina and Anthony’s wedding. She apologized for being late, saying she had doubts it would go forward at all. She told Anthony that Edwina deserved to know the truth, but Anthony said he’d gone too far to turn back. It would ruin Edwina and scandalize their own family. Daphne asked him about Kate, but Anthony said she had her own plans that didn’t involve them. Daphne said she wished their father was alive because he was the only one Anthony truly respected and when he died, Anthony changed. Daphne told Anthony he could still choose to be happy, but he said he needed to fight for the family he had, not the one he wanted. She said she was sad for him.
When Edwina abruptly left in the middle of the ceremony, the family gathered to try to figure out what was happening. Violet saw Anthony glancing at Daphne, and realized that Daphne knew something and demanded that Daphne tell her. When the guests learned the wedding would not happen, they gossiped about why Edwina had called things off. When Violet overheard some of these remarks, Daphne came to her an escorted her home.[13]
Pall Mall Game
Daphne returned to Aubrey Hall again the next year for another game of Pall Mall. When newlyweds Anthony and Kate were late to the game, Daphne commented that six hours was nothing for newlyweds. When Anthony and Kate embraced after arguing over the game, Daphne took it as them cutting out, but they insisted that they weren’t.[14]
Personality
The picture-perfect young debutante has been waiting her entire life to make her grand debut on the marriage mart. Poised to be the season of 1813’s forthcoming Incomparable, Daphne’s set to take the town by storm – but not everything goes exactly as planned for this diamond of the first water. Her brother Anthony’s overzealous public vetting of every potential suitor eventually scares off most of the Ton’s better prospects, but not even Anthony anticipates the effect of his sister literally running into a certain Simon Basset, Duke of Hastings.
Relationships
Romantic
Simon Basset
Daphne first met Simon Basset at Lady Danbury’s ball as she was trying to escape the attention of Nigel Berbrooke. When Daphne was pursued and attacked by Nigel at the next ball, she punched him just as Simon walked in on them in the Dark Walk. Fearing what would become of her reputation if she were caught alone with two men, Daphne made haste before Simon came up with a plan to form a false courtship to make Daphne more desirable in society and himself less likely to be pursued by debutantes and their mothers.[2].
During their ruse, Daphne and Simon developed feelings for one another.[3] They attended more balls together, allowing Daphne to gain more attention from potential suitors, including Prince Friedrich. During a break from dancing, the two looked at art pieces Simon had donated. Looking at a misty landscape painting that was a favorite of his mother’s, Simon confessed to not being sure what about the work appealed to her. Daphne regards it thoughtfully, saying, “it is very beautiful. It reminds me of waking up in the country, first thing in the morning, when I’ll alone. I haven’t yet spoken to a soul. I look outside the window an it is…serene. As if I could be the only person left in the world and yet somehow I am not lonely. Certainly the others are grand and impressive, but this one – this one is intimate.” As Daphne speaks about the painting, the camera slowly zooms in on her face and Simon’s. As Daphne’s explanation gives Simon new insight into his mother and into Daphne herself, they slowly reach out and take each other’s hands.
As their friendship blossomed, Simon explained to Daphne what happens on a married couple’s wedding night. Following a conversation with Lady Danbury, who urged him to walk away if he had no intention of marrying, Simon abruptly ended their “courtship” the next day and apologized for his suggestion, all to Daphne’s dismay. The two attended the next ball separately, where Daphne made a grand entrance down the main staircase and danced with Prince Friedrich as Simon stormed out in quiet jealousy.[4]
Despite his rather cold dismissal of her, Daphne could not forget Simon, fantasizing about him even when with Friederich. When the prince was about to propose, Daphne ran into the gardens, where she met again with Simon. When she declared she was going to marry the prince, Simon went after her and kissed her, which she returned. Anthony caught them and commanded Simon marry Daphne to restore her honor. When Simon refused, Anthony challenged him to a duel. Daphne tried to talk Simon out of it, but he told her he couldn’t marry her because he could not give her children. Despite this, Daphne declared she would marry him.
She later married Simon, and became the new Duchess of Hastings. On their wedding night, they discussed their feelings and discovered they both loved each other, but each had believed their love to be unrequited. They consummated their marriage and arrived at their new home.[7]
Nigel Berbrooke
Daphne met Nigel Berbrooke on her first ball as a debutant. He introduced himself to Daphne but right afterwards he made Daphne feel awkward and disgusted with him due to claiming he’d been keeping an eye on her since the time he was at school, when Daphne had five years old, and inmediatly avoided him for the rest of the evening. Much to Daphne’s distaste, he visited her at the Bridgerton estate. Daphne at first tried to resist being left alone with him by taking Eloise’s hand forcing her sister to stay by her side but their mother insisted with the excuse of going out with Penelope. Daphne had no other choice but to receive Nigel and listen to him while he was trying to persuade her to marry him. The next day, during an event at Vauxhall Gardens, Anthony informed Daphne that he’d promised her to Nigel Berbrooke. In the need to have a moment for herself and some fresh air, she left and hide in the garden. There, Nigel approached and while Daphne assured him she’d never marry him despite of what her brother has said, Nigel acted as if he was doing her a favor as if he he’s her last hope. Daphne punched him in the face when Nigel grabbed her knocking him out at the same time Simon arrived to help her.[2]
During Daphne and Simon’s ruse in order to give Daphne many choices of marriage, Nigel was concerned about it since Anthony had promised him his sister’s hand to marry him. Nevertheless, during an event, Simon confessed to Anthony what he tried to do to Daphne, which he responded by calling off the engagement and demanding Nigel of never approaching Daphne ever again. Despite this, Nigel, managed to get a special license and threatened Anthony with spreading the rumor of Daphne being alone with him at the Vauxhall Gardens, which would ruin Daphne as well as her entire family’s reputation. Feeling with no other choice, Daphne reluctantly accepted marrying Nigel, despite of much she despises the idea. However, Violet came up with a plan in order to get rid of Nigel Berbrooke for good inviting his mother and her lady’s maid to have tea together. They found out Nigel had an illegitimate son with a maid, refused to provide for and sent both the maid and child away to live off scraps. So, Violet had Mrs. Wilson to start talking spreading the gossip. Their plan succeded, with Lady Whistledown writing about the rumor of Nigel’s bastard son, this lead Nigel Berbrooke to leave town, disappearing of Daphne’s life for good.[3]
Prince Friedrich
The queen introduced Daphne to her nephew, Prince Friedrich of Prussia, hoping to match her nephew with her latest diamond. Sadly, Daphne paid little attention to Friedrich, as her heart belonged to Simon, until the latter broke off their agreement and left her heartbroken. Daphne welcomed Friedrich’s attention after that, and they began properly courting. Friedrich planned to propose to Daphne, but a series of events led to her choosing to marry Simon instead. She apologized to Friedrich, saying she couldn’t help but fall for Simon, and the prince left England to return home.
Familial
She grew up in a large family, the fourth of eight siblings. She describes her childhood home as being filled with love. Atypically, the whole family dined at the table together, even the youngest children.
Violet Bridgerton
Daphne saw her parents as the ideal love match, and wanted to find love similar to theirs. Violet wanted to make that happen for Daphne, and both were excited when Daphne was named the season’s Incomparable, helping her search. When Anthony started scaring away Daphne’s suitors, Violet stood up for her and called Anthony out on hurting Daphne’s future. Though Violet was excited about Daphne capturing Simon’s attentions, she welcomed the other suitors who also courted Daphne. Violet scolded Anthony upon hearing he had promised Daphne’s hand to Nigel Berbrooke, and relieved when Anthony called off his arrangement. When Nigel tried to blackmail Daphne into marriage, Violet was the one who came up with the scheme to get rid of him. After inviting Nigel’s mother to tea, she revealed to Daphne that she had the servants get gossip from the Berbrooke maid to drive Nigel out of town. Violet then made sure the secret of Nigel’s illegitimate son was spread around for Lady Whistledown to catch wind of and publish it, driving Nigel out of London.
Violet saw the connection between Daphne and Simon, and patiently waited for him to formally propose. She was quite concerned and disappointed when Daphne chose Prince Friedrich, as she truly believed her daughter to be in love with Simon, and vice versa. Violet was overjoyed when Daphne announced she was engaged to Simon after all.
The mother-daughter relationship hit a snag when Daphne learned, without help from Violet, how children are conceived, and felt like her mother had deceived her and sent her into the world unprepared for married life, which she confronted Violet for. However, in the end, their relationship was mended when Violet encouraged Daphne to fight for her marriage, encouraging her and assuring her that there was nothing she could not do. Violet even attended to Daphne at the birth of her first child, Augie.
Anthony Bridgerton
Anthony was overprotective of Daphne when she made her debut, scaring off many suitors and tarnishing her reputation as the season’s Incomparable. She told Anthony that she faces pressure to marry well, and neither his interference nor her Bridgerton lineage helped her desperate situation. He arranged for her to marry Nigel Berbrooke, despite her clear objections. When Simon appeared to be interested in Daphne, Anthony was furious, and continued to push for Daphne to marry Nigel, until he found out Nigel had attacked Daphne in the gardens; Anthony cancelled any plans for marrying her to Nigel and threatened him to stay away from her. He was remorseful of his choice when Nigel attempted to blackmail Daphne into marriage.
When Nigel was run out of town by Lady Whistledown, Anthony loosened the reins concerning Daphne’s season and welcomed new suitors to her. When Prince Friedrich asked Anthony for Daphne’s hand in marriage, he simply replied that it was up to her. Anthony was furious when he caught Daphne and Simon in a heated moment, tearing them apart and demanding Simon marry her at once to restore her honor. When Simon refused, Anthony challenged him to a duel which ultimately did not go through when Daphne declared she would marry Simon.
The following social season, Daphne was delighted when she learned that Anthony had invited a potential bride to the family’s ancestral house. She teased Anthony, promising to help him the way he helped her when she was looking to marry. Despite Anthony saying he was courting Edwina, Daphne noticed his attachment to Kate. When she walked in on them almost kissing, she tried to encourage Anthony to follow his heart. After Anthony proposed to Edwina, Daphne was doubtful, and tried to convince Anthony to be honest about his feelings for Kate and Edwina.
Colin Bridgerton
Daphne gets along with Colin due to being the sibling who is closest to her age. At her first ball as a debutant, Daphne was excited after hearing Colin’s plans to travel around the continent. When Anthony challenged Simon to a duel, Daphne begged Colin to tell her the exact location where they would have their duel. After the secret of Marina’s pregnancy became public, Daphne inmediatly returned to London to help Colin face that scandal, arranging a meeting with Marina at her place acting as a chapherone.
Eloise Bridgerton
Daphne and Eloise could not be more different in terms of goals and interests. Daphne, proper, gentle, and a true lady of her time, is the ideal noblewoman and bride who wants nothing more than to find true love and have a family of her own, excited for her social season. Eloise, independent, sharp-tongued, and honest to a fault, is completely disinterested and outright opposed to the idea of marriage altogether. Eloise at first wished that Daphne might never marry, knowing that after she did, their mother would put the pressure on Eloise to wed. When Eloise entered her first season, she confessed that she felt as though she were living in Daphne’s shadow, since she had been the season’s diamond, the perfect debutante.
Despite all their differences, Daphne and Eloise truly care for each other. Despite Eloise not wanting Daphne to be married, she was happy when she was saved from marrying Nigel Berbrooke. Daphne tries to give Eloise advice for her presentation to the queen. Like their mother, Daphne wishes to see Eloise happy, even if her idea of Eloise’s happiness is different from her own. At the ball at the end of the season, Daphne also allowed her sister to go and hide inside the library, aware that Eloise didn’t like those events.
Hyacinth Bridgerton
Daphne is quite close with her youngest sister. Like Daphne, Hyacinth wants to find true love and form a family. Hyacinth is the sibling who gets happiest and most excited about Daphne’s suitors. When Daphne was courting Prince Friedrich, Hyacinth was overjoyed by the possibility of becoming the sister of a princess.
Francesca Stirling
Like with Hyacinth, Daphne is close with Francesca. It is seen that Francesca looks up on her, saying that she wasn’t ‘like everyone else’ when Daphne is presented to Queen Charlotte and called her ‘flawless’. Daphne was very happy to see Francesca when she came back from practicing her pianoforte and her sister was delighted for having now the duke as ‘another brother’.
Rivals
Cressida Cowper
Daphne and Cressida both entered their first season together, competing for the top pick of eligible bachelors. Daphne’s fortunes exceeded Cressida’s upon being named the season’s Incomparable.[2] Their “rivalry” became particularly heated when Prince Friedrich arrived in London in search of a wife. Cressida was clearly interested, but Friedrich pursued Daphne instead. Cressida finally caught the prince’s favor and was making progress with him[4] until Daphne changed her mind about the duke and went for Friedrich, who dropped his pursuit of Cressida as a result. Cressida saw this as a betrayal, as Daphne had many suitors but stole the only one Cressida had. When Daphne had a heated moment with the Duke of Hastings in the gardens, Cressida saw, and hinted to Daphne that she knew, subtly threatening to spill the scandal and ruin Daphne.[5] When she saw Daphne at the modiste, she taunted her, accusing her of using Friedrich to make the duke jealous and trap him into marrying her, but Daphne shut her down, reminding Cressida that she was to be a duchess while Cressida was to remain unmarried and untitled, so it would be unwise to make an enemy of her. Even at Daphne’s wedding reception, Cressida was snide and smug, calling her keeping Daphne’s secret a “kindness.”[6] During a luncheon hosted by the queen, Cressida and her mother attended while Daphne did the same with her husband. Daphne shut Cressida down for making a comment about Lady Featherington and Marina.[8] They met again the next season during Anthony and Edwina’s wedding. Despite not seeing each other for almost a year, Cressida’s resentment toward Daphne had not changed anything and Cressida coldly called Daphne her “duchess” instead of doing it respectfully such as the rest of people there did.[13]
Notes and Trivia
- Daphne excels at the piano and even wrote an original composition in Art of the Swoon.
- Daphne has won the Pall Mall game of their family two years in a row.[11]
- Daphne is the only Bridgerton child to not have dark hair.
- Daphne practiced her balance of her curtsy by using a painting nearby.[10]
- There were 6 people in the crew making just Daphne’s dresses. They created 93 dresses for her, all made from scratch and hand-embroidered.[15]
Gallery
| A more complete gallery with pictures of Daphne Basset (Netflix) can be found here. |
Memorable Quotes
- Daphne: We will all need to find love one day. Indeed, a love as pure as what Mama and Papa once shared, if we are so fortunate. [2]
- Daphne: You have no idea what it is to be a woman. What it might feel like to have one’s entire life reduced to a single moment. This is all I have been raised for. This… is all I am. I have no other value. If I am unable to find a husband, I shall be worthless. [2]
- Daphne: Would you have believed me? Or did you only change your mind about Lord Berbrooke because another man told you the truth?
- Anthony: You truly esteem me so little?
- Daphne: After I apprised you of my wishes and you proceeded to ignore them? Yes, Brother, I do. [3]
- Daphne: In a matter of days, I am to be a duchess, and you shall be just as you are now, unmarried and untitled. So you can either be a duchess’s friend or her enemy. It is entirely up to you. [6]
- Daphne: There is obviously something between you. And I know that this is not as you wish it, but you must be honest with yourself. Because one way or another, these kind of feelings always have a way of coming to the surface.
- Anthony: And what kind of feelings are those?
- Daphne: Well, love. [12]
- Daphne: Well, fear not, Anthony. Seeing as though you were such a help to me last season, it would only be fair of me to return the favor.
- Anthony: Is that a promise or a threat? [11]
- Daphne: Every time I think my marriage has become simple, Simon and I find some new stone to turn over, a new foible that one of us needs the other to tease out and inspect. It is decidedly irritating. Yet incredibly gratifying at the same time. [12]
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Appearances
Bridgerton, Season 1 Bridgerton, Season 2 References
- Honeymoon Bliss, 1×02 (QC)
- Diamond of the First Water, 1×01
- Shock and Delight, 1×02
- Art of the Swoon, 1×03
- An Affair of Honor, 1×04
- The Duke and I, 1×05
- Swish, 1×06
- Oceans Apart, 1×07
- After the Rain, 1×08
- Capital R Rake, 2×01
- A Bee in Your Bonnet, 2×03
- Victory, 2×04
- The Choice, 2×06
- The Viscount Who Loved Me, 2×08
- Dear Readers: These Bridgerton Secrets Will Make You Burn for More
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Was this Britain’s first black queen?
Charlotte is intrigued by its namesake. Some Charlotteans even find her lovable. “We think your queen speaks to us on lots of levels,” says Cheryl Palmer, director of education at the Mint museum. “As a woman, an immigrant, a person who may have had African forebears, botanist, a queen who opposed slavery – she speaks to Americans, especially in a city in the south like Charlotte that is trying to redefine itself.”
Yet Charlotte (1744-1818) has much less resonance in the land where she was actually queen. If she is known at all here, it is from her depiction in Alan Bennett’s play as the wife of “mad” King George III. We have forgotten or perhaps never knew that she founded Kew Gardens, that she bore 15 children (13 of whom survived to adulthood), and that she was a patron of the arts who may have commissioned Mozart.
Here, Charlotte is a woman who hasn’t so much intrigued as been regularly damned. In the opening of Charles Dickens’s A Tale of Two Cities she is dismissed in the second paragraph: “There was a king with a large jaw, and a queen with a plain face, on the throne of England.” Historian John H Plumb described her as “plain and undesirable”. Even her physician, Baron Christian Friedrich Stockmar, reportedly described the elderly queen as “small and crooked, with a true mulatto face”.
“She was famously ugly,” says Desmond Shawe-Taylor, surveyor of the Queen’s pictures. “One courtier once said of Charlotte late in life: ‘Her Majesty’s ugliness has quite faded.’ There was quite a miaow factor at court.”
Charlotte’s name was given to thoroughfares throughout Georgian Britain – most notably Charlotte Square in Edinburgh’s New Town – but her lack of resonance and glamour in the minds of Londoners is typified by the fact that there is a little square in Bloomsbury called Queen’s Square. In the middle is a sculpture of a queen. For much of the 19th century, the sculpture was thought to depict Queen Anne and, as a result, the square was known as Queen Anne’s Square. Only later was it realised that the sculpture actually depicted Charlotte and the square renamed Queen Square.
Hold on, you might be saying. Britain has had a black queen? Did I miss something? Surely Helen Mirren played Charlotte in the film The Madness of King George and she was, last time I looked, white? Yet the theory that Queen Charlotte may have been black, albeit sketchy, is nonetheless one that is gaining currency.
If you google Queen Charlotte of Mecklenburg-Strelitz, you’ll quickly come across a historian called Mario de Valdes y Cocom. He argues that her features, as seen in royal portraits, were conspicuously African, and contends that they were noted by numerous contemporaries. He claims that the queen, though German, was directly descended from a black branch of the Portuguese royal family, related to Margarita de Castro e Souza, a 15th-century Portuguese noblewoman nine generations removed, whose ancestry she traces from the 13th-century ruler Alfonso III and his lover Madragana, whom Valdes takes to have been a Moor and thus a black African.
It is a great “what if” of history. “If she was black,” says the historian Kate Williams, “this raises a lot of important suggestions about not only our royal family but those of most of Europe, considering that Queen Victoria’s descendants are spread across most of the royal families of Europe and beyond. If we class Charlotte as black, then ergo Queen Victoria and our entire royal family, [down] to Prince Harry, are also black … a very interesting concept.”
That said, Williams and many other historians are very sceptical about Valdes’s theory. They argue the generational distance between Charlotte and her presumed African forebear is so great as to make the suggestion ridiculous. Furthermore, they say even the evidence that Madragana was black is thin.
But Valdes suggests that the way Queen Charlotte is depicted in Ramsay’s 1762 portrait – which US artist Ken Aptekar is now using as the starting point for a new art project called Charlotte’s Charlotte – supports the view she had African ancestors.
Valdes writes: “Artists of that period were expected to play down, soften or even obliterate undesirable features in a subject’s face. [But] Sir Allan Ramsay was the artist responsible for the majority of the paintings of the queen, and his representations of her were the most decidedly African of all her portraits.”
Valdes’s suggestion is that Ramsay was an anti-slavery campaigner who would not have suppressed any “African characteristics” but perhaps might have stressed them for political reasons. “I can’t see it to be honest,” says Shawe-Taylor. “We’ve got a version of the same portrait. I look at it pretty often and it’s never occurred to me that she’s got African features of any kind. It sounds like the ancestry is there and it’s not impossible it was reflected in her features, but I can’t see it.”
Is it possible that other portraitists of Queen Charlotte might have soft-pedalled her African features? “That makes much more sense. It’s quite possible. The thing about Ramsay is that, unlike Reynolds and Gainsborough, who were quite imprecise in their portraits, he was a very accurate depicter of his subjects, so that if she looked slightly more African in his portraits than others, that might be because she was more well depicted. How can you tell? She’s dead!”
Shawe-Taylor says that a more instructive source of images of Queen Charlotte might well be the many caricatures of her held at the British Museum. “None of them shows her as African, and you’d suspect they would if she was visibly of African descent. You’d expect they would have a field day if she was.”
In fact, Charlotte may not have been our first black queen: there is another theory that suggests that Philippa of Hainault (1314-69), consort of Edward III and a woman who may have had African ancestry, holds that title.
As for Valdes, he turns out to be an independent historian of the African diaspora who has argued that Peter Ustinov, Heather Locklear, the Medicis, and the Vanderbilts have African ancestry. His theory about Charlotte even pops up on www.100greatblackbritons.
Perhaps she should get more. The suggestion that Queen Charlotte was black implies that her granddaughter (Queen Victoria) and her great-great-great-great-
Or would our royal family be threatened if it were shown they had African forebears? “I don’t think so at all. There would be no shame attached to it all,” says the royal historian Hugo Vickers. “The theory does not impress me, but even if it were true, the whole thing would have been so diluted by this stage that it couldn’t matter less to our royal family. It certainly wouldn’t show that they are significantly black.”
What’s fascinating about Aptekar’s project is that he started by conducting focus group meetings with people from Charlotte to find out what the Queen and her portrait meant to citizens of the US city. “I took my cues from the passionate responses of individuals whom I asked to help me understand what Queen Charlotte represents to them.”
The resulting suite of paintings is a series of riffs on that Ramsay portrait of Charlotte. In one, a reworked portion of the portrait shows the queen’s face overlaid with the words “Black White Other”. Another Aptekar canvas features an even tighter close up, in which the queen’s face is overlaid with the words “Oh Yeah She Is”.
Among those who attended Aptekar’s focus groups is congressman Mel Watt, one of very few African-Americans in the House of Representatives and who represents the 12th district of North Carolina which includes Charlotte. “In private conversations, African-Americans have always acknowledged and found a sense of pride in this ‘secret’,” says Watt. “It’s great that this discussion can now come out of the closet into the public places of Charlotte, so we all can acknowledge and celebrate it.”
What about the idea that she was an immigrant – a German teenager who had to make a new life in England in the late 18th century?
“We were a lot more immigrant-friendly in those days than we were friendly to people of colour,” says Watt. “We all recognised that we all came from some place else. But there was always a sense of denial, even ostracism, about being black. Putting the history on top of the table should make for opportunities for provocative, healing conversations.”
Does Valdes’s theory conclusively determine that Queen Charlotte had African forebears? Hardly. And if she had African forebears, would that mean we could readily infer she was black? That, surely, depends on how we define what it is to be black. In the US, there was for many decades a much-derided “one-drop rule”, whereby any white-looking person with any percentage of “black blood” was not regarded as being really white. Although now just a historical curio, it was controversially invoked recently by the African-American lawyer Alton Maddox Jr, who argued that under the one-drop rule, Barack Obama wouldn’t be the first black president.
In an era of mixed-race celebrities such as Tiger Woods and Mariah Carey, and at a time when in the US, the UK and any other racially diverse countries mixed-raced relationships are common, this rule seems absurd. But without such a rule, how do we determine Charlotte’s ethnicity? If she is black, aren’t we all?
It’s striking that on US and UK census forms, respondents are asked to choose their own race by ticking the box with which they most closely identify (though there can be problems with this: some people in Cornwall are angry that the 2011 census form will not allow them to self-define as Cornish because only 37,000 ticked that box in the 2001 census and that figure has been deemed too small to constitute a separate ethnic group). We will never know which box Queen Charlotte would have ticked, though we can take a good guess. But maybe that isn’t the most important issue, anyway.
For congressman Watt’s wife Eulada, along with some other African-Americans in Charlotte, the most important issue is what the possibility that Queen Charlotte was black may mean for people in the city now. “I believe African-American Charlotteans have always been proud of Queen Charlotte’s heritage and acknowledge it with a smile and a wink,” she says. “Many of us are now enjoying a bit of ‘I told you so’, now that the story is out.”
But isn’t her heritage too sketchy to be used to heal old wounds? “Hopefully, the sketchiness will inspire others to further research and documentation of our rich history. Knowing more about an old dead queen can play a part in reconciliation.”
And if an old dead queen can help improve racial trust in an American city, perhaps she could do something similar over here. Whether she will, though, is much less certain.
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Birth and Childhood
As Simon was born, his father waited outside, only concerned with whether or not he would have an heir. When his mother cried out, his father ran inside the room, where Simon was then born. After learning it was a son, he took Simon out to show him off while Sarah died of a hemorrhage.
When Simon was four and still not speaking clearly due to a stutter, the Duke ordered Simon out of his sight, saying Simon was dead to him. Simon continued to be schooled by nursemaids, though his father refused to see him. When he was six, Lady Danbury came to visit and was surprised to find him alive, as his father had told her Simon was dead. When she learned of his stutter, she took him as a ward, promising to help him overcome his stutter on the condition that when he stepped into the light, he would be worthy of the attention he commanded. By age 11, Simon was speaking well and came to visit his father to show him. He had also written his father letters, which had gone unacknowledged. The duke re-iterated Simon’s uselessness and sent him away again.
Years later, Simon came to his father’s bedside when he learned his father was dying. The duke was glad to see him coming to claim his title, though Simon simply told him he would never marry or sire an heir. He pledged that the line would die with him.[2]
1813 Social Season
Right at the start of the 1813 social season, Simon returned to London to settle the affairs of his recently deceased father. Upon his return, Lady Danbury invited him to a ball she was throwing, though he had no interest in socializing. At the ball, he ran into Daphne Bridgerton, who didn’t realize who he was until her brother, Anthony, introduced them, as he knew Simon from their time together at Oxford.
Simon made it clear to Anthony that he had no interest in finding a wife or ever marrying. He intended for his title to die with him. Despite this, Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton arranged a match between Daphne and Simon, believing it would be a good pairing. As part of this arrangement, Simon dined with the Bridgertons. He was surprised at the family dining together, even the children, and amused by the conversations that passed across the table. He and Daphne talked at the table and agreed they were not right for each other.
At a subsequent event, Daphne was avoiding Nigel Berbrooke, a man her brother wanted her to marry but in whom she had no interest. Nigel followed her outside and cornered her in the garden. She punched him to get him off just as Simon arrived in the garden. When Daphne realized she was alone in the garden with two men, she realized she might have to marry Nigel to avoid a scandal. Instead Simon proposed that they pretend to be growing closer, as it would get the mamas off his back and raise her social capital, make her more desirable to suitors. She agreed and they returned to the event together.[3]
Simon and Daphne negotiated carefully how often they should be seen together and how many dances they should share together. As predicted, Daphne’s increased social capital that came with courting a duke brought in many other potential suitors. Despite this, Anthony continued to insist that Daphne should marry Nigel Berbrooke, not believing Simon a serious suitor.
While sparring with Will Mondrich, a boxer and friend of Simon’s, Simon was interrupted by Anthony, who sparred with Simon instead, trying to get him to back off Daphne so she would marry Nigel. Simon said Nigel was hardly a saint, though Anthony believed he was better than Simon.
At the next event, Simon and Daphne continued with their arrangement, much to Anthony’s annoyance. Simon and Anthony argued over Daphne until they were interrupted by Nigel, who restated his interest in Daphne. However, Simon then revealed to Anthony what had happened with Nigel in the garden and Anthony ordered Nigel never to speak to Daphne again. Nigel then confronted Simon outside and they got into a physical fight after Nigel taunted Simon about his father. Nigel then went to get a marriage license, reminding Daphne that he could ruin her reputation by telling everyone about them being in the garden alone together. Daphne then resigned herself to that outcome, until she and her mother learned that he had an illegitimate child he refused to provide for and used that information to get him to flee London. With him gone, Daphne and Simon continued their arrangement.[2]
Simon and Daphne’s arrangement continued. She said she needed it to continue until she found a husband and he agreed. At a ball, Daphne told Simon she wasn’t impressed by the suitors there. Just then, Prince Friedrich of Prussia arrived and engaged with Cressida Cowper until the queen brought him over to introduce him to Daphne.
Simon and Daphne went to see the artwork he had donated that previously belonged to his father. While looking at the painting which was said to be his mother’s favorite, he and Daphne had a charged moment. When a noise from outside broke the spell, they quickly pulled apart from each other. Simon then decided not to attend the opera and instead went home for the night.
While walking with Daphne, Simon told stories of his time at school with Anthony. During this walk, Daphne also talked to Simon about the expectations of the marital bed. He said it was a natural extension of when you touch yourself. When she was confused, he clarified that she could touch herself between her legs and carry on until the feeling grew and she reached a release.
Soon afterward, Lady Danbury chastised Simon, saying if he was spending this much time with Daphne, he either needed to propose or get out of the way so she would not miss out on another promising match, such as a prince. The next day, Simon and Daphne met outside a tea shop and he abruptly ended their arrangement, confusing Daphne. He then gave orders to expedite his departure from the city. When he told Lady Danbury of his early departure, she called him a fool.[4]
Simon went to Will to tell him he was leaving England early. Will begged him to stay for an upcoming fight, where he wasn’t favored to win and wanted Simon’s support. Simon agreed to stay. At the fight, he noticed Daphne sitting with the prince. Instead of watching the fight, he spent much of the match watching Daphne instead. They ended up watching each other while cheering for opposite sides.
After the match, Anthony went to Simon and said he misjudged Simon. He realized that Simon’s intentions with Daphne were always honorable and now Daphne has a prince in line.
Lady Danbury came to see Simon off, but was upset with him for letting Daphne go. She wanted him to go for love, but he wasn’t convinced it was a good idea.
Simon then went to Daphne to say goodbye to her. She told him she was going to marry the prince and be happy, but he knew she was putting on a front. They went to go back inside the ball, but they ended up kissing. They continued until Anthony spotted them and knocked Simon to the ground. He ordered Simon to marry Daphne immediately, but Simon insisted that he could not. Anthony then challenged him to a duel at dawn. This upset Daphne, who didn’t like that Simon would rather die in a duel than marry her.
Simon went to Will’s to get a drink. He explained to Will about the duel, which he said an apology wouldn’t get him out of. The two of them went out at dawn for the duel. They meet with Anthony and Benedict. Simon tried to apologize to Anthony but Anthony refused to accept the apology and found it meaningless. They did their paces and faced each other. Simon aimed at the sky while Anthony fired at Simon. Just as he fired, Daphne rode in between them. They feared for a moment that she’d been hit, but she was unharmed. She had come to tell Simon that he had to marry her or she’d be ruined as Cressida Cowper had seen them in the garden alone together. Simon repeated that he couldn’t marry her and privately told her that he couldn’t give her children. He said she must allow her brother to finish the duel. Daphne then surprised him by saying she’d marry him anyway.[5]
Following this engagement, Simon spent the night drinking before meeting Daphne, her mother, and Lady Danbury in the morning for a walk. On the walk, people noticed that the couple didn’t seem as happy as the purported to be, though Lady Bridgerton chalked it up to nerves.
Simon then met with Anthony to get the special license to marry immediately. Anthony brought up Daphne’s dowry, but Simon immediately refused it, saying he wouldn’t be paid to marry Daphne and found the whole concept insulting. He said the money could be placed in trust for Daphne to spend as she saw fit as her well-being was now his responsibility and he took it very seriously. The archbishop then arrived and told them they hadn’t been granted the special license. When they told Lady Danbury and Lady Bridgerton about this, Lady Danbury said they simply needed to appeal directly to the queen, who was hurt over Daphne choosing Simon over Prince Friedrich. They just needed to convince her they were in love and they said they could do that.
That night, Simon went to Will’s house and got drunk. He felt guilty that his impulsive actions forced Daphne to have to fight for a marriage she didn’t really want. When he woke the next morning, he invited Will and Alice to his wedding.
When they went before the queen, Daphne started off lying about how it was love at first sight for them, but then Simon interrupted and confessed to the whole ruse, but surprised Daphne when he confessed that love had come to them slowly, after they first developed a friendship. This speech swayed the queen and the two of them were quickly married. After a reception, the newly married couple got in their carriage to leave. Simon told Daphne that as the trip back to his estate was too long for one night, they would spend the night at an inn. He’d reserved them separate rooms, unsure if she’d want to stay with him. However, later in the evening, Simon went to Daphne’s room and they had sex.[6]
After their night at the inn, Daphne and Simon continued their trip to their new home. When they arrived, the housekeeper, Mrs. Colson, had a tour planned, but Simon said he had his own plans and whisked Daphne off to their bedroom. Daphne eventually pulled herself away to tend to her new duties as the duchess. While she went to tend to that, Simon also got to work. At the end of the day, they came together again for dinner. Simon was shocked at how formal the setup was, so Daphne moved closer to him so they could have a conversation as they ate. Their dinner was quickly interrupted when they started kissing and ended up going outside to have sex. Their passion continued over several days.
Simon and Daphne went to a fair. They met with several villagers and sampled their wares. When they learned that a farmer’s rent had been tripled, threatening his livelihood, Daphne asked Simon if there was anything they could do about it. Simon then got to work on the books. He told Daphne that everything had been mismanaged in his absence, which made more work for him. He set up an office in the east wing so he could work there. One night, Daphne came to Simon, who was working late. They ended up having sex in his office and he used a cloth after pulling out, rousing her suspicion. The next time they had sex, Daphne positioned herself on top of him and refused to move, forcing him to ejaculate inside of her for the first time. This led to a fight, as Daphne was angry that Simon had lied to her and Simon was angry that she had taken advantage of him. This led to them sleeping in separate bedrooms for the first time in their marriage.[7]
Things remained tense between Simon and Daphne, with each of them doing things intentionally to irritate the other. They communicated through their servants. When Daphne received news that her family was involved in a scandal, she immediately prepared to return to London to be with them. Simon insisted on joining her, saying it would be weird if he didn’t.
When they arrived back in London, Daphne immediately went to see her family while Simon went to spar with Will. Will quickly realized he was working out his anger and asked him what was wrong, though Simon denied anything.
As part of the plan to improve her family’s appearance, Daphne secured them an invitation to the queen’s luncheon. Simon attended with them and told those who asked that they were making an effort to conceive an heir. When they were alone again, Daphne noted how easily he’d lied about that.
Simon went to the club, where he and Anthony shared a drink. Anthony then asked Simon what he’d done, as he’d noticed the change in Daphne and knew she wasn’t capable of messing up so seriously herself. The argument escalated to a physical fight, leading to Simon and Anthony being pulled off one another.
When Simon turned in for the night, Daphne came to his room to tend to his wounds. She sat in his lap and start kissing him, asking if a child would really be such a horrible thing. He told her his father cared more about continuing the line than he cared about Simon or his mother. Daphne said continuing to stand by the promise he made to his father meant he hated his father more than he loved Daphne.
Simon and Daphne attended a concert together, but parted ways as soon as they arrived until the show started. As they watched, Daphne had a sudden realization and left her seat. While she was determining that her courses had started, Simon cried in his seat.[8]
Daphne and Simon posed for their portrait, painted by Henry Granville. As they posed, Simon assured Daphne that as soon as the portrait was completed, he’d be leaving London. Daphne asked him to delay his departure to the end of the season and asked him to attend a final ball with her. He agreed. They had a moment of connection during this conversation, where Henry said they were the picture of devotion.
Simon ran into Daphne one evening and she asked him what his father did to make him make such a pledge, something that denied him happiness. He simply told her he was doing it for her own good and she’d be better off without him.
Simon then attended Will’s fight and was upset when Will decided to throw the fight in order to secure his family’s financial future through gambling. He was upset that Will didn’t come to him when he needed more money, but Will wanted to take care of his own family.
Next Daphne invited Simon to a family gathering to welcome Francesca home. At the meeting, Simon easily charmed the youngest Bridgertons.
As they prepared to start the ball, Simon and Daphne negotiated their final dance together. During the night, they mostly stayed apart and did their own thing. Finally, they met for their dance. However, shortly after it began, it started to rain. Simon tried to pull Daphne to shelter, but she insisted on continuing to dance in the rain. After their guests all sought cover, Simon and Daphne started talking and Daphne explained that she understood why he made that vow to his father, but she still wanted him to choose to be happy.
Simon later said he didn’t know how to be the man Daphne needed him to be, but he wanted to be happy and didn’t want to be alone. They decided to work through it together. They started kissing and had sex. When the moment came, he did not withdraw.
Simon and Daphne told her family that they had decided to stay in London for a while longer.
Some time later, Daphne gave birth to a son. Simon said that whatever they named him, it needed to start with an A, to maintain the family tradition.[9]
Personality
Having newly returned to London, the Duke of Hastings finds himself the primary topic of conversation amongst marriage-minded misses and ambitious mamas alike. Yet, for reasons of his own, our devastating Duke has zero interest in his title, society, or taking a wife.
He is reserved and keeps his emotions close to his chest, is morally upstanding and values honour. He is kind and humorous, willing to poke fun with Daphne when at balls.
Relationships
Romantic
Daphne Basset
Simon came to London and attended his godmother’s opening season ball, where he literally bumped into Daphne Bridgerton, his friend Anthony’s younger sister, who had just debuted on the marriage market, and the Queen’s newest diamond. They faked a courtship in order for Daphne to attract suitors after Anthony scared all her suitors away, which resulted in Lady Whistledown writing scandalous gossip about her, and also so that Simon would seem unavailable to the other debutantes hoping to become his Duchess. However, they eventually fell in love for real. They have one child together, Augie.
Familial
Simon’s mother, Sarah Basset, died in childbirth, and his father died shortly before the start of the 1813 social season. Simon had a strained relationship with his father. Throughout Simon’s childhood, his father lived almost exclusively in London and rarely returned to Hastings House, leaving only the staff to care for Simon. His father only cared about having a son, so he could carry on the family line. He called Simon his biggest mistake because he had a stutter. On his father’s deathbed, Simon vowed to never have children so the Hastings line would die with him.[7]
Simon’s primary mother figure is Lady Danbury, a close friend of his deceased mother.
Friendships
Anthony Bridgerton
Simon has been friends with Anthony Bridgerton since their time at Oxford together. Things were tense between them for a while because Anthony was against Simon courting Daphne and found them alone together. After Daphne told Anthony and Simon that Cressida had also spotted them alone together in the garden, she said she would have to marry Simon to avoid a scandal. They did so and Anthony and Simon repaired their friendship.
Will Mondrich
He spars with Will Mondrich, and also gets along well with Will’s wife, Alice Mondrich. Will and Alice also attend his and Daphne’s wedding.
Rivals
Nigel Berbrooke
Nigel Berbrooke was the only one showing interest in Daphne after Anthony scared away all her suitors. He eventually got Anthony to agree to promise him Daphne’s hand in marriage, and tried to corner her in the garden to convince her to accept him, when Simon, who was nearby, witnessed her punch him out cold. It was after that that he offered Daphne a way out of marrying Nigel — he would pretend to court her in order to attract better suitors to her.[3] Nigel was upset when Simon’s scheme worked and he suddenly found himself competing with a crowd of new gentlemen for Daphne’s hand. He was even more upset as well as angered when Simon revealed to Anthony what Nigel had attempted in the gardens with Daphne, which resulted in the viscount calling off the arranged marriage and forbidding Nigel to speak to Daphne again.
Nigel caught up with Simon and tried to convince him to revoke what he said, stating that he was already a duke with money, title, and standing, and that Nigel needed Daphne, the season’s diamond, to get some respect. When Simon refused, Nigel accused him of already being with Daphne, insulting her. Simon warned him to cease, but Nigel continued, going on to insult Simon’s late mother, which finally caused Simon to snap and punch Nigel in the face.
Despite Nigel’s later attempt to blackmail Daphne into marrying him, Violet Bridgerton and her staff undermined his plans by getting the secret of his illegitimate son from his mother’s maid and then spreading it around the ton, forcing him to flee, and Daphne eventually ended up marrying Simon[2].
Prince Friedrich of Prussia
In the middle of Simon’s ruse with Daphne, Queen Charlotte introduced her to her nephew, Prince Friedrich, hoping to match the two of them. Simon saw clearly that the Prince was interested in Daphne, and came to believe that he was the perfect husband for her. Lady Danbury told him that if he wasn’t serious about Daphne, he needed to break it off before she lost her chance with the Prince, and so Simon ended his ruse with her, pretending to no longer care, even though he was jealous after Daphne welcomed Friedrich’s attentions as a suitor.[4]
Despite his reservations, Simon approached Daphne when Prince Friedrich started to show signs that he would propose to her. Simon asked her if she truly believed that the prince was the best man for her, which upset Daphne for questioning her choices. She stormed through the garden, and he followed her, ending in them sharing a moment of passion in the darkness, when they were caught by Anthony, who commanded Simon to marry Daphne to restore her honor. Despite Simon refusing, he and Daphne ultimately agreed to be married,[5] and she broke it off with Prince Friedrich, who returned to Prussia shortly afterwards.[6]
Professional
Career
Notes and Trivia
- Actor Regé-Jean Page drew inspiration from classic Romantic poet Lord Byron to craft the character.
- In the book The Duke and I, on which the first season is based, Daphne and Simon’s firstborn is a girl named Amelia, not a boy. In fact, the couple would not have their first son until their fourth child, named David.
- According to Simon, Anthony once let a farm animal into Simon’s dormitory as a prank, and Simon had to help get it back out.[4]
- According to Lady Danbury, Simon is quite fond of gooseberry pie, a dish that the Bridgerton cook is renowned for.[3]
- The diamond- and emerald-encrusted enamel brooch that Simon wears on his lapel belonged to his late mother Sarah.[10]
- Luke Newton, who portrays Colin Bridgerton, and Jonathan Bailey, who portrays Anthony, both originally auditioned for the role of Simon.[11][12] Tom Payne from Prodigal Son also auditioned for the role, but was told he was not tall enough.[13]
Childhood and Father’s Death
Anthony, the firstborn son and child of Viscount Edmund Bridgerton and his wife Violet, grew up the heir to his father. Seven more siblings followed after him.
In 1803, he watched his father get stung by a bee and die seconds afterward. He also watched his pregnant mother fall to pieces as a result. Upon his father’s death, Anthony became the new Viscount. When his mother went into labor, the doctors pressured him to choose for them to save either Violet or the baby. Even after both mother and child survived the birth, Anthony watched his mother despair over losing her husband.[2]
He attended Oxford where he met and befriended Simon Basset and Thomas Dorset.
1813 Season
On the day of the start of the 1813 social season, Anthony arrived late as he’d been away having a clandestine rendezvous with his mistress, Siena Rosso. He finally joined the family as they arrived to present Daphne in front of Queen Charlotte.
Anthony had to attend the Danbury ball to chaperone his sister. When Daphne tried to socialize with the men in attendance, Anthony pointed out the flaws in each one, scaring them off her. When Daphne ran into Simon Basset while avoiding Nigel Berbrooke, Anthony introduced them, as he knew Simon from Oxford. He then forced Daphne to leave the event early. The next day, Anthony came over to meet Daphne’s callers with her, further scaring them off. Daphne feared she was ruined by Lady Whistledown’s declaration that Marina Thompson, not Daphne, was the season’s Incomparable, and confronted Anthony about ruining her prospects. Anthony said Daphne could still find a good match because she was a Bridgerton, but Daphne said she wished she was not.
Anthony socialized at the club with Simon, who was adamant that he did not want to marry and never would. When he realized that his mother and Lady Danbury had done some matchmaking between Simon and Daphne, he informed his mother that Simon would never marry and was therefore a bad match. His mother in turn confronted him about his affair with Siena, forcing him to end things with her. He then informed Daphne that, over her objections, she was to marry Nigel Berbrooke.[3]
Daphne’s Courtships
Anthony continued to pressure Daphne to marry Nigel, even sending other callers away. When Daphne expressed her preference for Simon, Anthony insisted that he wasn’t a serious suitor and would never marry her.
Anthony then confronted Simon, saying Daphne was already engaged, so Simon should back off. Simon in turn told Anthony that Nigel wasn’t worthy of Daphne. Despite this, at the next event, Daphne and Simon immediately started to dance together. Anthony sent Benedict to claim Daphne’s next dance. With Daphne occupied, Anthony went to Simon again. Nigel interrupted, saying he was still interested in marrying Daphne. However, Simon then mentioned that Nigel got the bruise on his eye from Daphne, who punched him to get him off her. Anthony was horrified by that revelation and forbade Nigel ever to speak to Daphne again.
Despite this, Nigel acquired a license for the two of them to marry, which he presented to Anthony and Daphne, threatening to ruin Daphne’s honor unless she married him. Anthony decided he and Nigel would have to duel to end things, though his mother forbade it. Daphne also said Nigel could speak about Daphne before the duel and ruin her, so she would therefore have to marry Nigel. Violet prevented this by discovering gossip about Nigel that they spread around town, causing Nigel to flee London. Anthony promised Violet that he would handle things better in the future.[4]
Anthony and Simon started to get along better, though Simon maintained his lack of intent to marry. Anthony also felt the pressure of his title, and Siena finally realized she needed to stop falling for his empty promises. His mother gave him a list of eligible ladies, and he promised to consider them.[5]
Anthony escorted Daphne to a fight, where he quickly disappeared so she could sit with Prince Friedrich and get to know him better. After they talked, Friedrich came to Anthony to speak to him privately.
When their mother found out Anthony took Daphne to a fight and let her out of his sight, she was scandalized, but was pleased when Anthony came in and told her and Daphne that Friedrich had asked his permission to propose to Daphne. He told Daphne he had no objection to it.
Duel with Simon
At a party, Anthony was angry to find Daphne and Simon out in the garden alone together. Anthony knocked Simon down, and then said he must marry Daphne immediately. Simon refused, so Anthony said they would have to duel. Anthony and Daphne then abruptly left the party.
Anthony chose Benedict as his second and prepared to duel. He went to Siena, saying he would either die in the duel or kill Simon, at which point he’d have to flee and if he had to flee, he wanted her with him. They spent the night together and in the morning, Anthony and Benedict arrived for the duel. Just as they prepared to duel, Daphne rode in, nearly getting shot herself. She informed them that Cressida Cowper had seen her and Simon in the garden, so they needed to marry or Daphne’s reputation would be ruined. Simon still tried to refuse her, eventually telling her that he couldn’t give her children, something he knew she desperately wanted. Daphne declared that she wanted to marry Simon anyway.[6]
Anthony went to find Siena, but Genevieve told him she’d gone and refused to tell him where she went.
Daphne and Simon’s Wedding
Anthony then met with Simon to get the special license to marry Daphne immediately. Anthony brought up Daphne’s dowry, which Simon flat out refused to accept, saying he wouldn’t be paid to marry Daphne and found the very idea insulting. Instead, the money would be put into trust for Daphne. He believed Daphne’s well-being was his responsibility and he would support her, as he took the duty very seriously. Their conversation was interrupted when the archbishop arrived, and told them he couldn’t grant the license as he didn’t see a need for it.
Daphne and Simon then had to appeal to the queen directly, as Daphne’s rejection of her nephew is why their license was rejected. They got the license, and Anthony walked Daphne down the aisle to marry Simon. After the wedding, Anthony told Daphne about Simon refusing the dowry, and said it would be put in trust for her to use as she saw fit, perhaps for their children, not knowing that Simon had told Daphne they couldn’t have any. At the mention of children, Daphne teared up and excused herself.[7]
Colin’s Scandal
After Daphne left, Colin announced his engagement to Marina, shocking the rest of his family. Anthony confronted Colin about this, but Colin said he kept it from them on purpose, because he knew how they’d react. Anthony asked if he compromised Marina’s honor, and he said he had not. Colin said he didn’t need Anthony’s permission, but wanted his approval. Anthony refused to give it, but accompanied Colin and their mother to dine at the Featheringtons. Lady Featherington suggested they could marry quickly and take advantage of the nice weather to travel, but Anthony thought a longer engagement might be more prudent given Colin’s age.[8]
When news broke that Marina had arrived in London pregnant, her engagement with Colin was abruptly ended. When Colin asked why he couldn’t visit Marina in the aftermath, Anthony said Lady Whistledown’s word being law was the only reason people didn’t believe Colin was the father of her baby. When Daphne arrived, Lady Bridgerton said it could help them as people would move on after seeing the family still had the favor of the duke and duchess.
Anthony went to the club and was drinking with Simon. After some time, Anthony confronted Simon, saying he knew Simon had done something to mess things up with Daphne, as he knew his sister was incapable of messing up so badly on her own. Simon said he was just trying to do right by Daphne, but the conversation quickly devolved into a fight, which became physical, leading to them having to be pulled off each other.
Siena’s Rejection and Decision to Marry
When Anthony saw Colin sad over Marina, he apologized for being harsh, but said Colin would get over her and it would be like she never existed for him, though Anthony admitted his own situation was a work in progress. He later went to the concert and was upset to see Siena with another man. He and Siena made eye contact as the show continued.[9]
Anthony went to a fight with Benedict and Colin. At the fight, he saw Siena with another man. They stared at each other during the fight until they each left the room and had sex somewhere hidden away.
They resumed their affair together. He asked her to go to a ball with him, as he was a viscount and his sister a duchess, meaning no one would dare say anything. When he went to pick her up, he was surprised to see a man open the door. Siena then explained that she needed to ensure her own future because no one else would. Anthony needed to let her go. After this, Anthony told Daphne that he was committing himself to finding a wife, with no more distractions.[10]
1814 Season
At the start of the 1814 social season, on the day his sister, Eloise, was meant to make her debut, Anthony waited with his family outside Eloise’s door while she got ready. When she finally emerged, she warned them all not to say anything. True to what he told Daphne at the end of the previous season, Anthony started his search for a wife. First, he thought of all the attributes he wanted in a wife, then he began interviewing the eligible young ladies. He quickly became frustrated when none of them met his strict requirements.
One morning, he went out for a ride and spotted a woman riding astride her own horse. He called out to her, thinking she might be in trouble, but got no response. He followed her for a while until she jumped over a hedge. She looked back at him and they acknowledged each other. Anthony then approached her on his horse. She said she didn’t mean to concern him, and insisted she wasn’t lost, that she was just on her way back to Mayfair, which she said was up ahead. He knew she was lost, because that wasn’t the right direction. Nevertheless, she took off on her horse.
At Lady Danbury’s ball, the first of the season, Anthony wasn’t impressed with the crowd, but found himself swarmed with ladies after his mother loudly announced that he was searching for a wife. He danced with several ladies before taking a break to step outside, where his friends thanked him for declaring his intent to marry and drawing the attention away from them, though he said it would be their turn soon. He also told them he wasn’t looking for love, just a woman with desirable qualities to mother his children, but the women at the ball were falling short. As the others left, he again met the woman who was riding her horse, eavesdropping on their conversation. She scolded him for his high standards, and said his own character was lacking enough that a woman who met his standards might not accept him, then left, shocking Anthony.
At the queen’s ball, Benedict asked if there was anyone there he hadn’t rejected yet. Anthony said he would just marry whoever was named the season’s diamond. After Eloise inadvertently charmed the queen, Benedict asked Anthony what he’d do if Eloise were named the season’s diamond. When Edwina Sharma was named the diamond, Anthony approached and asked her to dance, which she accepted. As they danced, he asked her the questions he’d asked all the other young ladies. Her answers pleased him, so he asked to speak to her father. She told him her father was dead, so he needed to speak to her sister. He was shocked that her sister was the woman he met horse riding: Kate Sharma. When Kate saw him, she quickly pulled Edwina away. Despite this, Anthony told Violet he would marry her.[11]
Royal Races and Lady Danbury’s Soiree
Anthony told Benedict that Edwina would suffice as a wife. He was choosing his wife with his head, not his heart, because of his love for his family. He also said that Kate wouldn’t deter him. True to that, he went to Lady Danbury’s to call on Edwina, only to find himself at the end of a very long line. He spoke to Kate, saying he wanted to take Edwina to the Royal Races. Kate told him she already had an escort to the races, and suggested Edwina might be free in December, if she wasn’t married by then. Anthony went back home and told his family they were going to the races.
At the races, Anthony learned that Will Mondrich was opening a gentlemen’s club, and he invited Anthony, Benedict, and Colin to come to the grand opening.
Anthony approached Edwina at the races, even though she was there with Lord Lumley. He played up the closeness of his family as an excuse for why he hadn’t called on Edwina. Then he suggested that a gentleman would offer the ladies a refreshment to get Lumley out of the way. With Lumley gone, he took a seat between Edwina and Kate, who had caught the eye of Thomas Dorset. He and Edwina chatted happily until the race was about to start. Then he started to talk to Kate about the horses. He was betting on Nectar, but Kate told him he hadn’t accounted for several things that she thought made High Flyer the most likely winner. True to that, High Flyer won the race. Kate gloated, saying she’d never bested a viscount before. When Edwina said that Nectar reminded her of a horse she used to adore, Anthony took her to get a closer look. This ended when Kate interrupted, pulling Edwina away, because she realized Anthony had purposely sent Thomas Dorset to distract her from Edwina. Anthony said he meant no harm, and only wanted to spend time with Edwina.
Anthony went back home, where he practiced fencing with his brothers and told them he knew his duties and only sought to fulfill them. Colin suggested that he turn his attention to someone else, but Anthony refused to let Kate keep him from getting what he wanted.
Anthony purchased a horse and took it to Edwina as a present. She thanked him for the gesture, but said she preferred animals that could sit on her lap. Kate told Anthony the horse Edwina had mentioned was from a novel.
When Anthony saw that his family was dressed up, he asked them about it. They said there was a soiree at Lady Danbury’s, but Anthony wasn’t invited. He knew it was Kate’s doing, but Violet told him to let that be a lesson to him.
Anthony went to Will’s club, where he told Benedict he needed to talk to him. He asked Benedict to teach him how to read a poem he’d found. Benedict said the poem he’d chosen was terrible and began talking about poetry and women. Anthony liked what he said, and told him to write it down.
Anthony then took his words to Lady Danbury’s soiree. He started to recite the poem, but then admitted they weren’t his words. He told Edwina he might not be able to display passion or love, but he’d never lack in action or duty. He continued to speak to Edwina, but also kept watching Kate.[1]
Trip to Aubrey Hall
When the Bridgertons went to Aubrey Hall, Anthony invited Edwina and her family to come ahead of the other guests in order for the families to get to know each other better. When they arrived, Anthony also reminded Violet that he needed her ring and she retrieved it for him. She gave it to him after he said Edwina would make the perfect viscountess.
Anthony and his siblings played their typical game of Pall-Mall, starting with bickering over who would pick their mallet first. They decided to let their guests choose first and Kate took the mallet Anthony typically preferred, leaving him with a chipped pink mallet as the others rushed to grab theirs. As the game started, Anthony struggled, but blamed his poor performance on being considerate of Edwina. When a turn left Kate in the position to send Anthony’s ball into the woods, she took it, only to find her own ball sent in the same direction. Rather than leave the game and admit defeat, they went to search for their balls. They found them side by side in a bog. Kate said that they could just grab them out and no one would know, but Anthony knew that was her testing his character, and she would immediately tell the others if he did so. As Anthony contemplated the best way to get his ball out, Kate waded into the muck and hit her ball out. Anthony followed suit with his own ball. Kate went to leave, but found herself stuck. Anthony tried to help her, but they both ended up falling into the mud. As they escaped, Anthony asked Kate what he had to do to earn her favor, and she told him she only wanted her sister to be happy. Then she used her next turn to hit his ball away again. When he saw that it landed near his father’s grave, he paused. When he heard Daphne celebrating her win, he declared the game over and left the woods.
After the game, Edwina and Anthony had a pleasant conversation and that night, he talked to Daphne, who was surprised that he was pursuing Edwina. She admitted to having no real objection to her and said if Edwina was the one who made him unable to think about anyone else, she was happy for him.
The next day, Anthony visited his father’s grave. While he was there, his mother came and they talked about how she was emotionally absent after his death and how a lot fell to Anthony when he was so young. She saw how he built up walls after his father’s death. He said that he wanted a marriage without love to avoid heartbreak and grief like the family had experienced when Edmund died. At dinner, while conversing with Edwina, Anthony kept looking at Kate. Eventually, Lady Danbury asked him to make a toast. Though Anthony intended to propose to Edwina, he caught sight of Kate, and backed out.
Realizing he’d upset Edwina by not proposing, the next morning, Anthony assured Kate he still had plans to do so and the previous night just wasn’t the right time. Kate felt he was just making excuses. While they talked, a bee flew near them and Anthony began to panic when it landed on Kate and even more when it stung her. When he started to hyperventilate, she put his hand on her chest to show him that she was okay and he slowly calmed down. Then he leaned in toward her, but a horse whinnying interrupted them and they pulled away from each other and ran in opposite directions.[2]
As other guests started to arrive at Aubrey Hall, Anthony fretted, saying it was a mistake to invite Edwina’s family to come early. Wanting Kate and Anthony to get along, feeling their tension was a barrier to Anthony proposing, Edwina suggested that Kate join the men on a hunt, despite Anthony’s objection. Some time into their hunt, Kate became restless because they hadn’t found anything and took off on her own. Anthony followed her and found her aiming her gun. He started to argue with her about her going off on her own and tried to correct her grasp on the gun. As he went to correct her, he inhaled her scent. The moment was interrupted when they heard the other men approaching and rejoined the group.
Anthony got up in the middle of the night and found Kate in the library. She was unable to sleep because of a storm. They talked about their fathers and Anthony revealed that his father had died of a bee sting, which Kate realized was why her being stung affected him so much. Things grew tense between them until a clap of thunder broke them apart.
The next morning, Daphne asked Anthony about Edwina, because she suspected they didn’t know each other well enough. Anthony just said she’d become meddlesome without Simon around and she shouldn’t concern herself.
At the ball, Anthony danced with Edwina. Once the dance was over, Edwina set up Kate and Anthony to dance. As they danced, Anthony asked if she’d give her blessing if he asked for it and Kate said she just wanted her sister to be happy. She also told him she’d be returning to India as soon as her sister was married. As soon as the song ended, Anthony left abruptly, confusing Edwina, who had been watching. Kate went to find Anthony and found him in his office, where they argued. Anthony believed Kate was trying to keep him from Edwina. They agreed that they hated each other, but stepped closer to each other. They nearly kissed, but startled apart when the door opened and Daphne entered. When she saw them, she left and Anthony followed her. Daphne said the situation was similar to when Anthony found her with Simon the year before. She knew that Anthony had affection for Kate, despite Anthony’s denial. After the conversation, Anthony said he knew what she needed to do.
As the Sharmas prepared to leave, Anthony took the ring and proposed to Edwina, who happily accepted.[12]
Wedding Plans and Meeting the Sheffields
Anthony and Edwina talked to the queen about their wedding plans. Anthony said he wanted a modest family affair, but Edwina was displeased. The queen offered to host it herself as she credited herself with matching them up in the first place.
Anthony then started preparing for the wedding, saying that even with the queen hosting, they needed to be prepared to entertain.
As they waited for Edwina with the jeweler, Mr. Brookes, who was there to resize the ring to fit Edwina, Anthony talked to Kate, who said she felt it was inappropriate for him to go forward with the engagement given what had happened between them. Anthony claimed that nothing had happened between them, though Kate reminded him that they’d be obliged to marry if anyone other than Daphne had caught them. She denied that being what she wanted. Mr. Brookes then suggested they could use Kate’s hand to size the ring, as she and Edwina sometimes shared gloves. After Mr. Brookes put the ring on Kate’s finger, Anthony rubbed his finger over it, saying his father gave it to his mother before they married. They startled apart when they heard Edwina and Mary approaching. Lady Danbury then came in and told them Mary’s parents were in London. She proposed inviting them to the engagement dinner. Anthony and Edwina then went to promenade, chaperoned by Lady Danbury and Kate.
As they walked, Edwina and Anthony watched Kate and Thomas Dorset, who were also walking together. Edwina thought they made a lovely couple and hoped he might be able to convince Kate to stay in England, though Anthony was less certain. Anthony continued to watch Kate as she socialized with Dorset and even went on a boat ride with him. When they returned, Edwina and Anthony went over to talk to them. Anthony said that Dorset’s knot wouldn’t hold and re-tied it before offering his hand to help Kate out of the boat. Their hands lingered together until she pulled away, which startled him and sent both him and Dorset into the water. Anthony angrily removed his jacket and cravat and lifted himself out of the water.
When Violet heard that the Sheffields had returned to town to meet Anthony and Edwina, she told him she couldn’t stand back and watch him marry a woman he didn’t seem to have any affection for. She wanted all of her children to know the joy of an exceptional marriage as she had. He said he couldn’t dishonor Edwina by ending the engagement, but Violet said Edwina could and probably would if she knew Anthony’s true feelings.
At the dinner, the Sheffields invited Edwina and Anthony to their home. Anthony accepted the invitation, but then the Sheffields insulted Mary’s rejection of marrying the man they’d found for her, and brought up the dowry they had set aside for Edwina if she married English nobility. When they insulted Kate, Anthony snapped, and said he wouldn’t stand for it, then demanded that they leave. Once they were gone, Anthony said he and his mother would be leaving as well.
As they walked out, Kate ran after them, begging to speak to Anthony. Anthony sent his mother home ahead of him and stayed to talk to Kate, who told him that Edwina had no idea about the dowry. Anthony said he believed that and felt Kate had put the entire scheme together. Kate denied any scheming. Anthony said it might be best to call off the engagement. Kate was upset at him for even suggesting it, though Anthony blamed Kate and her lack of support for the match. He also said that his father raised him to be honorable, but his honor was hanging by a thread having to be around her. They started to lean in toward each other, but he pulled back before their lips could touch. He told her marrying Edwina would mean they were bound together forever and he’d spend his entire marriage wanting Kate and dreaming of her. He asked if that was the future she wanted for them then left without waiting for her answer.
Anthony and Kate met up again and Anthony said he would talk to Edwina and end their engagement. Kate told him to keep his word and marry her as soon as he could, that the feeling between them would pass. He said he’d see to that and rode away from her.[13]
Aborted Wedding
The night before his and Edwina’s wedding, Anthony drank and played pool at Will’s club with Benedict and Colin. He lamented having to fulfill his duties while Benedict and Colin got to explore their options more. Despite getting married, he assured them that almost everything would stay the same in his life.
As Benedict helped Anthony get ready for the wedding, Daphne came in. She explained that she was late because wasn’t sure it would go forward. She told Anthony that Edwina deserved to know the truth. Anthony kicked Benedict out of the room and told Daphne that he’d gone too far to turn back because it would ruin Edwina and scandalize their family. He also told her that he and Kate had decided there would be nothing more between them. Daphne wished their father was alive because Anthony changed after he died, stopped laughing and never cried. She told him he could still choose to be happy, but he didn’t believe that was true.
Anthony entered the church and waited at the altar for Edwina. However, as Kate entered, Anthony watched her. As the ceremony started, he imagined Kate in Edwina’s place. As Anthony prepared to repeat his vows, a bangle dropped from Kate’s wrist. When he bent down to grab it and put it back on Kate’s wrist, Edwina watched the interaction. She stopped the wedding and ran out, followed by Mary and Kate.
As his family speculated on why Edwina had left, Anthony became overwhelmed and walked out. He went to talk to Edwina and asked if it was just a delay or if she was calling it off entirely. Edwina said she was still thinking about it. Anthony said he was still intent on going through with it, despite the interruption. She asked if he loved her and he said that he underwood her and sympathized with her. He also said Kate would have no role in their future, as she’d be returning to India. All Edwina had to do was decide to marry him. She said she needed time to think, so Anthony left her to that.
Anthony then went to Kate, who told him to leave her alone in her refuge. He instead asked her to talk to Edwina for him, but Kate refused. The two of them shared a charged moment before she left the room.
Later, he got a note from Kate asking her to meet him at the church. He arrived to find that he and Kate had actually both been summoned by Edwina. She told them she wouldn’t be marrying Anthony because it would be betraying herself. She had realized that Kate had given her everything Kate herself wanted, which wasn’t what Edwina wanted. She walked out, leaving the two of them alone together. The two of them talked for a moment about failing their duties, then Anthony leaned in and kissed her.[14]
Harmony Ball and Kate’s Accident
The morning after the aborted wedding, Violet said they family needed to work through the consequences as a united front and would promenade together. Anthony agreed and said they’d leave within the hour. However, as they promenaded, they were shunned by the other members of the ton. He and Violet then met with Lady Danbury and the Sharmas to make a plan to restore both families’ reputations. They decided to throw a ball to prove there was no ill will between them. Anthony and Kate objected, but were overruled. After seeing them interact, Violet and Lady Danbury also ordered them to to stay away from each other for the entire ball to avoid people seeing the obvious attraction between them. Anthony left the room, followed by Violet. He promised to play his part in the plan, but she asked what he planned to do afterward, how he would marry. He said the family line didn’t end with him and admitted he made a mistake by asking Edwina to marry him. But he was certain the plan would work because Violet and Lady Danbury would make sure of it.
Anthony visited Benedict at the art academy. Benedict told him to stop punishing himself and that they’d all seen what was between him and Kate. He just needed to change the plan he had. Anthony dismissed his comments and left.
Ahead of the ball, Anthony visited the Sharmas and brought them flowers. Edwina gave him the cut indirect, but Violet reminded her that they needed to appear to enjoy each other’s company when others were watching. They went to the art gallery together, where Anthony asked Mary for forgiveness for what he’d done. He never meant to cause problems for her family. Mary admitted that she’d let too much fall to Kate after her husband’s death. Anthony then found Kate and subtly spoke to her, asking her to talk. She said they had nothing to talk about. They had done something terrible and should be ashamed of it.
On the night of the ball, Anthony and his family prepared for their guests, but were shocked when no one other than the Sharmas came. Violet was prepared to cancel the whole thing, but Anthony invited the younger kids to come down and dance with them. After a lively dance, Violet expressed how strange it was that no one believed their story. Lady Danbury noticed that the maids were reading the latest Whistledown and suggested asking them. It was then that they learned that Lady Whistledown had reported that Eloise was associating with political radicals.
Anthony left the house after the party had dispersed and found Kate in the gazebo. They argued and he tried to get her to leave, but she said she wouldn’t take orders from him. After a very tense moment, they ran to each other and kissed, then had sex. Afterwards, Anthony fell asleep and when he woke up, Kate was gone. He retrieved the engagement ring from his drawer, then went to find Kate. He went to Lady Danbury’s, but the footman told him Kate wasn’t there and her maid that one of the horses was also missing. Anthony rode out to find Kate and came to her just in time to watch her horse get startled and rear back, dumping her on the ground. He called out and rode over to her.[15]
Anthony rode to Kate and covered her with his jacket. He discovered that she was bleeding from her head, so he picked her up and carried her to a waiting horse-cart. Once back at Lady Danbury’s, he carried her up to her room, where a surgeon examined her. Anthony blamed himself and left.
While Kate recovered, Anthony looked over his family’s books and asked Colin about a large withdrawal he’d made. Colin said he was planning to invest some money with Jack Featherington, which frustrated Anthony. When Benedict and Eloise defended Colin, Anthony began insulting all of them until they all left. Once they were gone, Violet asked how Kate was doing and he said he didn’t know because he hadn’t been to see her.
Anthony was relieved to tears when Violet told him Kate had woken up. Violet said it was unthinkable to watch the one you love die. She was sorry that he was with his father that day and for how she acted afterward. She wished she could go back and change it. When Anthony said he didn’t think he could see Kate again, Violet said that despite the pain Edmund’s death caused her, she wouldn’t trade the life they had. She told Anthony not to lose Kate.
Anthony went to see Kate and said he was happy she was awake. She thanked him for bringing her home safely. He apologized for taking liberties with her and asked her to marry him. She stopped him, saying he didn’t have to propose because she was going back to India once she resolved things with Edwina. Lady Danbury had offered to host Edwina and Mary for another season, and Kate was sure they’d do fine on their own. Anthony accused her of running away, so she asked him to leave.
One evening, while Anthony was tending to business, Gregory came to see him. He was convinced his Latin teacher thought he was stupid because he yelled at him. Anthony said that wasn’t true. He was simply scared of Anthony, so he was scared of Gregory not succeeding because Anthony asked too much of all of them. Gregory asked if he was anything like their father. Anthony said yes and shared memories of their father with him. Then he told Gregory that their father was the best man he knew.
Anthony attended the Featherington Ball, where he suggested to Kate that they keep their distance. She said maybe they shouldn’t. She asked if he’d ask her to dance and he asked if she’d say yes. He led her onto the dance floor and they danced together while everyone watched. Despite all the eyes on them, they kept dancing. After they finished, they held hands until Portia herded everyone outside for a surprise.
Outside, Benedict told Anthony he was going to drop out of the Academy because he knew Anthony had bought his spot. Anthony told him to paint if he wanted to paint, as it was a talent of his. He also had a gift to see what others needed, even if they couldn’t see it themselves. Anthony apologized for taking too long to recognize that.
After talking to Benedict, Anthony found Kate in the garden and asked if she was still planning to leave. Kate said she had her family’s blessing and there were no obstacles preventing it. Anthony told her he didn’t visit her after her accident because he was so afraid of losing her. He admitted he loved her since they first raced together. After his confession, she said she loved him too. Anthony said he wanted a life that suited them both and that he wanted to marry her. She said there would never be a day he didn’t vex her. As fireworks started, Kate accepted his proposal and they kissed.
Six months later, Anthony and Kate were enjoying a morning in bed when she reminded him they needed to meet his family for Pall Mall. They joined the family and argued over the mallet of death. While they were arguing, Newton picked up one of the balls and ran off with it. Anthony said that Newton took Kate’s turn because he’s her dog, but Kate said Newton was his dog through marriage. Their arguing turned to embracing and Anthony suggested they could go back upstairs. Kate said that would be admitting defeat and she wouldn’t do that.[16]
1815 Season
Anthony and Kate returned from their honeymoon for Francesca’s debut. Colin returned from traveling just in time to join them.
After the debut, Anthony took Benedict and Colin for a drink at Mondrich’s, where he welcomed Colin home and thanked Benedict for handling the estate while he was gone.
Anthony and Kate struggled to continue their intimacy with his large family in the same house as them, so after Lady Danbury’s ball, Kate suggested they extend their honeymoon, saying it would give her more time between running the Sharma home and having to run the Bridgerton home. It would also allow them to focus on producing an heir. It would also give Violet more time being the viscountess, a role she loved.[17]
Anthony and Kate returned home with the news that Kate was pregnant. However, they didn’t immediately share the news with their family as they learned that Colin and Penelope were engaged. Anthony went with Benedict and Colin to drink and toast to their marriage. Then he told Colin he needed to tell Penelope that he loved her so she would know.
In bed, Anthony and Kate decided to keep the news to themselves for a while longer, deciding that it wasn’t the right time to share with everything else going on.
At Colin and Penelope’s betrothal party, which Kate planned, Francesca introduced them to John. He tried to tell them a story, but struggled with his words and was unable to get through it.
Later, Anthony started a game of charades in the drawing room. While the game was going on, he and Kate decided it was time to share their news. They told Violet and Lady Danbury first and they were both happy, but when they went to tell everyone else, they were interrupted by Cressida Cowper standing up and declaring herself Lady Whistledown, followed by Penelope collapsing.[18]
The night before Colin and Penelope’s wedding, Anthony and Kate talked to Colin at Violet’s request. They told him that marriage was hard work and encouraged him not to let whatever thing he’d learned about her ruin their whole relationship, as they’d been friends for years. The next day, they attended the wedding.
At the wedding breakfast, Anthony and Kate talked about Edwina, who was happy in India with her new husband. Kate expressed how much she missed her home in India and Anthony suggested they go there. He said if they left right away, they’d have time to get settled before the baby came. When she questioned them having the baby away from their home, he said that the baby would be a Bridgerton, but they would also be a Sharma and he wanted them to know about that and he wanted him to learn their culture so they could teach it to their child together.
When Anthony noticed Violet talking to Marcus and commented on it, Kate reminded him that their family was happy and urged him not to take that for granted.
The party abruptly ended when the queen came in and dismissed everyone except the Bridgertons. She knew one of them was Lady Whistledown and urged her to reveal herself. Anthony insisted that if something like that were happening under his roof, he would have known and stopped it. The queen backed off, but said she’d figure it out soon.[19]
Personality
The quintessential English nobleman, Anthony is the eldest Bridgerton sibling and dutiful head of the family since assuming his late father’s title of Viscount. Endlessly handsome, charming and rich, he’s quite the catch on this year’s marriage mart. But if he has any hope of fulfilling his oftentimes overwhelming duty of marrying and producing an heir, Anthony must first learn to temper his pursuit of pleasure.
Relationships
Romantic
Kate Bridgerton
Anthony was intrigued by Kate from the start, but decided to court her younger sister after he promised himself not to marry for love due to his past.[11] Both of them mutually agreed that the other was annoying, irritating and “vexing”.[12] Despite Kate not fitting into the criteria of the stereotypical woman who is marriage material and their arguments, Anthony found himself falling in love with her and the two of them ultimately married.[16]
Siena Rosso
Siena is an opera singer with whom Anthony had a relationship. Anthony had a long-term affair with Siena, even paying for her housing, but she was an escape for him from the pressure of the title, and that led to their break-up.[3] Anthony was heartbroken when she chose to be with another man instead of him. Even after they patch things up, they broke up for good because he was trying to make her something she isn’t nor what she wants. The next season, he burned a pamphlet advertising Siena’s performance, letting her go.[10]
Edwina Sharma
Before marrying Kate, Anthony was engaged to her sister, Edwina. After being declared the ‘diamond’ of the season by the Queen, Edwina was pursued by many, including Anthony. He originally chose to court her since she is the epitome of a girl that is marriage material. However, his love for Edwina’s older sister caused her to break off the engagement.
Familial
Edmund Bridgerton
Anthony had a close relationship with his father. He greatly admired him, telling Gregory that their father was the bravest man he’d ever met in his life but also funny and sensitive. He used to go to hunt with him often, and seeing how his father was stung by a bee and passed away traumatized him, to the point of overreacting when he saw Kate being stung by a bee. The pain he had over his father’s death made him change completely and refused to talk about Edmund for years and became distant with his family.
Violet Bridgerton
Anthony fought with his mother when she tried to match Daphne with Simon. Violet then fired back that she knew about his affair with Siena, and he wasn’t taking his responsibility as the head of the family seriously.[3] When she found out Anthony promised Daphne to Nigel Berbrooke, she was also outraged, like Daphne. Anthony figured out that Violet forced Berbrooke to flee town, and apologized for his conduct. Violet said she knew he had to be head of the family, but she could handle Daphne’s debut.[4] When Anthony decided to marry the next season, Violet was excited, and tried to match him with several ladies. However, Anthony rejected them, saying they would never be able to head of the Bridgerton family. Violet scolded him, saying he would never find someone with such high standards.[11] Anthony told Violet he would marry Edwina, but when she discovered Kate had deliberately kept him away, Violet said it was his fault, because he refused to find love.[1] Violet encouraged him to look for love, but Anthony refused, saying he remembered how grief-stricken Violet was after Edmund died, and refused to put anyone else through that.[2] Violet knew Anthony didn’t love Edwina, and tried to encourage him to tell her that, but he refused.[13] Violet apologized to Anthony for being absent after Edmund’s death, wishing she could take it back, but she encouraged him to pursue love with Kate.[16]
Benedict Bridgerton
Benedict is his younger brother and the oldest of his siblings. Much like Daphne and Eloise, Anthony and Benedict are the exact opposite of each other. While Anthony is serious, stern and dedicated to his duty, Benedict is funny, passionate, flirtatious and sensitive. Despite their differences, they are quite close with each other, seen when Anthony chose him to be his second when he challenged Simon to a duel and gave him specific instructions in case of his death. Anthony trusts enough to ask him some advice about poetry in order to keep courting Edwina. He was also willing to help Benedict to follow his dream, making a large donation to the Royal Academy Schools to ensure Benedict gets accepted. When he was going to marry Edwina, Anthony chose Benedict as his best man.
Colin Bridgerton
Anthony is close with Colin and they get along pretty well. While he doesn’t always agree with Colin’s decisions, such as being engaged with Marina or his travels around the continent, they’re frequently seen conversing and doing rounds of fencing along with Benedict. By the 1815 season their relationship’s improved. Anthony is more casual and enjoys teasing Colin, and also are often seen drinking together.
Daphne Basset
Anthony was overprotective of Daphne after her debut, scaring off many suitors. She told him that he was ruining her chances to be married. Soon after, he arranged her marriage to Nigel Berbrooke, despite her protests.[3] Anthony regretted his decision when he found out Berbrooke made unwanted advances on Daphne, then tried to blackmail her into marriage. After Berbrooke was run out of town by Lady Whistledown, Anthony loosened the reins, allowing more callers to Daphne.[4] He gave Prince Friedrich his blessing to propose to Daphne, but said it was her choice. When he found her with Simon, he demanded that Simon marry her, but he refused, and Anthony demanded a duel.[6] When Anthony noticed Daphne and Simon’s marriage was in trouble, he got into a fight with Simon over him hurting his sister.[8]
While Anthony was looking for a bride the following season, Daphne teased that he had his work cut out for him.[11] Daphne noticed Anthony’s attention to Kate, despite courting Edwina. Anthony told her there was nothing between him and Kate, which Daphne didn’t believe.[12] Anthony proposed to Edwina, but Daphne said it was a mistake, and Anthony should admit his feelings for Kate and accept love. Anthony, though, said he didn’t have time for love because he had to take care of his family. Daphne said that he shouldn’t have to put duty before love, and pitied Anthony thinking that he had to do so.[14]
Gregory Bridgerton
Gregory is the youngest of Anthony’s brothers and the second youngest of all his siblings. Shortly after Anthony’s failed proposal to Kate Sharma Gregory came into Anthony’s study and told him that his Latin tutor thought that he was stupid. Gregory attempted to leave but Anthony called him back in then reassured Gregory that the tutor didn’t think Gregory was stupid. He found Anthony frightening. Anthony then admitted that he asked too much of everyone in his life, including Gregory and the tutor.
Gregory asked Anthony if he was like his father at all as he didn’t know much about him. Anthony then talked a bit of their father, recalling a time he put glue in their brother Benedict’s shoes.
Hyacinth Bridgerton
Hyacinth was Anthony’s youngest sister and sibling. Prior to Hyacinth’s birth it appeared as though either Violet or the baby would die and the doctors asked Anthony which he would prefer if the choice had to be made. Anthony was shocked and horrified by this and told the doctors it was Violet’s choice before fleeing the room. Luckily both Violet and Hyacinth survived the birth.
Anthony appears to have a good relationship with Hyacinth, allowing her to come to Aubrey Hall (as long as she didn’t touch his lucky mallet) and inviting her to dance when no one showed up to his mother’s ball.
Francesca Bridgerton
Francesca is Anthony’s second youngest sister. During Francesca’s debut in the 1815 social season, contrary to Daphne’s debut, Anthony is more understanding with Francesca, allowing her to take a moment for herself during the first ball of the season.
Friendships
Simon Basset
Anthony and Simon have been friends since their days at Oxford. Their friendship ties became tense after Simon chose to court Anthony’s younger sister, Daphne. He told Simon to stay away from her after promising her to Nigel Berbrooke, but Simon said Berbrooke was not a worthy man, and revealed to Anthony what Berbrooke had tried to do to Daphne. Anthony realized his mistake, and he and Simon made amends. When Anthony caught Simon alone with Daphne, he was furious that Simon dishonored his family name to the point where they arranged a duel. However, Daphne stopped the duel, and convinced Simon to marry her. When Anthony sensed trouble in Simon and Daphne’s marriage, he accused Simon of hurting his sister to the point they got into a bloody fight. Simon and Daphne eventually made up, and let Anthony know they were staying in London.
Thomas Dorset
He and Dorset know each other from Oxford. When Anthony wanted to get closer to Edwina but Kate barred him, he asked Dorset to pretend to be interested in Kate to divert her attention and free Edwina. Kate discovers the hoax and is annoyed with both. Later in Hyde Park, he apologizes to her and asks her to accompany him on a boat trip, which she ends up accepting to make Anthony jealous. A jealous Anthony listens to Edwina talking about Dorset’s interest in Kate and the beautiful couple they make. Seeing that Kate seems to genuinely enjoy his company, Anthony becomes jealous, so he tries to outshine him, which results in both of them falling in the lake after Anthony trips over Newton.
Professional
Career
Anthony became the 9th Viscount Bridgerton at the young age of eighteen upon his father’s untimely death. Overwhelmed by the huge responsibilities piled on him all at once, Anthony spent the next decade avoiding most of his duties, choosing to spend most of his time romancing opera singer Siena Rosso. He planned to never marry and simply pass the title to one of his brothers. However, after a lecture from his mother about his hypocrisy about interfering in Daphne’s season while still avoiding his major responsibilities, Anthony finally decided to step up and accept his full duty, starting by breaking off his relationship with Siena and arranging a suitable match for Daphne.
After his poor choice in a husband for Daphne nearly ended in disaster, Anthony stepped back from the matters of her season for the most part, allowing his mother and sister to handle her navigation through the marriage market alone, although he did challenge Simon to a duel after he caught the latter making out with Daphne in the gardens. After Daphne married and became a duchess, therefore elevating their family’s status even higher, Anthony believed they were finally high enough that he could marry Siena with no severe problems, but Siena rejected his proposal, knowing that she would never fit into his world, nor did she want to. After that, Anthony decided that he would marry for convenience, not love. But that changed when he met Kate Sharma.
Notes and Trivia
- Netflix Bio: As the eldest sibling and head of the Bridgerton household, Anthony strives to fill his late father’s shoes, managing the family’s affairs. Intent on marrying out of duty, the young viscount is not interested in a love match. Nevertheless, he expects nothing short of perfection from his future bride.[20]
- The head of the Bridgerton family in the Regency era. The first child of Viscount Edmund and Viscountess Violet Bridgerton, and devoted husband of Viscountess Kate Bridgerton, née Sharma.[21]
- According to Simon, Anthony once let a farm animal into Simon’s dormitory as a prank, and Simon had to help get it back out.[5]
- He was 29 as of 1814.[1]
- In the first season, Anthony had sideburns, which were Jonathan Bailey’s real sideburns.[22] According to several sources, Anthony shaving his sideburns represents his transition from being a playboy to serious head of the household.[23]
- At the beginning of season two, Anthony wears a darker color palette, to reflect his serious search for a future wife, then his clothes become lighter and looser as he begins to loosen up more. He also begins to dress more like his father, Edmund, who is his role model as head of the family.[24]
- Anthony owns a pocket watch that previously belonged to his father.
- Anthony has a fear of bees as a result of witnessing his father’s death after he was stung by a bee.[12]
- While playing Pall Mall, Anthony tends to be quite competitive and superstitious, always using the same mallet and doesn’t allow anyone to use it. He once threatened to beat Colin when he touched his mallet.[2]
Gallery
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The reign of Elizabeth I saw the beginning of Britain’s first black community. It’s a fascinating story for modern Britons, writes historian Michael Wood.
Walk out of Aldgate Tube and stroll around Whitechapel Road in east London today, and you’ll experience the heady sights, smells and sounds of the temples, mosques and curry houses of Brick Lane – so typical of modern multicultural Britain.
Most of us tend to think that black people came to Britain after the war – Caribbeans on the Empire Windrush in 1948, Bangladeshis after the 1971 war and Ugandan Asians after Idi Amin’s expulsion in 1972.
But, back in Shakespeare’s day, you could have met people from west Africa and even Bengal in the same London streets.
Of course, there were fewer, and they drew antipathy as well as fascination from the Tudor inhabitants, who had never seen black people before. But we know they lived, worked and intermarried, so it is fair to say that Britain’s first black community starts here.
There had been black people in Britain in Roman times, and they are found as musicians in the early Tudor period in England and Scotland.
But the real change came in Elizabeth I’s reign, when, through the records, we can pick up ordinary, working, black people, especially in London.
Shakespeare himself, a man fascinated by “the other”, wrote several black parts – indeed, two of his greatest characters are black – and the fact that he put them into mainstream entertainment reflects the fact that they were a significant element in the population of London.
Employed especially as domestic servants, but also as musicians, dancers and entertainers, their numbers ran to many hundreds, maybe even more.
And let’s be clear – they were not slaves. In English law, it was not possible to be a slave in England (although that principle had to be re-stated in slave trade court cases in the late 18th Century, like the <link> <caption>”Somersett” case</caption> <url href=”http://www.bbc.co.uk/
In Elizabeth’s reign, the black people of London were mostly free. Some indeed, both men and women, married native English people.
In 1599, for example, in St Olave Hart Street, John Cathman married Constantia “a black woman and servant”. A bit later, James Curres, “a moore Christian”, married Margaret Person, a maid.
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In this single small parish, we find 25 black people in the later 16th Century. They are mainly servants, but not all – one man lodging at the White Bell, next to the Bell Foundry off Whitechapel road, probably worked at the foundry.
Some were given costly, high status, Christian funerals, with bearers and fine black cloth, a mark of the esteem in which they were held by employers, neighbours and fellow workers.
Among the names are these:
- Christopher Cappervert [ie from Cape Verde] – “a blacke moore”
- Domingo – “a black neigro servaunt unto Sir William Winter”
- Suzanna Peavis – “a blackamore servant to John Deppinois”
- Symon Valencia – “a black moore servaunt to Stephen Drifyeld a nedellmaker”
- Cassango – “a blackmoore servaunt to Mr Thomas Barber a marchaunt”
- Isabell Peeters – “a Black-more lodgeing in Blew Anchor Alley”
- “A negar whose name was suposed to be Frauncis. He was servant to be [sic] Peter Miller a beare brewer dwelling at the signe of the hartes horne in the libertie of EastSmithfield. Yeares xxvi [26]. He had the best cloth [and] iiii [4] bearers”
Among later names, we find:
- Anne Vause – “a Black-more wife to Anthonie Vause, Trompetter”
- John Comequicke – “a Black-Moore so named, servant to Thomas Love a Captaine”
And, the saddest in this list:
- Marie – “a Blackamoor woman that die in the street”
Sometimes the detail in the Botolph’s register is absolutely fascinating.
In 1597, for example, Mary Fillis, a black woman of 20 years, had, for a long while, been the servant of Widow Barker in Mark Lane. She had been in England 13 or 14 years, and was the daughter of a Moorish shovel maker and basket maker. Never christened, she became the servant of Millicent Porter, a seamstress living in East Smithfield, and now “taking some howld of faith in Jesus Chryst, was desyrous to becom a Christian, Wherefore shee made sute by hir said mistres to have some conference with the Curat”.
Examined in her faith by the vicar of St Botolph’s, and “answering him verie Christian lyke”, she did her catechisms, said the Lord’s Prayer, and was baptised on Friday 3 June 1597 in front of the congregation. Among her witnesses were a group of five women, mostly wives of leading parishioners. Now a “lyvely member” of the church in Aldgate, there is no question from this description that Mary belonged to a community with friends and supporters.
Despite the story of Fillis, the lives of others were far from sweetness and light, of course. The lives of some black people were as free as anywhere in the white European world, but, for many, things were circumscribed and very hard.
Some black women worked alongside their white counterparts as prostitutes, especially in Southwark, and in the brothel area of Turnmill Street in Clerkenwell. Here the famous Lucy Negro, a former dancer in the Queen’s service, ran an establishment patronised by noblemen and lawyers. Lucy was famous enough to be paid mock homage in the Inns of Court revels at Gray’s Inn.
Her area of London was notorious. “Pray enquire after and secure my negress: she is certainly at The Swan, a Dane’s beershop in Turnmil Street,” wrote one Denis Edwards in 1602. Shakespeare’s acquaintance, the poet John Weaver, also sang the praises of a woman whose face was “pure black as Ebonie, jet blacke”.
In around 1600, the presence of black people had become an issue for the English government. Their numbers recently increased by many slaves freed from captured Spanish ships, the presence of black people suddenly came to be seen as a nuisance. In 1601, among the Cecil papers still held at Hatfield House, we hear this:
“The queen is discontented at the great numbers of ‘negars and blackamoores’ which are crept into the realm since the troubles between her Highness and the King of Spain, and are fostered here to the annoyance of her own people.”
The “great numbers” were mainly galley slaves and servants from captured Spanish vessels, and a plan was mooted to transport them out of the country. Was this the first example of government repatriation? In July 1602, Cecil was putting pressure on the merchants, one of whom wrote:
“I have persuaded the merchants trading to Barbary, not without some difficulty, to yield to [ie pay for] the charges of the Moors lately redeemed out of servitude by her Majesty’s ships, so far as it may concern their lodging and victuals, till some shipping may be ready to carry them into Barbary…”
Whether this actually happened is unclear. No more then than now, should we take a government’s pronouncements on such matters at face value?
But it is at least worth noting that the authorities felt duty-bound to look after food and lodging while the freed slaves were in London. But it cannot be, as is sometimes claimed today, that this edict applied to the many black people who, like Mary Fillis, were living as citizens in London, as they were in Bristol.
Brief as they are, such hints suggest a surprisingly rich hidden narrative for black people in Elizabethan England.
From Lucy Negro to Mary Fillis, their numbers grew in the 17th Century as they were joined by large numbers of people from India and, in particular, Bengal.
Sadly, their own story, in their own words, is lacking, but by the time we reach the 18th Century, we have the remarkable works of prose, poetry and music written by black Britons, among whom the likes of Olaudah Equiano, Ottobah Cugoano and Ignatius Sancho deserve their place in any list of Great Britons.
By the 18th Century, it is thought as many as 20,000 black servants lived in London. They even had their own taverns where they greeted defeat of the “Somersett case” and the victories of the abolitionists with raucous good humour.
Their numbers were still small compared with the population as a whole, but they already had a role in our national story. What would Mary Fillis make of things today I wonder? And what would we give for her story?
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often sent their mixed-race (“mulatto”) children to England to be educated and to remove them from colonial, race-based legal restrictions. This practice served to “whiten” them along class and cultural lines, validating and advancing these children by securing their place within British society.
- Motivation: Fathers aimed to protect their children from the stigma and restrictions of West Indian slave societies.
- Education and Lifestyle: These children were often sent to boarding schools and, in some cases, provided with inheritances, allowing them to live as elite, educated members of British society.
- Legal Status: Some fathers went to great lengths, even using special acts of Parliament, to ensure their children were treated as white subjects rather than enslaved people.
- Context: While many remained enslaved, a significant minority of, particularly Scottish, plantation owners took steps to provide for their “colonial families” by bringing them back to the metropole
History
Early Life
Born Soma Anderson in Sierra Leone, she was betrothed at age three by her parents to Lord Herman Danbury, a man much older than her. She was taught to like all of his favorite things and perform all of his favorite songs on the piano. She married him at a considerably young age. Over the course of the union, she would bear him four children, although she would come to loathe and resent her husband.[2]
King George and Queen Charlotte’s Wedding
After an uncomfortable encounter with her husband, he told her he had a surprise for her, but didn’t tell her what it was. As soon as he fell asleep, she got up and took a bath. She complained to her maid, Coral, that she hadn’t gotten any warning that he would be coming to her. Coral said she didn’t get any warning because Coral hadn’t gotten any from the butler. She suspected the spontaneous coupling was tied in with the surprise, which was that they’d been invited to the royal wedding. She was surprised as their side never mixed with the other, but Coral said the Bassets had also received an invitation. Additionally, she would attend the queen as a part of her court.
They attended the wedding, where Princess Augusta informed them that they would be titled members of the ton, as they would be uniting society. When they entered the wedding, Lady Danbury got a glimpse of the future queen and understood, as she was brown like them.
At the reception following the ceremony, Lady Danbury introduced herself and said she’d be part of the queen’s court. She warned Queen Charlotte to be careful and promised to come if Queen Charlotte sent for her.[3]
Meeting Queen Charlotte
In the days following the wedding, Lady Danbury was subjected to additional attention from her husband as he became frustrated that the men of the ton were not including the newly-titled men in her outings and were not allowing them into White’s.
Lady Danbury was surprised to be summoned to meet with Queen Charlotte. She arrived to find that Queen Charlotte had requested her because Brimsley said she’d be the most discreet about meeting with the queen during her honeymoon, when she wasn’t meant to be receiving visitors. Lady Danbury asked if she could speak freely and Queen Charlotte dismissed her staff so they could. Queen Charlotte admitted that her wedding night had been a disaster and they hadn’t consummated the marriage. Lady Danbury said that meant they weren’t actually married and her position was in danger. Then she drew pictures to illustrate exactly what Queen Charlotte and King George needed to do. She also told the queen that she’d never found pleasure in it, though she supposed one could.
After this meeting, Lady Danbury met with Princess Augusta, who knew she’d had tea with the queen and wanted to know what they’d talked about. Lady Danbury used this as leverage to get Princess Augusta to agree to use her influence to get the other members of the ton to include the newly-titled men in societal events as well as money and an estate for her and her husband. In exchange, she could provide the information Princess Augusta wanted. Lady Danbury and Lord Danbury went to their new estate together and she let him believe that it was his father’s relationship with the former king that caused it.[4]
First Ball
Princess Augusta invited Lady Danbury to another tea. Before she went, Lord Danbury asked her to declare that she wanted to throw the first ball of the year and get Princess Augusta’s support. She promised to address it when he tried to get her to cancel the tea. At the tea, Lady Danbury lied and told her the king and queen were happy together and enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon. She also said she’d spoken to Queen Charlotte about an heir.
Privately, Lady Danbury told Queen Charlotte that she would get through her marriage by focusing on producing an heir.
At a later meeting, Lady Danbury told Princess Augusta that Queen Charlotte showed no signs of being with child. Princess Augusta asked her to keep an eye on that as a royal baby would seal the Great Experiment. Lady Danbury suggested that she could throw a ball, the first of the year, that would also help. Princess Augusta said that wouldn’t be accepted, but Lady Danbury used Princess Augusta’s reliance on her for information to get her support.
Instead of waiting for Princess Augusta’s approval, Lady Danbury decided to send out invitations to the ball, heading her off.
While listening to a young Mozart with Queen Charlotte and the other ladies-in-waiting, Vivian Ledger told Lady Danbury that she’d received the invitation but wouldn’t be able to come to the ball. Several other ladies agreed.
Desperate, Lady Danbury went to Queen Charlotte and told her she needed Queen Charlotte to encourage the other ladies-in-waiting to attend the ball. She also explained the racial tension in the ton and how her life would be different if she were not the queen. She encouraged the queen to think about her country and her people as she held their fates in her hands.
Lady Danbury prepared for the ball and was pleased when several families from the ton who had previously declared they weren’t coming showed up. Lord Ledger informed her that the king sent them a personal note and they decided they couldn’t miss an event the king was attending. Despite their presence, Lady Danbury was displeased that the two sides weren’t mixing. This was resolved when the king and queen arrived and started dancing together, followed by Lord Ledger asking Lady Danbury to dance
Lord Danbury’s Death and Mourning
That night, Lord and Lady Danbury were having sex when Lord Danbury suddenly collapsed and died. Lady Danbury went to Coral and subtly told her what had happened. Then Coral helped her put on a show for the other servants, pretending to be wracked with grief at his death.[5]
In the days following Lord Danbury’s death, Lady Danbury reflected on her marriage and how she’d been raised to be his wife after being betrothed to him at the age of three. She was taught to love all the things he loved, leaving her not knowing how she actually felt about things. She needed to learn how to exist in the world now that that was over.
After talking to some of the other newly-titled families, Lady Danbury worried that her son might not inherit his father’s title and estate, leaving their future uncertain. To help her figure out where she stood, she sent a letter to her husband’s solicitor and met with him, through which she learned that her husband had depleted much of their money funding their new lifestyle.
During her mourning period, she began taking walks around her property. On her first walk, she met Lord Ledger, whose property shared a boundary with hers. They began walking together daily, talking. She confided in him her troubles with the estate and her son’s title. She also said she had a birthday coming, but it would just be another day spent in mourning.
Wanting to establish some security for herself, Lady Danbury took her eldest son, Dominic, to meet Princess Augusta. Despite Lady Danbury’s efforts, Princess Augusta refused to acknowledge him as Lord Danbury.
When she returned home, she learned that Queen Charlotte was there. Queen Charlotte asked to stay with Lady Danbury, but Lady Danbury knew she had to go home because she was pregnant with the heir to the throne and it would be treasonous for Lady Danbury to hide her. She went to Queen Charlotte and said that if they wanted to be friends, they needed to start over. And if they wanted to live the lives they wished for, they needed to make the men think of them.
Soon after that, Lady Danbury went to leave, but found Lord Ledger at her door. He had a birthday hat he’d made for her because he didn’t want her birthday to pass without celebration. Then they finally gave into the pull and started kissing. They moved to a bedroom, where they had sex
Starting a New Life
As Lady Danbury prepared to go for another walk to meet Lord Ledger, she told Coral that he was kind and joyful and she felt joy when she was with him. When she met up with Lord Ledger, she was surprised to see he’d brought his daughter, Violet. They subtly said goodbye to each other and parted ways.
Lady Danbury then met with Princess Augusta, who tried to get information out of Lady Danbury and in exchange hinted that she could help solidify her son’s title.
When Lady Danbury told Coral about this, Coral suggested that Lady Danbury give Princess Augusta something small, though Lady Danbury said she couldn’t as she’d promised Queen Charlotte friendship. She also couldn’t trouble Queen Charlotte by asking her to intervene in the issue over her son’s title.
Lady Danbury met with Queen Charlotte, who was progressing in her pregnancy. She said the royal physician had told her it would be quick and painless to give birth, but wanted Lady Danbury’s experience. Lady Danbury said it was the worst pain imaginable, but then backpedaled and said it would only hurt a little and she’d barely remember it.
When Duke Adolphus arrived in London for business, he asked if he could call on Lady Danbury. She said she’d like that. She told Coral it solved her problem, because marrying him would solidify her future.
Queen Charlotte went into labor and Lady Danbury supported her while she gave birth.
After the birth, Lady Danbury continued to socialize with Duke Adolphus. She also met with Princess Augusta, who told her that after her husband died, she had to throw herself on the mercy of her late husband’s father, a cruel man who abused her and her son. But it allowed her to manage her own fate. She urged Lady Danbury not to lose control of her own fate.
At the conclusion of Adolphus’s business, he said he was going to return home. Lady Danbury said she’d see him on his next visit, but he actually wanted her to go with him as his wife. He believed they could be happy together. He told her to think about it and he’d wait for her answer.
Lady Danbury was invited to and attended a ball thrown by the king and queen to introduce the newborn prince. At the ball, Adolphus found her hiding away from the crowd and she asked him what their marriage would look like. He told her she’d have some duties and she’d have to learn the language. And she’d have to have some more children. Though he promised to raise the Danbury children as his own, he would also need an heir. They could even come back to England together every few years. Lady Danbury told him she couldn’t marry him because she couldn’t marry anyone. She’d grown up breathing someone else’s air and needed to learn who she was on her own. It might be a mistake, but it was hers to make.
As Lady Danbury went to leave the ball, Queen Charlotte stopped her and asked her about refusing Adolphus’s proposal. She said she was upset that Lady Danbury didn’t come to her with her concerns over her estate and title. Lady Danbury said she didn’t want to put her burdens on top of the queen’s, but the queen said they had one crown and the burdens were shared. She and the king ruled for the welfare of their subjects, new and old. She expects Lady Danbury to come to her directly with her concerns in the future and address her by her title, ensuring it was hers to keep
Taking Simon In
Lady Danbury was a dear friend of Simon Basset’s mother, Sarah. When Sarah became pregnant and prepared to give birth, Lady Danbury came to the estate to be at her side. However, Sarah’s husband, the duke, wouldn’t allow her into the room. When the duchess cried out, the duke ran into the room, leaving Lady Danbury on the other side. The duke was only interested in learning if he had a son and when it was confirmed that he did, he took the newborn Simon to present him to the crowd while Lady Danbury went to Sarah’s side. She soon after passed out from blood loss due to hemorrhage and died with Lady Danbury by her side.
Lady Danbury visited the estate a few years later and found young Simon practicing his schooling and not dead as she’d been led to believe he was. She was shocked to learn he didn’t have any manners despite having learned to read and write. He quickly demonstrated that he had a significant stutter. She decided to take him under her wing, saying she’d help him with his stammer and in exchange, he’d promise that when he stood in the light, he’d be worthy of the attention he commanded. When Simon was eleven, she presented him to his father, now extremely accomplished for his age. Despite this, his father still rejected him and called him his worst failure. Lady Danbury was quick to remind him that Simon would be the next duke, though the duke still sent them both away.[7]
Start of the 1813 Season
After the death of his father, Simon returned to London to put his father’s affairs in order. While he was there, Lady Danbury greeted him and encouraged him to join in the social events for the year, including a ball she was hosting. When she put pressure on him, he agreed to make a brief appearance at her ball. At the ball, Lady Danbury notices Daphne, who was struggling to find suitable matches due to her brother’s overbearing presence, something Lady Danbury sympathized with.
At a show, Lady Danbury invited Daphne and her mother to sit in her box. She and Lady Bridgerton gossiped about the king and Lady Whistledown. They also established that Daphne and Simon would make a good match together.[8]
Lady Danbury and Lady Bridgerton were delighted to observe Simon and Daphne’s courtship, unaware they were faking it. Lady Danbury told Simon directly that the two of them made a beautiful match.[7]
Lady Bridgerton later became concerned that Simon and Daphne hadn’t become engaged, though Lady Danbury wasn’t worried. However, she went to Simon and asked him if the time he’d been spending with Daphne was leading toward anything. With Prince Friedrich starting to show interest, Lady Danbury warned him to let her go if he didn’t plan to propose, so that she could be allowed to find a better match. Spurred by this conversation, Simon ended things with Daphne and told Lady Danbury he was leaving London. To that, she called him a fool.[9]
When Simon prepared to leave, Lady Danbury went to see him off, but still told him he was a fool for letting Daphne slip away. She reminded him of how far they’d come, how there used to be two societies, separated by color, until the King fell in love with one of them. She told him love conquers all, but Simon was unconvinced.[10]
When Simon and Daphne became engaged, Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton accompanied them out as they went to events. When the archbishop rejected their special license to marry quickly, Lady Danbury said it was the queen’s doing, as she was taking Daphne’s rejection of her nephew personally. The solution was to make a personal appeal to the queen without begging or insincerity. They just needed to tell her they were in love. She went with them when they appeared before the queen. After they spoke, the queen granted their special license. They married quickly, with Daphne’s family present on her side and Will, Alice, and Lady Danbury present for Simon.
Eloise accused Lady Danbury of being Lady Whistledown. She insisted that she was not, but wanted to know who it was when Eloise figured it out.[11]
When the news broke that Marina Thompson was pregnant and her engagement to Colin Bridgerton was called off, Daphne and Simon returned to London to support her family. Lady Danbury noticed the timing of their return, though Daphne claimed it was purely coincidence. Lady Danbury then invited Daphne to a party she was throwing for married ladies of the ton. Lady Danbury also became suspicious of Daphne and Simon after seeing Daphne and her mother arguing in the garden. Daphne ultimately decided to attend Lady Danbury’s party, where the ladies gambled, drank, and socialized.[12]
When Daphne found the letters Simon had written to his father, which his father left unopened and unanswered, she asked Lady Danbury if she knew about them. Lady Danbury confirmed that she did. The late duke demanded perfection from his son and when that didn’t happen, he abandoned his son. Lady Danbury took up the torch and encouraged Simon.
Lady Danbury then spoke to Simon and asked if his plans had changed. He said they hadn’t and she told him his pride would leave him with nothing. Soon after that, Daphne and Simon danced together, a waltz they’d agreed upon. As they danced, it began to rain. As they danced, they rekindled their romance. When another couple tried to join them to dance in the rain, Lady Danbury stopped them with her cane and sent everyone home
Hosting the Sharmas
Lady Danbury agreed to host Mary Sharma and her two daughters, Kate and Edwina, so they could search for a proper match for Edwina. Lady Danbury hosted the first ball of the season, which was their introduction to society. Lady Danbury was impressed with how well Edwina had been brought up, speaking multiple languages and playing instruments. She also knew how to dance.
At the ball, Lady Danbury introduced the Sharmas and pointed out suitors who might make good matches for Edwina and even for Kate, who was insistent that she was focused only on finding a match for Edwina. Lady Danbury noticed how strict Kate was concerning who Edwina could dance and socialize with. She also told Violet she was looking forward to showing the other mamas of the ton how it was done. She was shocked when Kate approached saying she, Edwina, and Mary were leaving early.
When Lady Danbury received a letter from Mary’s parents, the Sheffields, she confronted Kate over it. Kate admitted that they’d offered to pay Edwina’s dowry, but only if she married English nobility. She and Mary had always hidden from Edwina how much they struggled to make ends meet and she didn’t want to tell Edwina about the dowry, because she wanted Edwina to marry for love, not out of obligation. She asked Lady Danbury not to tell Edwina.
At the queen’s ball, Edwina was named the season’s diamond, which Kate credited to Lady Danbury.[14]
Royal Races and Soiree
Wanting to keep Edwina away from Anthony Bridgerton, Kate compiled a list of suitable matches, leaving Anthony off. Lady Danbury questioned her about it, but she said he was only looking to marry to fulfill his duty. Lady Danbury reminded her that most marriages in the ton were business arrangements and true love matches were rare.
Lady Danbury later attended the Royal Races with the Sharmas. She introduced them to Thomas Dorset, who claimed interest in Kate when told Edwina already had an escort. At the event, she talked to Violet about Edwina and Anthony’s budding relationship. Lady Danbury said she wanted to remain neutral about it until Edwina had made her choice, but said Kate might be an obstacle. However they both remind each other that last year they helped assist Daphne in finding her husband and succeeded.
At a visit with the queen, the queen told Edwina to let her know if anyone tried to mess with her or break them up. Lady Danbury realized she was trying to use Edwina to identify Lady Whistledown and asked if that was her reason for naming Edwina the season’s diamond.
Lady Danbury decided to throw a party so Edwina could get to know all of her suitors better. She suggested a poetry reading, but it led to all the men showing off their talents. After the last suitor had performed, Lady Danbury thanked them for coming. Anthony Bridgerton then came in and asked for his own shot, despite not having been invited to the party. He started to recite a poem he claimed to have written, but then admitted they weren’t his words, his brother gave him those words. He told Edwina he couldn’t promise love or passion, but he could promise duty and action.
During the party, Kate slipped away to her room. Lady Danbury found her there and suggested she return to the party. Kate said she was upset that Anthony was trying to manipulate her sister, so Lady Danbury suggested she focus on satisfying her own needs. Kate said she just wanted to get Edwina married, then she would leave and never return. She told Lady Danbury she’d become a governess and be content in her life alone, the way Lady Danbury was. Lady Danbury corrected that she was a widow who had lived a full life with her husband. She’d earned the right to do whatever she pleased, unlike Kate
Trip to Aubrey Hall
Lady Danbury went with the Sharmas when they were all invited to come to Aubrey Hall ahead of the other guests so the two families could get to know each other better. Lady Danbury said the early invitation was a good sign and by the time the other guests arrived, Edwina might have secured herself a proposal. Lady Danbury was excited to see Simon and Daphne’s son, Augie, when she arrived and held him.
Lady Danbury sat with Violet and Mary while the two sets of siblings played a vicious game of Pall-Mall. As they watched, she and Violet looked at Daphne and said they hoped that year’s matchmaking would be as fruitful as the one prior.
That evening, Lady Danbury eavesdropped at the door as Edwina and Kate talked about Anthony. Edwina said she was sure a proposal was coming. At the same time, Violet eavesdropped on Daphne and Anthony talking about Edwina.
The next day, Lady Danbury proposed a toast and left space for Anthony to propose, but he surprised them all by simply thanking them all for coming.[1]
As the visit to Aubrey Hall continued, Lady Danbury watched Kate and Anthony interact. One night, Lady Danbury went to Kate and asked if she’d told Edwina about the strings attached to her inheritance. Kate said there was no point, because she didn’t believe Anthony would propose after all. She worried she’d ruined it because they couldn’t get along, but Lady Danbury told her to be honest with herself about why she was getting in the way of what her family needed for survival and what Edwina wanted. She told Kate to be honest with Edwina about how she felt, however that was. The next day, as they prepared to leave, Anthony came out of the house and proposed to Edwina, who happily accepted.[16]
Shortly after the engagement, Lady Danbury told the Sharmas that Mary’s parents were in London and wanted to meet Edwina and Anthony. She proposed inviting them to the engagement dinner. When Mary claimed a headache, Lady Danbury stepped in to chaperone Edwina and Anthony’s promenade and roped Kate into going with her.
As they walked, Kate said she was upset that Lady Danbury had invited the Sheffields to dinner, as she wanted to save the reunion until after the wedding because she hadn’t told Edwina about the arrangement she’d made. Lady Danbury wondered if she secretly wanted the engagement called off. She told Kate what a scandal that would be, the kind that could ruin her family. It would be foolish to jeopardize the marriage. She asked if Kate was a fool and Kate said she wasn’t.
Later, when the Sheffields arrived for the dinner, Lady Danbury privately told Kate that a life of independence was more than a consolation prize for getting the man she wanted and some would even think it the better prize. Lady Danbury made introductions. The Sheffields were delighted to meet Edwina, but largely ignored Kate, even as dinner started. When they started to talk about Mary’s decision to reject their match for her and marry a commoner instead, Lady Danbury and Violet both unsuccessfully tried to change the subject. After they then revealed the deal Kate had made for Edwina’s dowry, Anthony finally spoke up and told them he wouldn’t stand for them insulting Kate and the other Sharmas. He ordered them to leave, then left himself after they were gone.[17]
Anthony and Edwina’s Wedding
On the day of Anthony and Edwina’s wedding, Lady Danbury and Violet greeted each other. They hadn’t seen each other since the dinner with the Sheffields. When Edwina abruptly left the wedding in the middle of the ceremony, Lady Danbury went to the queen and told her it wasn’t her fault the wedding was called off. The queen said Lady Whistledown would blame her anyway and her words carried a lot of weight. They discussed what they should do and the queen told Brimsley to take all the guests out to the garden and not let anyone leave.
She later talked to Violet and said that while the queen wanted her to fix things and for the first time in her life, she had no idea what to do. Violet asked if she thought Edwina would return to the altar and Lady Danbury said that only Edwina could answer that.
She and Violet talked to the queen, who was upset that the wedding wasn’t going forward.[18]
Harmony Ball
As they returned to public life after the wedding debacle, Lady Danbury reminded the Sharmas to say that it was a mutual agreement between Anthony and Edwina if people asked about it. She also said the ton has a short attention span and with any luck, within a week, they’d have moved on to something else. However, they quickly realized they were being shunned by the rest of the ton, and so were the Bridgertons. When they returned home, Lady Danbury said they needed to change the way the ton thought of them and quickly. She and Violet decided to throw a ball together, to prove they held no ill will toward each other. And in order to sell it, Kate and Anthony would need to stay far away from each other, so no one would see the obvious attraction between them.
At the art gallery, Lady Danbury and Violet spoke to other ladies, who were surprised to see them out and about. Violet told them about the ball and said she’d see if there was still room to invite them, as they were expecting a full house.
The night of the ball, they were shocked when no one else came. As they prepared to send everyone home, Anthony called the younger kids down to join them and started a lively dance. After the dance, Violet expressed her shock that the ton didn’t believe their story. Lady Danbury noticed the maids reading the latest Whistledown and suggested asking them. They learned that the latest issue had reported that Eloise was associating with political radicals
Kate’s Accident and Recovery
That night, Kate was thrown from her horse and hit her head. Anthony brought her back to Lady Danbury’s, where Lady Danbury, Mary, and Edwina watched anxiously as he put her in bed so the surgeon could examine her. Then they waited by her bedside as she slept.
Lady Danbury met with the queen, who asked why the wedding was really called off, if it was because of Eloise. Lady Danbury said they were busy tending to Kate and didn’t know. They then talked about who else in the ton might marry that year, but realized they didn’t know of anyone.
Finally, Kate woke up and Lady Danbury had someone send for a doctor. While they waited, Kate relayed what she remembered of the accident and asked if Anthony had been to visit her. Lady Danbury said he’d rescued her in the park and brought her home, but hadn’t visited since.
Despite the scandal surrounding the family, Lady Danbury and the Sharmas went to the Featherington ball, meant to be Kate’s last event before returning to India alone as Lady Danbury had offered to host Mary and Edwina for another season. However, at the ball, Anthony proposed to Kate and she accepted.
Six months later, Lady Danbury joined the Bridgertons, including the now-married Kate and Anthony, at Aubrey Hall for their Pall Mall game.[20]
Princess Royal’s Death
When the princess royal died in childbirth, Lady Danbury received the news.[3] With the pressure on to produce an heir, Queen Charlotte called Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton to her to ask them for advice. Lady Danbury had none as her children had all moved continents away from her. She also viewed marriage as a duty, not a pleasure.[4]
Lady Danbury went to the church, where she found Violet lighting a candle for Edmund on his birthday. Violet shared how hard the day was for her and Lady Danbury declared her fortunate, confusing Violet. At a later meeting, Lady Danbury shared how her marriage had been filled with hatred and scorn, which is why she felt Violet was fortunate to have a marriage that was full of love and passion.[5]
Advising Violet
Violet confided in Lady Danbury when she realized she was feeling sexual desire for the first time since her husband’s death. Lady Danbury shared that she never felt sexual desire at all until after her husband had died and told Violet it was okay to want that kind of affection and to pursue it.[2]
While preparing for a walk, Violet and Lady Danbury discussed Violet’s plans to start anew. Lady Danbury said she was happy for her. When Lady Danbury stepped out for a minute, Violet noticed a birthday hat on the mantle like her father had made for her. On their walk, a now-suspicious Violet questioned Lady Danbury about her garden blooming after her husband’s death. Lady Danbury said she had loved and been loved, but that was all she could say as she was discreet. When Violet probed, Lady Danbury asked if she’d ever told Violet about the queen’s brother. Violet was surprised, which Lady Danbury attributed to her discretion.
Lady Danbury went to Violet’s to have tea and saw that Violet had several birthday hats spread throughout the room. Violet told Lady Danbury she was going to pack them away again. She and Lady Danbury shared meaningful eye contact and Lady Danbury said she should keep the hats out because they were lovely and cheerful.[6]
1815 Social Season
Shortly after the 1815 debuts, Lady Danbury attended a social event, where everyone questioned the queen’s absence. Lady Danbury said she thought the queen was a bit reticent after her instincts failed her the previous season.
Lady Danbury then threw the first ball of the season, The Four Seasons Ball. At the ball, she talked to the queen about the season’s debutantes, none of whom had impressed the queen. The queen said that people expected a diamond every season, but diamonds were rare, so they shouldn’t. Lady Danbury reminded her that she’d actually only named one diamond and that Lady Whistledown had actually named the first one.[21]
Desperate mamas began sending the queen gifts in the hopes of her naming their daughters the diamond. The queen quickly grew tired of it and told Lady Danbury that she wouldn’t name a diamond because it would give Lady Whistledown too much satisfaction. Instead, she would call it something else, but was still looking for someone worthy.
Lady Danbury went to the Bridgerton house, where she shared this news with Violet and Francesca and also said that there were several suitors with an interest in music who might make good matches for Francesca.
At the ball, Lady Danbury noticed Violet watching Francesca talk with one such suitor and suggested that Violet let Francesca stay in her natural sphere. When the conversation ended, Lady Danbury summoned Francesca to her and walked away with her.
When the queen decided she was done for the evening and wanted to leave, Lady Danbury got her to stay a bit longer under the guise of seeing a painting. Instead, she led the queen to where Francesca was privately playing pianoforte. Lady Danbury was pleased when the queen applauded the performance and declared Francesca sparkling.
That evening, a footman brought Lady Danbury a letter. She read it and told him to have Mrs. Walsh prepare for a visitor.[22]
Lady Danbury met with the queen to go over the possible suitors for Francesca. When the queen noticed Lady Danbury’s lack of enthusiasm, Lady Danbury admitted she was distracted by an unwanted visitor. The queen offered to have them banished, but Lady Danbury said it wasn’t worth her time and they went back to Francesca’s suitors.
At a party, Lady Danbury talked to Francesca and Violet about all the suitors who had come calling. Lady Danbury said it was as she suspected, as the lower-ranking lords could come first and then the higher-ranking ones would come once they were done. And when the queen thought she was ready, she would introduce Francesca to the highest-ranking of them all. Despite this, Violet reminded Francesca she didn’t have to marry whoever the queen picked.
Later, Benedict approached Lady Danbury and she knew he was doing so to avoid Lady and Dolores Stowell. She said he could express his gratitude to her by taking her for a turn about the room, which he did.
At the hot air balloon debut, the queen introduced Francesca to Lord Samadani, whom she brought from Vienna just to meet her. Violet and Lady Danbury watched them and enjoyed the first sparks of attraction.
At the Innovations Ball, Lady Danbury noticed Violet talking to her newly-arrived brother, Marcus Anderson and introduced them.[23] While they ate together, Lady Danbury asked Marcus why he was there. He said he was there to meet ladies.
At an event, Lady Danbury told the queen that her sparkler was shining brightly. The queen was pleased about that and her recent agreement with Lady Whistledown. Lady Danbury then talked to Alice, who was there alone because Will was at his club. Lady Danbury told her that the queen wouldn’t look kindly on Will working at the club and impressed upon Alice the need to show Will that his new life was worth the sacrifice.
Lady Danbury decided to leave early and Marcus asked her where she was going. She told him she’d done what she needed to do for the night, so she was leaving. He’d heard that she molded society to her will and asked her to help him find a lady. She asked him to leave her out of his raking about town, but he said he was pure of heart.[24]
When Marcus learned that Colin and Penelope Featherington were engaged, he asked his sister if it was her doing. She said it wasn’t, but she was pleased by it.
Lady Danbury then went to see the queen, who was pleased that Lady Whistledown hadn’t antagonized her while reporting on Francesca choosing John Stirling over Lord Samadani. She believed it showed a weakness and that made it the perfect time to unmask her. To that end, she offered a monetary reward to anyone who helped.
Lady Danbury attended Colin and Penelope’s betrothal party, where she and Violet watched the couple from above and commented how one would be foolish to question the match.
After Francesca introduced John to her brother and he failed to find the words to tell a story, Violet questioned the match. Lady Danbury commented that they were very similar, but Violet thought that might hold Francesca back.
Later in the evening, Anthony and Kate told Lady Danbury and Violet that they were expecting, to their delight. However, when they went to tell the rest of the party, they were surprised when Cressida Cowper stood up and declared herself Lady Whistledown and then Penelope collapsed.[25]
Lady Danbury was pleased when Alice and Will told her they were planning to sell the club. She encouraged them to draw some positive attention to themselves by throwing a ball. They reluctantly agreed.
Noticing that Marcus and Violet had caught each other’s eyes, Lady Danbury started to introduce her brother to other widows, hoping to keep him away from Violet. She finally confronted him about it when he tried to follow Violet as she left the Mondrich party. He asked what he’d done to draw such hatred from her and believed it was due to their childhood, in which their father favored him for being the first son, despite Lady Danbury being the firstborn. Lady Danbury said she didn’t care about that, but did care about Marcus ruining her chance at happiness by foiling her plan to run away the night before her wedding. She knew it was him as she heard their father thanking him. She told him he could have any lady he wanted except her friend.[26]
Lady Danbury was pleased when the real Lady Whistledown published an issue discrediting Cressida’s claim to the name. She talked to Violet, who was also relieved as Cressida’s version of the column had heavily disparaged the Bridgerton family. Violet asked Lady Danbury if she could arrange an audience with the queen so Violet could talk to her about Francesca and John. Lady Danbury advised against it, as the queen was already upset about Lady Whistledown. But she said she could try if Violet wanted. Violet said she didn’t have to do that and told Lady Danbury she enjoyed their friendship and not just for what Lady Danbury could do for her. Lady Danbury said that meant a lot to her.
Lady Danbury went home to find Marcus waiting for her. He apologized for sabotaging her escape and said he was only ten years old and didn’t understand what she was running away from. All he knew was that the world was dangerous for young girls and he wanted her to stay longer so he could prove himself to her. He wished he’d stood up to their father for both of them, as he had hurt both of them. She admitted she’d been hard on Marcus because she was finally happy and she worried he’d take that away. He said he wished to be part of her joy and they left to attend Colin and Penelope’s wedding together.
After the wedding, they went to the wedding breakfast, where the queen interrupted. She dismissed everyone except the Bridgertons. Lady Danbury stayed and heard the queen declare that she knew Lady Whistledown was among them and demand that she reveal herself. The queen backed off when Anthony promised he would not have let something like that continue in his house.[27]
Lady Danbury played chess with the queen, who knew she was distracted. The queen asked if Lady Danbury knew who Lady Whistledown was and if that’s why she was defending the Bridgertons, to keep the secret. Lady Danbury said she only meant to suggest that perhaps, Lady Whistledown wasn’t trying to beat the queen at her own game, but instead just trying to stay in the game herself.
Lady Danbury then met with Violet and they talked about Violet seeing Marcus. Lady Danbury said that they didn’t need her approval and she only needed to know that Violet was a good friend. They quietly established that Violet knew that Lady Danbury had had an affair with Violet’s father, but Violet insisted that Lady Danbury was a good friend and her father was a good man and that was all she needed to know. They also agreed they wouldn’t let Marcus come between them.
Lady Danbury attended John and Francesca’s wedding and then the Dankworth-Finch Ball. At the ball, the queen came at Penelope’s request and allowed Penelope to address the crowd and reveal herself as Lady Whistledown. After she explained why she’d done it, the queen said it appeared she’d been humbled and influenced the crowd to agree. Then the queen left. Lady Danbury came to Penelope and admitted that she suspected Penelope was Lady Whistledown, as she knew the Bridgertons well enough to know it wasn’t any of them. She said she looked forward to Penelope’s next issue.[28]
1816 Social Season
As the 1816 social season started, Lady Danbury went to the palace, where she talked to the queen about Violet’s ball, the first of the season, taking up the mantle from Lady Danbury. She asked if the queen was going, but the queen was disinterested in dressing as anyone but herself. When the queen became impatient that Penelope hadn’t arrived, Lady Danbury reminded her she’d only just sent for her.
At the ball, Lady Danbury talked to Violet and discovered that she and Marcus were dressed in the same costume, Zeus.
Later in the evening, Lady Danbury talked to the queen and said that she was fine with Violet taking up her torch because she wanted to step back from society and travel for a while, going to the ancestral home she hadn’t visited since she was four. The queen thought about it and told her no.[29]
Personality
The legendary, acerbic, lioness of a dowager who runs this town. Unconcerned with the rules of polite society, Lady Danbury is a straight shooter – both formidable and a little scary. And while her judgments may be sharp, they’re always accurate. She is a friend of Simon’s late mother, having shown the now Duke a rare kindness when he was a child.
Relationships
Romantic
She was married to Lord Herman Danbury until his death.
She had a brief fling with Lord Ledger.
She was courted by Duke Adolphus before rejecting his proposal and declaring she would never marry again.[6]
Familial
Her father-in-law was a king.[4]
Friendships
Sarah Basset
Lady Danbury was a close friend of Simon’s mother, the Duchess of Hastings. She was at her side when Sarah gave birth to the long-coveted male heir, and saw her die shortly after. Years later, Lady Danbury took Sarah’s son under her wing and helped him grow with the love and affection he lacked from his father.
Violet Bridgerton
When Violet’s daughter, Daphne, was losing her social capital, Lady Danbury proposed the idea to set up Daphne with Simon. They were quite pleased when their plan seemed to have worked, and chatted gleefully about the future in store for Daphne as the new Duchess of Hastings.
Their goals for the following season meshed again when Violet’s eldest son, Anthony, started courting Edwina Sharma, whom Lady Danbury was sponsoring. When Violet learned about the conditions of Edwina’s dowry, she was at first hurt that Lady Danbury had not told her, but they made up after the failed wedding.
Mary Sharma
Lady Danbury sponsored Mary’s daughters for the 1814 social season. Many of the ton were still scandalized by Lady Mary’s presence, after her decision years before to marry a working-class man and single father, rather than the noble gentleman her parents had chosen for her. Lady Danbury was not one of those people. She nudged the queen to select Edwina as the season’s diamond, and advised the older Kate on what she wanted with her life.
Notes and Trivia
- Lady Danbury has royal blood of the Kpa-Mende Bo Tribe in Sierra Leone.[2]
- There are several portraits of Lady Danbury in her home, painted in the style of the period. The artist who did the portraits also stood in for Lady Whistledown during shots that show her handwriting as calligraphy.[30]
- Golda Rosheuvel, who portrays Queen Charlotte, originally auditioned for the part of Lady Danbury.[31]
- Adjoa Andoh, who portrays Lady Danbury, requested that her character wear a hat. Men in the Regency period often had a cane and a hat. Adjoa wanted her character to embody some of the masculine within her feminine, to reflect the position of wealth and power that she had within a society that didn’t allow women a huge amount of freedom.[32]
- Adjoa thinks getting Lady Danbury a love interest would be a good idea.[33]
- In the books, Lady Danbury often uses her cane to poke people and swing around to make a point. Adjoa thinks that if Lady Danbury were to use her cane more often in the show, she would injure someone.[33]
- In the series it has never been made clear what Lady Danbury’s rank is, but in the books she is a countess.
Gallery
| A more complete gallery with pictures of Agatha Danbury (Netflix) can be found here. |
Memorable Quotes
- Lady Danbury: When I was a girl, some centuries ago, I was afraid of my own reflection. I entered a room and attempted to dissolve into the shadows. But there is only so long for one in a position such as ours can hide. I knew that I would have to step into the light someday and I could not very well be frightened. So, instead, I made myself frightening. I sharpened my wit, my wardrobe, and my eye, and I became the most terrifying creature in any room I entered.[7]
- Simon: Neither, it appears, has your ability to somehow hear of every piece of gossip that transpires in this town.
- Lady Danbury: When will you accept it? I know all.[13]
- Lady Danbury: Oh, I do relish a challenge.[14]
- Queen Charlotte: Why do I sense my strings being pulled, Lady Danbury?
- Lady Danbury: You said you wanted to shake up the season. Now is your chance.[14]
- Lady Danbury: Some advice, Miss Sharma? When one is frustrated, it is often much wiser to focus upon satisfying one’s own needs. Attempting to influence others as to the correct course of action, well, it is often a trying and irritating endeavor that only brings out the worst in us before we discover it has been fruitless all along.[15]
- Kate: I watch you. I see you. You are more than content.
- Lady Danbury: Because I have lived a life. I am a widow. I have loved. I have lost. I have earned the right to do whatever I please, whenever I please, and however I please to do it.[15]
- Simon: I must ask you to accept my regrets.
- Lady Danbury: Your regrets…are denied.[8]
- Lady Danbury: I know all that goes on in my home.[14]
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References
- A Bee in Your Bonnet, 2×03
- Gardens in Bloom, 1×05 (QC)
- Queen to Be, 1×01 (QC)
- Honeymoon Bliss, 1×02 (QC)
- Even Days, 1×03 (QC)
- Crown Jewels, 1×06 (QC)
- Shock and Delight, 1×02
- Diamond of the First Water, 1×01
- Art of the Swoon, 1×03
- An Affair of Honor, 1×04
- The Duke and I, 1×05
- Oceans Apart, 1×07
- After the Rain, 1×08
- Capital R Rake, 2×01
- Off to the Races, 2×02
- Victory, 2×04
- An Unthinkable Fate, 2×05
- The Choice, 2×06
- Harmony, 2×07
- The Viscount Who Loved Me, 2×08
- Out of the Shadows, 3×01
- How Bright the Moon, 3×02
- Forces of Nature, 3×03
- Old Friends, 3×04
- Tick Tock, 3×05
- Romancing Mister Bridgerton, 3×06
- Joining of Hands, 3×07
- Into the Light, 3×08
- The Waltz, 4×01
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