ANTHONY AND SIENNA
ANTHONY AND SIENA, NOT [JUST] LUST, BUT REAL LOVE
THE DURATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP
THE DUEL
THE INVITATION TO THE TON BALL
HALLO FOLKS
As my regular readers [Bridgerton Fans and others] know, I post at regular
times about the Life and Times of the successful Bridgerton Netflix TV series! [1]
And although working on another theme I just couldn’t resist this Post!
Because I simply ENJOYED the passionate love and sex scenes between
Anthony Bridgerton, young heir and head of the aristocratic Bridgerton Family and his operasinger Sienna Rosso! [2]
I just LOVED and ENJOYED the Youtube Music scenes,
based on the series, such as them having sex at the box match! [3]
And look for the other Passionate Scenes! [4]/HAHAHAHA
Now the Readers must know I have always felt a certain weakness for impossible loves and love story, as was the Anthony and Siena Rosso Affair.
Why?
Because in Regency Era, a possible marriage between an aristocrat and
an opera singer meant social death to the whole Family [and
Goodbye to the marriage chances of the Family’s daughters], as opera singers were considered immorfal women.
To enjoy with them was one thing.
Marry them completely something else.
And this explains the fierce resistance of Lady Violet, Anthony’s
mother, to his relationship with Siena.
Although loving her son dearly, she has no choice then sacrificing
his happiness for the reputation of the whole family
[5]
But I come to this in a later Post!
LOVE, NOT LUST
As I said, I planned to post on something else,
but suddenly I felt the urge to address this firstly.
REASON:
In a number of comments and Fan discussions I saw the
allegation, that the relationship between Anthony and
Siena was not love, but lust.
AND THAT, DEAR READERS, IS NOT TRUE!
Because defenitely it WAS love….
I won’t go into details about it now, but here I give three
powerful arguments for my analysis.
Because although you see many sex scenes between
Anthony and Siena in Season i, Bridgerton and there relationship certainly
is one of lust and fierce sex, that is not the deep side of the Affair.
Of course, being young, reckless and beautiful, sex is an important
part.
But again
WHY LOVE?
THE DURATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Based on the series, it becomes clear, that the relationship between Anthony and Siena Rosso is not one of two or three weeks, but a lomg time relationship.
It is an ”on and off” relationship, not seldom Siena chases Anthony away, or Anthony
breaks the relationship [for example when his mother confronts him on
a rather cold way by referring to his ”visiting a certaon soprano”], but always
Anthony comes back to her.
Well, when a relationship is ”merely lust”, then it doesn’t last years and years,
despite fierce resistance from your Family [here Anthony’s mother Violet] and the deep social disapproval of the Ton [The British Regency Era aristocracy] [6]
Because ”lust” and ”sex” you can get anywhere, especially being a young Regency Era aristocrat.
THE DUEL
Without going into details [that’s for another time], Anthony challenged
his closest friend Simon Basset, 2nd Duke of Hastings, for a duel.
Reason:
The honour of Anthony’s sister Daphne. [7]
On the Eve of the duel [which never was, but Anthony couldn’t know
that on that moment] [8], he made his younger brother Benedict [who would follow him up after his possible death] [9], swear, that he would always take care for Siena.
WELL, THAT’S MY MOST POWERFUL ARGUMENT!
When you think that you are in your last hour of life [a duel was then
a Matter of Life or Death] then you’ll think of that person, who means the most for you.
He didn’t think of what his death would mean to his mother.
What it would mean to his brothers or sisters.
He thought of Siena.
If it were only lust, she wouldn’t have been one of his last thoughts.
Moreover, he speculated to her what would happened when he had killed
his best friend.
Then he had to flee the country, but he speculated to her, that he and she
would be free to live as they wanted. ”awsay from all the rules that keep
us apart”
So here again:
Not a thought what it would mean to his mother, probably never
have seen her son again.
Not to himself, his doubtless immense feeling of guilt and grief, killing
his best friend.
But what it meant to be together with Siena…..
If it were only ”lust”, he would not have felt this so deeply.
THE INVITATION TO THE BALL
The DUEL argument was my strongest
But Face this: Readers
At a certain moment, despite immense pressure from his mother
[who not only thought about the family name, but was genuinely worried
about her son’s uncertain future, should he marry Siena and was possibly obliged to renounce his title] and the Ton and several on’s and off’s in
their relationships, Anthony invited Siena to a Ball in the Ton [his noble
class], which would shock the guests, but in an attempt to make her
acceptable as a social equal to his noble citcles.
How that ended the reader may google or search-that’s not the issue
here.
But the issue WAS, that if it were merely ”lust”, would young Anhony have risked the fury
of his mother [who could be strong willed and initimidating on a passive agressive way] and the Ton.
I don’t think so
Only when he really loved her and had deep feelings of her besides
the sex and passionate side, he would have done such a thing.
And by the way:
Why can’t they go together?
DEEP LOVE AND LUST?
That’s
For Now
SEE YOU SOON ENOUGH!
ASTRID ESSED
[1]
[2]
[3]
ANTHONY AND SIENNA/SEX AT THE BOX MATCH!
[And of course Anthony followed Sienna and the gentleman…….]
[4]
MUSIC!
MUSIC!
[5]
- A “Passing Fancy”: Violet does not initially realize how deep Anthony’s love for Siena truly goes. She views the relationship as a mere “infatuation” or a whim, failing to recognize the profound heartbreak her son experiences when the affair ends.
- The Threat of Social Death: Essed argues that even if Violet had recognized it as true love, the social reality of the Regency Era left her no choice. A marriage to an opera singer—considered “immoral” by the Ton—would have meant “social death” for the entire family and ruined the marriage prospects of the other seven children.
- Sacrificing Tenderness for Survival: Her fierce resistance is a form of protection. As a matriarch, she feels forced to prioritize the family’s reputation over Anthony’s individual happiness, replacing her usual maternal warmth with a cold, merciless focus on duty.
https://www.astridessed.nl/
[6]
WIKIPEDIA
TON (SOCIETY)
[7]
[8]
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